Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Should teens have jobs?

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So, we've talked about how tough it is for teens to find jobs this summer, but beneath that dilemma is the underlying question: Should teens work? I'm not sure when that became a question since it is clearly a query posed among families with the means to make it debatable. But as teens get more involved in school activities, AP classes, and volunteer work as they prepare for college, fitting a part time job into the mix gets challenging.

You can rationalize work away for teens easily because they can get plenty busy with school and activities. But I am a big believer in the need for teens to do some paid work for several reasons, and they're not all about money. Sure, top of the list of reasons is the ability to earn money and manage money by deciding how much to keep for spending (and what to spend it on), and how much to save for educational or other goals. But by working in a variety of jobs, teens are exposed to all kinds of people, managers, and working conditions.

In high school, I worked at a food store, and learned quickly how to get along with people who were nasty, angry, or just plain not having a good day. I learned how hard it is to stand on your feet for several hours at a clip, and what it's like to not be able to take a break whenever you feel like it. I also was able to save up enough money to pay for books and expenses when I got to college. At a time when kids are already crafting resumes and thinking about how certain experiences will give them an edge in the college-application craziness, I still think working in a service-industry job is important training for just about anything in life.

Like all good things in life, the answer to the teen-work question is not yes or no but moderation. Thomas Hine, the author of "The Rise and Fall of the American Teenager," tells Caroline Wilbert on Divine Caroline that some work is good but too much is not. He also recommends that parents be involved in helping teens budget their money so they save for future goals. But he agrees it's important for teens to learn how to work with all kinds of people, though he thinks it's better if they work with more adults instead of working around a bunch of teenagers in a fast-food joint or the like. “One of the good things that work does is it gives you an opportunity to work in an arena that is not school, to be responsible, to be depended on, to be judged,” Hine said.

To build a good work ethic, kids have to actually work, be it doing chores at home, or volunteering steadily for an organization in the community, or working a paid job. A survey of managers by SnagAJob.com found that 56 percent of them agree with the statement, "today's youth do not have the same work ethic as previous generations have had."

If you've gotten past the point of debating whether teens should work and want to figure out how to make it fit well in their lives, here are some guidelines from the Child Labor Coalition:

Under 14

  • no work -- concentrate on school, family, and other activities.

14- and 15-year-olds

  • summer employment: no more than 6 hours per day; 30 hours per week.
  • employment during the school year: no more than 3 hours per day; 15 hours per week.

16- and 17-year-olds

  • summer employment: no more than 8 hours per day; 40 hours per week.
  • employment during the school year: no more than 4 hours per day; 20 hours per week.
So let's hear it. Where do you stand on teens and jobs? Should they work, and what kinds of jobs offer the best kind of experience? And how many hours are too many hours to work?
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  • DIAMOND's Avatar
    Posted by DIAMOND Mon Jul 7, 2008 2:49am PDT

    I'm 17 and starting my second summer job, I think it is great for teens to work, it gives up a sense of maturity and responsibility. We can gain work experience, how to act in the work place and deal with other personalities. I have for me, I love working, I can pay for my own things and not bother my parents for it, so teens should have jobs. You don't want them coupe up somewhere do you?

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  • Mmgirl's Avatar
    Posted by Mmgirl Mon Jul 7, 2008 6:07am PDT

    I have been working various jobs since I was 11. Teenagers today are overindulgent whiners that really need to learn some responsibility. Of course they should be working!

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  • Cursed Romantic's Avatar
    Posted by Cursed Romantic Mon Jul 7, 2008 12:38pm PDT

    I agree and sort of disagree that teens need jobs. I mean personally I have never worked at an official job during my teen years, frankly because my education was that much more important to me than actually getting money. Not only that but when I have too many assignments and extra tasks to do, I tend to hyperventilate and can not focus as well. So if I was at work I would no doubt be making mistakes worrying over a school project or something. So I know what type of person that I am and can't be stretched too thin by certain demands. I did do chores around the house and got allowance and that was fine enough for me. I do also agree about the work ethics and different skills that kids can learn from having jobs, which is all well and good. But I think nowadays times have changed, instead of kids really learning the work ethics and money management skills, they are more about getting a job and car and stuff so they can THINK/FEEL they are as grown as their parents. I mean I have heard from some friends younger siblings that their parents can't tell them what to do, because they have a job and a car and cell phone and so they THINK they can get out and be as grown as any 35 year old at 16. I mean even some think its a-ok to bring guys or girls home and disrespect their parents homes and all that, all because they have a little job. So I do have to ask and wonder, is the work ethics, independence and the like that come with teens having a job, really worth it today? I mean the mentality of today's teens have definitely changed and so instead of empowering kids in a positive way, its only making them more cocky and most don't even know their place as kids anymore. I won't say its the job's fault really, maybe it is something to do with the parenting styles lately, but either way, I still think by giving a teen more responsibilities today is like adding more fuel to the fire of how they are acting lately. And until the mentality changes, I think its only going to get worse.

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  • Cursed Romantic's Avatar
    Posted by Cursed Romantic Mon Jul 7, 2008 12:54pm PDT

    I definitely agree with all of this: "I feel that it goes back to having kids in general. Did you decide to have children so you could put them to work as soon as they were of age? Believe me, i know the expenses. I have 4 kids ranging from newborn to 14. When you decide to have children you also decide to care for and support those kids. You are responsible for them. If they want to work then great...it does give them all sorts of benefits but expecting them to work is another thing. I employ quite a few teenagers and hear all the horror stories. They have to work to pay for school clothes, lunch money and car insurance. Hey, if they want $75 jeans then yeah...fork it over but as parents we are responsible for their basic needs. If we expect them to work and to be able to get to work then car insurance falls under one of those basic needs. Kids are already trying to grow up way too fast. Let them get life experience but let them have a childhood too. They will have to face the real world soon enough and if you did your job as their parent...they will do just fine."

    This and what another poster said about a kid's only job is to go to school and learn and be educated. My parents told me that exact thing, that it was their job to support and provide for me. If I wanted extra things that were really expensive, then I could go and get a job like other kids. But I never really wanted anything or asked for anything either. So I have to say I enjoyed my childhood very well. And when I do have kids, I know for sure I would feel the same way. As I said in my other post, kids are growing up so fast today and they are doing it in the wrong way. I want to share with my kids the value of having supportive and loving parents. It won't be the ATM parent type of parenting for sure, but they will definitely know for sure that if they need a bit of money they can come to me, but at the same time they will not be forced into a job at 9 or whenever. I don't think it helps anything at all to have such set expectations of a child or of anyone really. People need to do things, naturally in their own time and own way. If things are forced it only causes trouble. And besides, I think any parent worth their salt can still manage to show and teach their kids some of those advantages that some believe comes with a job.

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  • mary grace's Avatar
    Posted by mary grace Tue Jul 8, 2008 7:19am PDT

    I started working at the age of 14, and i can say ''it really helps me alot in molding my own personality.'' Working and studying at a very young age indeed was not very easy. I need to control my tantrums most of the time.:) Though i've tried probably all kinds of work available in my home town, I also had a chance to get along with different types of people from all walks of life. I earn and budget my money for my food,housing and schooling also, but none left to spend for cosmetics and ''kikay kits''. When I turned 17, I was able to have a small time business. I fortunately saved enough money and was able put up a small business for my future. Moreover I was able to learn variety of languages and cultures from different regions of my mother country.

    Now I am already 23 years, stable, contented and really can get what i want. :)

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