Is it okay for celebs to be single?

ranco Origlia/Getty Images

ranco Origlia/Getty Images


We know we're guilty of matchmaking for serial-dater Jennifer Aniston, but in reality, it is sort of irritating the way the press handles single celebs. Instead of being praised for their hard work and the projects they're involved with, they're shunned for getting dumped and being unlucky in love, or considered weird for (gasp!) enjoying being unattached.

At a press conference in Venice for his new movie, "Burn After Reading," reporters barraged Brad Pitt about his new twins. Next they turned to his buddy/co-star George Clooney and asked if he had any plans to settle down. "I am so surprised to hear that question. That is honestly the first time I've been asked that question," joked Clooney. "I am getting married and having children today."

In the real world, we know how hard it can be juggling work and relationships, and that sometimes you need to focus on your career to advance. Many celebrities (alleged home-wrecker Sienna Miller, maneater Kate Hudson, and sexually ambiguous Lindsay Lohan) could probably benefit from a little time off the dating field. Even Lindsay's dad, Michael Lohan, says, "My daughter isn't working because she's always with Sam [Ronson]. Even my ex-wife knows it. She just isn' doing anything about it."

Stars around the world, we have some advice for you. Don't fret being single! Make like class acts Leonardo DiCaprio or Nicole Kidman and bring a relative as your red carpet date. Get your careers on track to where you want it to be. That sea full of famous fish will be waiting for you when you're done.

Do you think it's okay for celebs to be single? [Perez][OMG]
Syndication:

From the Community…

Comments 1-10 of 56
  • Teena's Avatar
    Posted by Teena Wed Aug 27, 2008 9:55pm PDT

    Of course, it's OK, but it obviously has its ups and downs! For one, they get lots of attention because of their availability in the market and for a while, the match-making efforts are cute. But on the other hand, being constantly available makes you a target once they reach a certain age when marriage and children are supposed to be their priority.

    Report Abuse
  • Whew's Avatar
    Posted by Whew Thu Aug 28, 2008 6:50am PDT

    It's okay for anyone (not just celebrities) to be single. I know that many single people constantly get grilled about it and others are always asking when are you going to get married and have kids. Some people just don't need that in their life or feel that it reflects who they are as a person. I am a firm believer in marriage don't get me wrong, I just feel that each person should be able to choose what is right for them without having to always be on the defense.

    Report Abuse
  • Sweet T's Avatar
    Posted by Sweet T Thu Aug 28, 2008 7:44am PDT

    NO, it's never okay to be single. We must always have a partner in our lives, even if we're not in the right place or with the right person.*

    Seriously, this is the dumbest post I've read in a while. Being single is not like having some strange disease; it's a lifestyle. It doesn't make anyone any better or worse than anyone else-that's entirely dependent on the person, as it is with married people, divorcees, widows/widowers, etc. I don't think Hollywood cares if they have our permission to be single, just as I don't care if other people look down on me for being single. I've never had to validate my life with a significant other, whether that's "okay" with the general public or not.

    *Sarcasm

    Report Abuse
  • Jasmine's Avatar
    Posted by Jasmine Thu Aug 28, 2008 9:17am PDT

    Well I think that after you crossed a certain threshold of age (and that can vary depending on where you come from) people start asking questions. If you are not in a relationship, they figure something must be WRONG or mabey mabey your just plain unhappy! Why does it have to be that way? Everyone has there own path and it just might not involved being tied down by social pressures! Just a thought .. .

    Report Abuse
  • MochaMama42's Avatar
    Posted by MochaMama42 Thu Aug 28, 2008 9:50am PDT

    It's always okay to be single, whether you are an international celebrity like George Clooney or just the local celebrity at your neighborhood Starbucks.

    Dating can be very stressful and sometimes, we can come to realize we enjoy our own company over HAVING to be with someone else to define ourselves.

    THat's the problems with celebrities who haven't really found the acting success they desire -- they are too busy "chasing" a relationship. And yes, "mere" mortals do it also. lol

    I agree with George Clooney, that is a crazy question because he has stated in countless interviews that he has no desire to marry again. It seems as though his status as a "confirmed bachelor" shouldn't even be a QUESTION, but a GIVEN.

    Report Abuse
  • anuushu's Avatar
    Posted by anuushu Thu Aug 28, 2008 10:54am PDT

    This question is ridiculous.

    Who has the right to judge anybody for being single?

    Report Abuse
  • JaneD's Avatar
    Posted by JaneD Thu Aug 28, 2008 12:45pm PDT

    absolutly not! not only must celebrities NOT be single, they must indulge in polyamory and orgies on a daily basis or risk punnishment such as community service, a thousand dollar fine, of a 3-month sentace to life as a cubicle-dwelling non-celebrity nobody.

    lol.

    Report Abuse
  • monty2209128's Avatar
    Posted by monty2209128 Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:43pm PDT

    If he's happy with his life than, why ask him to change his status to appease the world. Some probably want him to get marry so they can have some new gossip to talk about and write about.

    Report Abuse
  • Kris Tina's Avatar
    Posted by Kris Tina Thu Aug 28, 2008 6:41pm PDT

    Where's the difference here? be it a celebrity or not?

    I think, if a nun were to be a celebrity, she would be single and still should be accepted.

    If that's ok, then it all comes down to the person to himself and with God.

    P.S , would be nice if everyone has someone.

    Report Abuse
  • Disgruntled's Avatar
    Posted by Disgruntled Thu Aug 28, 2008 6:54pm PDT

    Of course it's OK to be single. Why is it even news? I remember George Clooney stating in interviews years ago that he never planned on getting married again. At least he's consistent. There is far too much pressure on people to get married and have children. Everyone only has one life and they should be allowed to live it how they want.

    Report Abuse
Comments 1-10 of 56

leave your comment

You must sign in to post a comment

Sign In for personalized information

New User? Sign Up

Health Byte

You know you need to hydrate. But is the water you're drinking safe? Here are 7 ways to be sure your water's fit for you.