Well I think I did the right thing. I broke up with the ex! I mean
i was told by so many to do so before but I was blind to the
horrible situation i was locked in. I can now say I am very happy
with somebody who loves me for me, the person I really am. Not some
city slicker that I was trying to be. I had changed so much for my
old bf, but now I am going back to my roots and I am FOREVER
REDNECK!! But now I have a problem. My bf and I have decided to
take a break because of some issues that he has encountered with
his past. He loves me and I know he does but he keeps saying that
he doesn't want to hurt me because in his mind he is ending up
like his ex stepfather. He thinks that somehow he is going to be
abusive and somehow hurt me in more then one way. He is a
sweetheart and he is a really great guy, he is no where near like
his old stepfather.
We have decided to take a break so he can find himself for who he
is and not who he thinks he is becoming. I am going to save myself
for him and I was wondering if I was doing the right thing. I mean
I want to stop looking for the "one". I'm tired of
heart breaks. I have no idea if I should just give up or hold on
until he can love me as himself not for the blocks in his mind and
heart.
ThanX for reading and ThanX for any advice is it welcomed...
ThanX Again
Horsluv_57
Sunday, December 6, 2009
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Posted by Wed Oct 28, 2009 12:49pm PDT
Report Abusekelli, it sounds more like he is breaking away from you...the old 'its me not you' excuse. i don't know how old you are but i hope your not holding your breath. love hurts. go about your life and find something that really makes you happy that doesn't have a penis between its legs. if he really does have issues, you can't fix them for him. i'm not a manhater, i've just learned that sometimes you just need to walk away while your sanity is still in one piece. good luck honey....ps...maybe your soulmate is the guy who you meet after this guy is gone!
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Posted by Wed Oct 28, 2009 1:02pm PDT
Report AbuseThat is just an excuse....Or he needs counseling if he is telling you the truth. I say move on, its a Red flag. You don not need this guy. Move on and in time you well be so glad you did. And in time you well find someone with out issues and excuses. More into you. Let him go. Trust me, he is not the one for you....
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