I'm a 30 and have been in a relationship for over 10 years with a wonderful man, but the last 2 years have been very trying for us as a couple. I don't know if maybe we're out growing each other or what's happening to us. I have some goals that we set together and I also set seperate away from the ones we have together. We have accomplish some but the ones I set for myself I haven't accomplish because I try to make sure everything is in order for him because he did the same for me while I was in college. Well I feel like some things have changed for us. We have always believe that ur significant other is suppose to be ur partner in every aspect of life and we had that, but it don't seem like we have that anymore. He made some financial decisions without me on several occassions that would cause some setbacks for both of us, the worst part is he sees no problem with it. He stop consulting with me on many different things and it causes a distance between us. I try to talk to him about it and he brush it off saying that I'm over reacting about it. Well I feel like if it was life changing and can affect our finances then I'm not gonna brush it off cuz what if it happens again. Well my question to all of u, is how do u talk to ur man about ur feelings without making them feel like ur being their mother or telling them what to do, or is there a way for that to be done. Please give me some advice on this.........