Since I got some good comments on my last blog I figured I would
throw my latest head scratcher out there for you to share your
thoughts. Well yesterday evening the ex girlfriend sends a
message via Facebook asking for my address because she has
something to send me. Well last week I wrote how she had sent
me messages through email and text, but this time through Facebook.
Now she deleted me as a friend from Facebook several weeks ago and
deleted photos of us together from her photos. Well last week
she changed her Facebook status to in a relationship and this week
she changed her profile pic to one of them together. The
photo doesn't look like a cozy couple photo more like when you
stand next to your friend photo. I believe she sent the message
through Facebook making sure I would see the photo of her with the
new guy.
As I stated in previous blog I do want to win her back and have
been in no contact and only responded to one message. It has
been going on 3 weeks since the official break up, but two months
without seeing each other. What I am wondering is that she is
obvious rubbing the fact that she has somebody new is it to make me
jealous and hurt me like she says I hurt her when I was not there
for her. Does this girl have feelings for me still and jumped
into a rebound relationship to mask those feelings and is trying to
flaunt it to show that she has moved on, but really is not.
Also I plan on responding tomorrow with giving her my address, but
making no comment on her and her new guy. So ladies would
this bother you and make you think that I am not making an issue
with her moving on in a new relationship? And I believe what
she is sending me is my birthday gift from two months ago would you
still send your ex his birthday gift if you were done and have
moved on to somebody else? I guess too I am wondering if my
no contact is working and she is not liking the fact that I am not
calling her or anything?
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Why is ex girlfriend using Facebook to flaunt her new boyfriend, but wants to send me something in the mail?
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Posted by Mon Nov 2, 2009 11:28pm PST
Report AbuseThe girl gots issues dude. And she either wants you to have them too or.....and now here's where it gets weird....you got the issues and she is over you.
So either way, stay out of touch and see who's issues come to the surface first.
If she contacts you she likes to play games, and it's up to you if you play. If you contact her first then dude, you got co-dependency issues and should contact a good therapist next.
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Posted by Tue Nov 3, 2009 12:15am PST
Report AbuseI wouldn't even give her your address....if you want to move on, move on. Don't even look at the facebook pics or pages, and don't let others tell you about them. There is a reason she is your ex....nuff said. She has some issues, and for whatever reason does not feel closure with this, and now she wants to close it by basically telling you how good she was and how you lost out.....game playing....silly....move on already. Be glad she has someone, cuz now you don't have to worry about her contacting you all the time. Years ago when an ex bf did that to me, I'd always just ask him....hey, should we call your new girlfriend and ask her what she thinks of you being here? Maybe she'd like to join us for this conversation? And then I told him that the next time you come over...I'm going over to her house to tell her to keep her man away from me. He stopped. Immediately. They were his issues, not mine. Just like they are her issues not yours. Next!!!
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Posted by Tue Nov 3, 2009 11:57am PST
Report AbuseJust cut off communication. It's over. If you're having doubts and you think she is, then be straightforward with her and discuss it. If you feel it has run its course and she is moving in, then let go and move forward with your life.
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Posted by Tue Nov 3, 2009 1:38pm PST
Report Abuse"I guess too I am wondering if my no contact is working and she is not liking the fact that I am not calling her or anything?"
Ok what is it your working on? Trying to reconcile? Sounds like you are wanting her back, am I correct?
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Posted by Tue Nov 3, 2009 1:45pm PST
Report AbuseOk, just read your last post, now I see you do want her back sorta..lol. You really should have gone to the hospital, but she nees to get past that you didnt and forgive you. You two seem to be playing games with each other and thats a shame, if you could both just admit you were wrong, did dumb things and actually be honest with your feelings that you both have for each other still (its so obvious) She isnt over you and your not over her, when she asked of you were just going to let her go I think she was wanting you to say No I am nto going to let you go. So either tell her you want her and try to work it out or really really let her go! You want her? Then go get her!
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