Tuesday, February 9, 2010

KISS MY GLASS by J MONTANA



With the holidays immediately impending, we will have bad days. The “ S ” word comes to mind. The word is Stress. Family, Friends, and our dwindling budgets, will be on our minds. I read an interesting article online a few days ago. It suggested when you are having a bad day, for you not to try to make it better. The article expressed that you should make your day worse. I was skeptical. I continued to read. The article moved forward to explain, for us not to wallow in misery . Furthermore, to make it work for us. I admit, it sounds strange.

We know that a bad day can seem like heck. Those days, when we just want to lay in bed and try to feel better, are gone. I was alarmed to read that the article advertised for us not to try to feel better. The article suggested that when you have a bad day, do all the things that you have been putting off. You know, those things that you hate to do? Make a list of the things that you have put off due to procrastination. Work the list! Try to get as many things on your grudge list that you feasibly can.

The chronicle went on the suggest, we just do things, that we should have been doing all along. Things like: Go through the house. Rip all your sheets off the bed and wash them. Scrub the walls and floors. Paint the garage. Take time to sit down and pay the bills. Make your doctor’s appointments. Clean out your car. Mow the lawn.

I was not impressed, at first, by the suggestions. I mean after all, who wants to do all those calamitous things in the first place? If I am upset, I just want to punch a hole in the wall. Hey, maybe a kick boxing class would help out? I understand the sentiment behind the article’s advice. I was not able to imagine, at first, anyone willing to try this. I spoke to a friend of ours on Yahoo! Shine. She said , It did make sense.

The narrative progressed, to account to us, to relax, after an extremely productive day. I would be amazed at how many things that I normally procrastinated about. I am wondering; if I take the advice -- “Would I be surprised by how much I was able to get done, all in one day?”

At the end of the article, the author continued to explain that instead of being a victim to our bad day, we should make it very prolific. The writer closed by recommending, we refresh our "bad day” to do list, for the next time we get bent.

I am questioning, if it would work. I will try this the next time I have a bad day. I would imagine, I could save the world having that attitude. I will not try to make my day better. I will make my day worse. This sounds like it could be fun. When I have a bad day, I feel like saying: “Kiss my Glass!” I am going to make this count! 

How do you cope with a bad day?

Would you consider: making your day worse, to have a more productive day?

Or, would you still want to eat chocolate ice cream and cry in front of the television?


























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  • Ada Shadow~Dark pearl's Avatar
    Posted by Ada Shadow~Dark pearl Mon Nov 23, 2009 8:58am PST

    Hmm... When I have a bad day, I just tell others that I'm don't feel like doing anything, and just be alone and do my homework. Not sure of doing things that I want could help.

    But I remember this one time that when I was so damn upset, I wanted to punch a pillow. Instead, my mom suggested to wash the dishes. I thought that she was just using me so that she wouldn't do it, but it... somehow.. got my mind off my bad day, and I was feeling okay. I learned that doing chores help me, in a wierd kinda way. Can;t explain it, but it helps. It's much more better than sitting inside my room alone thinking about my day.

    I guess, when you;re doing something that you don't like on your bad day, it keep syour mind off of other things BUT the thing, or chore, that you're working on at the moment. Don't know if that sentence makes sence, but that's what I think.

    Great post, J! As always, awesome! The little superman squirrel is sooo cute!!!!! hahaha!!!

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  • *GoldenGirl*™'s Avatar
    Posted by *GoldenGirl*™ Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:07am PST

    Would I do any of those things if I were having a bad day, hhmm. Not sure, had alot of bad days a while back, hopefully not too many bad days ahead. Alot of the time I like to be alone, but that just causes heavy thinking and that can be bad. I try to take my mind of something bad by thinking it could be worse and I do have a roof over my head and a job and food in my tummy and alot of people dont even have that and thats really sad and bad. so I try to think positive. I still get mad or sad but it usually doesnt last too long. But I do have a garage that could use some attention next time I am having a bad day.

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  • lilpiggy1969's Avatar
    Posted by lilpiggy1969 Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:10am PST

    ok Sweetie I'm going to try this my life is crap right now so I'm going to finish my smoke and go wash dishes, already washing clothes. If this helps I am so not telling my hubby I wouldn't get pampered as much lol

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  • lilpiggy1969's Avatar
    Posted by lilpiggy1969 Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:14am PST

    Please be praying for us, my son has knee surgery this week. 1 that he is ok and it gets back to 100%, he has several schools after him for football next year. 2 I don't kill psycho mom after spending the whole day with her at hospital lol

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  • J Montana™'s Avatar
    Posted by J Montana™ Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:14am PST

    Thank you, Ada!

    Your mom is a smart lady!

    Listen to her.

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  • Habanero♥™'s Avatar
    Posted by Habanero♥™ Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:15am PST

    J: It worked this time and I say Thank You. It was wonderful.

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  • J Montana™'s Avatar
    Posted by J Montana™ Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:15am PST

    *GG*,

    I am not sure that it would work. We can try, right? LOL

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  • Ada Shadow~Dark pearl's Avatar
    Posted by Ada Shadow~Dark pearl Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:21am PST

    Thanks J! I know she is. =].

    Lil' Piggy, I wil pray for your son. I sure hope he gets well soon!

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  • J Montana™'s Avatar
    Posted by J Montana™ Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:23am PST

    Lilpiggy,

    I will pray for you & The family. I hope your son heals Fast!

    *Muah!

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  • J Montana™'s Avatar
    Posted by J Montana™ Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:23am PST

    Hab,

    You are welcome.

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