Friday, December 11, 2009

Is it okay for celebs to be single?

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We know we're guilty of matchmaking for serial-dater Jennifer Aniston, but in reality, it is sort of irritating the way the press handles single celebs. Instead of being praised for their hard work and the projects they're involved with, they're shunned for getting dumped and being unlucky in love, or considered weird for (gasp!) enjoying being unattached.

At a press conference in Venice for his new movie, "Burn After Reading," reporters barraged Brad Pitt about his new twins. Next they turned to his buddy/co-star George Clooney and asked if he had any plans to settle down. "I am so surprised to hear that question. That is honestly the first time I've been asked that question," joked Clooney. "I am getting married and having children today."

In the real world, we know how hard it can be juggling work and relationships, and that sometimes you need to focus on your career to advance. Many celebrities (alleged home-wrecker Sienna Miller, maneater Kate Hudson, and sexually ambiguous Lindsay Lohan) could probably benefit from a little time off the dating field. Even Lindsay's dad, Michael Lohan, says, "My daughter isn't working because she's always with Sam [Ronson]. Even my ex-wife knows it. She just isn' doing anything about it."

Stars around the world, we have some advice for you. Don't fret being single! Make like class acts Leonardo DiCaprio or Nicole Kidman and bring a relative as your red carpet date. Get your careers on track to where you want it to be. That sea full of famous fish will be waiting for you when you're done.

Do you think it's okay for celebs to be single? [Perez][OMG]
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  • Reese's Avatar
    Posted by Reese Thu Aug 28, 2008 11:50pm PDT

    I think it's perfectly fine to be single. I actually plan on being single for the rest of my life as well and I have to agree with the previous comments, why must it be if you're not in a relationship at a certain age something must be wrong with you? There's nothing wrong with me; I just don't feel like being bothered by having to be with someone settled down and possibly have the question of kids brought up. I don't want any damn kids. I like being commitment-free leading me to focus on my career more and that's what comes first to me. I've worked too hard with my first love "my career" to have to eventually end up compromising with someone to make a relationship work because all relationships need compromise and I don't want to have to report where I'm going, when I'll be back and so on. I want to have a nice big bed to myself, and a quiet house after a long day; I shouldn't have to report to anyone but myself.

    I have plenty of friends and family to fill the love and such in my life and if I feel like being bothered with kids I'll go to my friend's house and play with hers until I get tired and give them back. I'm right with Clooney and everyone else, it's your choice. And it's so much more of a headache because it's a little more accepted to be single for a man than it is a woman especially with having kids as well. It's just not something that represents who I am. I've never had sex, I've never had a BF or any type of relationship and I'm going to keep it that way. There has never been a genuine lonely or regretful feeling in my life with my choice and there will never be because I know myself. And sometimes I feel bad for my friends because they are in these so-called "relationships" and can't do what I can. I admire Clooney and Leo :). I'm a confirmed Bachelorette :D.

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  • PointMaker's Avatar
    Posted by PointMaker Fri Aug 29, 2008 3:31am PDT

    I have read many wise observations here. Myself, I'll take unhappily single to unhappily married any day. Not everyone that is single wants to be anymore than everyone who is married wants to be. People that can't understand that are too simple to waste much time on.

    Becoming desperate, or worse, being driven to desperation by busy bodies is no fun. Who wants to marry someone who "just has to get married"? Some people really want and even need a deep and meaningful relationship not just someone to blame their unhappiness on.

    Right now there are as many single people of marrying age as there are married people. So its clearly not for everybody. You can't always get what you want. You can't always want what you get.

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  • toxicmeg91's Avatar
    Posted by toxicmeg91 Fri Aug 29, 2008 8:17am PDT

    i'm single & i love it!

    single is a personal choice not one that requires asking permission from everyone else to see if they're okay with it.

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  • ANTHONY's Avatar
    Posted by ANTHONY Fri Aug 29, 2008 8:27am PDT

    nicole kidman is married and having a kid, bad example.

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  • John's Avatar
    Posted by John Fri Aug 29, 2008 8:27am PDT

    WHO CARES?!? These people get entirely too much attention. Just because they excel at playacting, we're supposed to immerse ourselves in their every move? That's why I block the E channel. People and the media need to get lives and stop prying into the lives of others. This obsession must end.

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  • ron d's Avatar
    Posted by ron d Fri Aug 29, 2008 8:29am PDT

    ITS OK.

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  • Kevin M's Avatar
    Posted by Kevin M Fri Aug 29, 2008 8:32am PDT

    Yes it's okay to be single. Even though the bible says, "it is not good for man to be alone" and ministers have preached that we were made for relationships. People have the free will to remain alone. It's their choice, their life and it is really one else's business.

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  • Kevin M's Avatar
    Posted by Kevin M Fri Aug 29, 2008 8:33am PDT

    ...It is better to be single and happy than to be in a relationship and miserable.

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  • Jane H's Avatar
    Posted by Jane H Fri Aug 29, 2008 8:35am PDT

    What is the big deal about a celebrity or non-celebrity's marital status? Its so ridiculous, I am not going to address it.

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  • Michaelp's Avatar
    Posted by Michaelp Fri Aug 29, 2008 8:35am PDT

    THE BLAME IS ON STUPID QUESTIONS, BY STUPID REPORTING, BY STUPID NEWSPAPERS.

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