What do you when afraid that your new boyfriend is about to brake your heart?

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  Posted by Shoujo Robot Thu Sep 24, 2009 5:22pm PDT

  Look, I don't really know why you're so panicky. What are you so scared about? It seems really silly. You said yourself his attitude has been changing....have you even considered ASKING him what was going on? I mean, ACTUAL COMMUNICATION would probably help you clear up you extreme worry.

  Besides, if a guy is treating you this immaturely, do you want to stay with him anyway? Unless you're really, sadly desperate, I'm sure you're little world won't fall to pieces if you need to break up.

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  Posted by Mickey! Thu Sep 24, 2009 6:45pm PDT

  But he is and will always be my first love.And I want to talk to him but that will open doors to conversations that I do not want to have.It worries me he's not my Mark!(That's his name.)Do problems at home affect our relationship?

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  Posted by Shoujo Robot Fri Sep 25, 2009 3:34am PDT

  Sorry to say it, but if you're too afraid of opening doors to uncomfortable conversations, then you're not ready for relationships. He's your first love, he won't be your last, and you sound a bit young to be anguishing over someone who can't even treat you fairly in the first place.

  Hoping for the best and then playing the part of the victim will only make you look silly. Take responsibility for your relatioinships.

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