I need advice on how to get over my past mistakes

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  Posted by Appletini Thu Oct 8, 2009 11:26am PDT

  Honestly you need a shrink to explain it and then figure out why you self sabotage.

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  Posted by LUSCIOUS LIZ Thu Oct 8, 2009 11:32am PDT

  you dont sound stupid at all and your not the only one who feels like that. i think i have taken the cake on the stupidest mistake of all time. (too ashamed to admit it on here) just tell yourself that what ever you have done 1. your a better person for admitting your mistake 2. your mistakes make you who you are and good people will like you for that and 3. someone out there has made an even bigger mistake than you. so chin up superwoman

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  Posted by Super Abuelita Thu Oct 8, 2009 11:37am PDT

  You need to forgive yourself first. We ALL make stupid istakes, but are likely

  NOT to make them again, IF we forgive ourselves,

  You deserve to do this for yourself.

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  Posted by hotNspicy Thu Oct 8, 2009 11:38am PDT

  Maybe your being to hard on yourself. No one in this whole world is perfect. All you can do is try to be a better person from here on. Stay away from people and lifestyles that made you act out those mistakes and don't do on to others you don't want done to you. Think before you act on something and remember that everything has its concequences . I hope this helps. Last thing forgive yourself so you can move past whatever is bothering you.

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  Posted by Superwoman Thu Oct 8, 2009 11:57am PDT

  The advices are really helpful thank you everyone.

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  Posted by Sorrymum Thu Oct 8, 2009 12:12pm PDT

  And remember - we are human beings: we make mistakes. All of us.

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  Posted by jen Thu Oct 8, 2009 12:18pm PDT

  What you need to do (if you haven't already) is be honest with yourself and figure out exactly what your mistake was. Once you've figured that out, you'll be able to figure out what to do about them. This is one of the hardest lessons I've learned, and sometimes, someone's had to tell me straight.

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  Posted by MsKeIsHa Thu Oct 8, 2009 12:25pm PDT

  Hey Honey, thanks so much for responding to my blog.Okay okay now lets get to you...

  As you was reading my blog I stated that I have made mistakes in my life that I truly regret but we are human that lives in trial and error. Whatever you have done yesterday, leave that to yesterdays news and look forward to today and plan for tomorrow...Making it all better

  You will get thru it girly! Just stay stong and believe and remember that we all are human and no one is perfect!

  Just keep on keeping on babygirl! Ms Keisha here you know how to reach me via blog do that whenever you need to hear the real!

  Your Blog Sister, Ms Keisha!

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  Posted by Diana Thu Oct 8, 2009 12:46pm PDT

  Ii think what you want to examine is the what was the thinking process that led you to make these mistakes? Reflecting on our mistakes generally causes pain, but pain is growth. We all have made mistakes in our lives that have adversely affected other people, but forgive yourself, you did the very best you could at the time even if it doesn't seem so.

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  Posted by Superwoman Thu Oct 8, 2009 12:58pm PDT

  To evryone who say to leave the past in the past that's easier said than done. Especially when family members,the shows on tv(some of the topics are about what your going through are constantly remindidng you that you did wrong. That hurts

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