Saturday, December 12, 2009

Today..my mother found out she has Breast Cancer.

Today, my mom got the results back from her biopsy. She had a biopsy done last week because she found a lump on her breast a few weeks back. Thinking it was a calcium deposit( like my grandma had before) she just went to the doctor so they could remove it. Her doctor told her that it wasn't a calcium lump. So her doctor scheduled a mammogram and it showed it was a mass there. Alarmed, the doctor ordered a biopsy. My mom...being cool and all just thought it was still not going to be anything harmful. Until...today.

Her doctor called her to give her the news and she told her those words my mother( nor I) never thought she would hear," Theresa, it's Breast Cancer". My mother told me she just listened to what her doctor told her. She( the doctor) told her that it hasn't spreaded yet so its a great chance they can remove all of it during a surgical procedure. However, if for some reason its starts to spread before the surgery and she could not remove all of it...they may have to cut of my mom's breast and she may have to undergo radiation treatment. I don't know if my mom cried when she heard that part but she gathered herself to call me. I was the first person she told today. I literally went nuts! I cried when my mom told me because I never imagined my mother having cancer. I feel like I was shot in my heart. My mom told me not to cry and I told her I couldn't help it because she is my mom. Her surgery is in two weeks so I am going to go home and be with her.

It's really shocking. But she is remaining calm. She didn't even leave work. I am just praying that when she have her surgery that her doctor can remove all of it.
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  • ..:Magz:..'s Avatar
    Posted by ..:Magz:.. Tue Feb 17, 2009 9:02am PST

    I know what you are going through. My mom was diagnosed in October of last year. She had the surgery and they removed most of the cells. She had the option of removing the whole breast and that decision is completely your mothers. A good dr will let her know that. As a precaution, they started her on chemo. She actually does the treatment where I work so I'm able to be with her. After chemo she is going to do radiation.

    I felt the same things you did and the advice that was given to me was to be there and be strong for her. She took care of you now its ur turn. listen when she's worried and hold her when she scared.

    Everyone reacts differently to treatments, just do ur research and help her understand. If you ever need someone to chat with about this, hit me up, I've been there.

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  • Brandon's Avatar
    Posted by Brandon Sun Feb 22, 2009 10:04am PST

    Sounds like your mother is a strong woman. Good luck in the future and my prayers are with you.

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  • Barbie's Avatar
    Posted by Barbie Fri Feb 27, 2009 10:05pm PST

    Thank you Magz and Brandon. Its been a tough few weeks for me.

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  • 2 Damn Defiant's Avatar
    Posted by 2 Damn Defiant Sat Mar 7, 2009 3:39am PST

    hey ashley, just dropping in to say what's up to you, I hope everythig is ok with you and your family hon, peace

    Valiant

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