So my daughters second birthday is tomorrow and we are so
excited to celebrate... then comes tuesday which im sure will be a
day for celebration as well... My divorce hearing is scheduled for
8 am on tuesday morning... I am so excited but fearful of what will
happen... Since I found out about her father using drugs again he
hasn't gotten to see her. Which I believe I have every right to
not let him see her. I was going to let him see her today
because he birthday is tomorrow but he blew that when He started
doing drugs again. So we are planning on having a awesome party and
then court day I am hoping all goes well... I am going to petition
the judge for full custody and supervised visitations... I do not
trust him to let him be alone with her... so I hope all goes
well... Do you think I am being to harsh on him for the drug
problem and the fact that he chooses to spend his money on drugs
instead of paying child support to help me with his daughter??? Or
am I right to be angry and not let him see her??? what do you guyst
think????
Ash
Monday, December 14, 2009
Is this finally over???
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Posted by Sat May 16, 2009 11:29pm PDT
Report AbuseNo I think your doing the right thing.Now if he can't get his stuff together and keep it that way then u can ease up but not befor then. he made a choice to lay with u and make her he should support her just like u are doing drug or nor drug problem... he made a choice to do drugs over his child.. so do ur thing and congrats find u a man who will luv the both of u and treat u the way u know u should be treated.. keep the loser a way until he gets better and if his child is imporant to him he will do the right thing and if not ur doing her a favor in the long run.. u only want well todo people around ur kid not losers.. so u go girl..
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Posted by Sun May 17, 2009 1:54am PDT
Report Abuseletting him see her while he is not ok can damage her. my brothers and i went thru that as kids....it wasnt until my younger brother was 14 that my mother FINALLY had the fathers rights removed (sorry i wont refer to him as my father, hes a piece). supervised visits are ok....but id say after 2 years if he doesnt clean up his act, start to petition to remove his rights. if he cant be a good dad your daughter is better without....keep in mind, if you need a male figure in her life an uncle or grandfather work just as well.
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