Tuesday, February 9, 2010

is my boyfriend still into me??

first and foremost, i am a 17 year old teen. i have a (Jan) bf for almost 2 years and i thought we can still be happy same as before. i always expect him to this and that but suddenly, when i talked to Jimboy (neighbor) who's older than me..i think he's 24 or 25 and he said he wanted to court me if i was older..
he shared his pasts to me as a boyfriend.. and i also did..
he said that my bf is tired already...y?

    -- he doesn't text me often...unlike before
    -- he's not visiting me here at my house anymore...
    -- he prefers to play that damn game (DOTA) than to text or call me... and it pisses me off.!!

unfortunately, he said he can't understand his self coz he feels different...not like before..

he loves me but it's not like before..
its like...i dont know how to explain this...

but im thinking...

am i going to call it off or go on with this reationship..

i mean...he loves me...he always say that..

i also do..

but he's kinda tired...

we're almost two years and i just knew it...a while ago..

what am i going to do..?
if letting him go breaks me...
am i going to believe he still loves me?
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  • jizabel's Avatar
    Posted by jizabel Mon Sep 8, 2008 1:12pm PDT

    i think that you should just still keep trying if he doesnt show interest than you should and dont be scared to talk to him about it bring it up to him and talk about it but dont turn it into an arguement that will just make things worse do things that make him know you love him as much as you tell him but dont give up you'll see things will be just fine!

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  • Bvan's Avatar
    Posted by Bvan Thu Dec 11, 2008 5:37pm PST

    I think Jimboy has thrown in his fishing line and is reeling you in. Do not be influenced by him, see beyond what's in front of you. He has said to things you should be careful about. 1st he said he would date you, in the future. Then he's telling you how your boyfriend feels. You are starting to justify you future actions as well, be saying your boyfriend is tired, you expect this, so on and so forth. Be careful, don't act hastly, think out your situation and be true to yourself, don't make excuses, don't think for others. Lay on the table with your boyfriend, ask him straight up, tell him how you feel and then make your decision. Don't break up me cause of what you think, or what others think. Break up because you talked it out and you've reached this conclusion. You then, if you break up, will walk away with a clean conscious about the break up.

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