Tuesday, February 9, 2010

I would never SNATCH MY FRIENDS GUY!!

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i am 26yr old female, a doc by profession.i completed my studies last December. i had a crush on this guy in class, after some time we ended up becoming great friends.deep down i liked him but just thought it to be a crush.in the last semester he and i got together at a friend`s place and from then we actually started liking each other,this may sound like puppy love but we shared a good chemistry.i`v never been so close to anyone,emotionally.we gelled very well.but the whole thing couldn't work out because our homes are quite distant apart.he never committed.i asked him but he did not show any response. i was quite angry with him and my own stupid self.i was so much deep in love that i couldnt bear the separation.its been almost 2yrs now we departed.we kept on mails,phone calls n sms.but slowly hes withdrawn.i cannot take it. between i have a real close friend, shes going around with a guy since say 4yrs.that guy has not been showing a lot of interest in getting married to her.they both are quite close to me.now i don't know how we picked up a fight on a silly issue but i never ever expected that what she said.i was told i don't have a guy thats why my life is so miserable.i am jealous of others.she thinks i might snatch him away and thats absolutely not true,hes like a brother to me.she told me i cannot be steady with a person and i am a loser. both of us been kindergarten buddies and we`v seen each other go through so much.but now when i am alone shes thinking i am a loser. my friendship is suffering a lot.i dont want to go in search of love,i want it to come naturally when its the right time.she insults me quite a lot in front of him.i cannot bear it.please help.

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  • Mauna's Avatar
    Posted by Mauna Mon Nov 23, 2009 7:10am PST

    Your friend, the one who is calling you a loser, is the loser...which proves that those who are immature and do not understand all that is entailed in a relationship and how it 'works' (as since their relationship is working and is good, and you are not on the same boat as they)should not be sharing professional like advice to their friends, I learned this a long time ago, just by observing my own past girlfriends, and the games, and competitions they played with not only their own girlfriends (in proving a saracastic point to them), but perhaps to themselves as well, which if I was in their shoes who help to show myself the truer colors of my soul...that I was being nothing more than a complete fool and disrespectful to my own temple. What benefit is that when you have a friend of this nature?

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  • madyx's Avatar
    Posted by madyx Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:18am PST

    I do not know you but you seem to be a realy good person and I am sory u got treated this way. I suggest that you stop talking to your friend and keep your distance; trying to be around her will hurt you some more. There is a God, and trust me as good as you are you will find someone who will make you happy.

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  • Lil Wootie's Avatar
    Posted by Lil Wootie Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:33am PST

    yo omg I just wrote the saddest girliest blog ever!!! You should totally go check it out!!!

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  • MA's Avatar
    Posted by MA Mon Nov 23, 2009 5:29pm PST

    I'm sorry, but she is not your friend. She said that you're jealous of others and may snatch a guy away, i think somewhere she's jealous of you-= perhaps of the relationship that you have with her bf. Only immature girls would respond like that, not a mature woman. I'm sorry, but she's not your friend, u have some serious thinking to do.

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