i need your help

Ryan is my boyfriend. But here's the thing, we have been dating for almost 6 weeks that's it and we have been through a lot to keep our relationship together. There have been people who have tried to break us up and there have been fights between us about the dumbest things. And honestly i think that I really have started not to like him anymore. i don't know what i can do. we have time to ourselves sometimes and i keep thinking that if we just hang out the 2 of us it would be a lot easier to figure out why i liked him in the first place. then i start to think "why am i even worrying about trying to figure out this and not just break up with him if i dont like him anymore?" but there is something holding me back from breaking up with him. and it is really killing me not to know why i cant? what do you think?
and i cant even have a real conversation with him. but here is another thing: i think that i kinda like one of his best friends. his friend nate seems like my perfect kind of guy. we (nate, katelynn aka a date for nate, me and ryan) went to the movies and nate told me i looked really really pretty and ryan just told me that i looked prepy and that he hates prepy people.
so my questions are: why cant i break up with rayn or should i?
and: if nate likes me too, would it be bad if we started going out?
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  • karmA*'s Avatar
    Posted by karmA* Thu Jul 24, 2008 9:48am PDT

    i think that u shud listen to what ur heart is

    tryna tell u and also listen to ur gut too...

    what do u think is best 4 u?..

    in life people get hurt but so what they move on,..rite i know that

    i have :)

    trust me and what im tryna tell u ,ok

    i know that u barely know me but so what im tryna help that's

    all,...ok

    hope everything works out:)

    bye-

    karmA*

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  • Glo's Avatar
    Posted by Glo Fri Jul 25, 2008 12:21am PDT

    My advice, break up! If you liked him it would be different. Why R U racking your brain on why or how it all started, bottom line it's over the minute you said "I don't Like him". Can't get any easier then that to let go of someone. Also break all ties. Meaning, don't date the best friend! Why would you want to enter into a relationship where your ex is your new boyfriends best friend, does that make sense to U? Do you really think Ryan would'nt be around trying to ruin anything you and Nate start. Just move!! Go fishing there's to many fish in the sea.

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  • amber1's Avatar
    Posted by amber1 Sat Jul 26, 2008 6:10am PDT

    i think u can jst tell him u need a break and see other people and see how that gos

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