Hey,
      Everyone in cyber world. This is just a bit of what I feel and a little bit of motivation to those who might need it. 
   I've come to realise that that we might sometimes identify certain things in life as failures and in reality they're are not. They are stepping stones to help us to get to where we are destined to be and some times we see those as failures and instead we spend time in the valley of regret that could od been spent moving on to our next destination in time. It's much easier said than done but always prepare for the worst and hope for the best. So that in the event that the worst happens one would not be in complete and utter shock resulting in a bad reaction that could possibly stick on you for the rest of your life. 
    It's harsh...many people refuse to except that reality but prevention is always better than cure. To all the teenagers out there who think you've got it figured out..the most important think you can do for yourselves and everyone esle is to shut up and listen. Your mission now as far as relationships with family friends and whoever else is to find out "who really for you". Meaning who really loves you no matter what "ride or die" will support no matter how mant times you fall, they will be right there to help you up when you fall or try to catch you before you do. Most of  the time it is your parents but the harsh reality is that not all parents are like that. They put there ambitions before you. Now it is up to you to be what they could never be or refuse to be and stay strong maintain a good head, a sound mind and be determined to follow your goals. And always always have a back up plan. I am not promising that it would be easy but for most of us nothing good comes easy. For God's sake don't be naive..it will cost you. Let me give you some examples:
         You see this guy  you like and your not really sure that he likes you and you do your best for him to notice you and when he finally does, the only thing hes hinting on is having sex not in those exact words but you decide to hang around anyway.Now i know you know the unthinkable things that could happen. Then you think about how dumb and naive you were afterwards. By then you could have had some irreversible damage either mentally or physically. Be smart, be conscious of your sitautions and surroundings at all times. Think logic and think everything over as if it were it was you last examination to determine whether you past your class or not.