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Monday, December 7, 2009

10 tips for taking kids out to a restaurant

Many people -- especially busy parents -- appreciate dining out as a restaurant. Usually. But have you been nervous about heading out to dinner with kids in tow because you just can't forget that time your new baby started screaming nonstop just as your main course was being served?

Boy at a restaurant
The good news is that you don't need to avoid restaurants forever! Here are a few tips from real moms about what you can do to make the experience of eating out as a family a little smoother.


1) Before you go out, make sure there's something on the menu that your child will actually eat -- or bring along food from home.

2) Visit restaurants at an off-peak time (such as 4-5 on a weekday afternoon) so you beat the rush.

3) Opt to be seated in a booth whenever possible, so it will be easier for you to keep your child contained.

4) Position your child by a wall or otherwise as far away from the other tables as possible, to avoid disrupting fellow diners.

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5) Avoid restaurants with more than a 5-10 minute wait for a table so your child isn't all our of patience by the time the meal is served.

6) Take your child for a walk outside or go sit in the car if things get too boring.

7) Keep your child busy: bring pen and paper, books, or even a "for restaurant-times only" toy.

8) To keep things moving, when your server comes to take your drink orders, have your full meal order ready, too.

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9) Request the check when the server brings you your main course.

10) Tip well, especially if the staff have been accommodating. Add a little extra if your kids made a mess on top of or under the table. Not only will you be paying for service given, you will also grease the wheels a little for the next customer who comes in with kids.


If your restaurant trip just doesn't work, accept it and don't force your child -- or the other diners -- to sit through a miserable experience. Give it a few months and try, try again.

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  • Alexandra's Avatar
    Posted by Alexandra Fri Oct 16, 2009 9:43am PDT

    Ask that the childrens meals be brought out with the appetizers so that they have more time to eat and less waiting time.

    If your kid can't behave, leave. Ask that your meals be wrapped and one parent and the offending child can go sit out in the car as a "time out" for the kid. A little kid throwing a temper tantrum ruins everyone else's dinners too. Same goes for a one that can't stay seated: waiters are balancing heavy trays of drinks, food, and breakable dishes, they don't want to get tripped by a little hellion who's parents think it's "cute".

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  • Elm's Avatar
    Posted by Elm Fri Oct 16, 2009 9:56am PDT

    Please do not attempt any of this, it's too much work. Just stay home or order in until your children (aka brats) can behave in public.

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  • Brenda, Shine Community Manager's Avatar
    Posted by Brenda, Shine Community Manager Fri Oct 16, 2009 12:40pm PDT

    Wow Elm. That's pretty harsh. My 22 month old niece is really good when we're in a restaurant, but sometimes she'll have an unexpected breakdown. Just because she gets upset doesn't mean my brother should keep her at home. He always takes her outside if she starts acting up so she doesn't bother other diners. I wish people talking loudly on their cell phones would be as courteous!

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  • Karen S's Avatar
    Posted by Karen S Mon Oct 19, 2009 5:35am PDT

    I personally am not a fan of the kids' meals coming out w/appetizers because by the time they're done and bored, our meals come out and then we can't eat in peace! We prefer to have their meals served with ours.

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  • carol's Avatar
    Posted by carol Mon Oct 19, 2009 6:20am PDT

    better yet find a place that is kid friendly,sometimes when your traveling you have to eat out,I find buffets are get dinning out with kids because they can move around and they feel in control of thier food chooses

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  • Kristina's Avatar
    Posted by Kristina Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:28am PDT

    how about a good old fashon wooping. my son is 3 and has only acted up once or twice. he knows better.

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  • Ashley's Avatar
    Posted by Ashley Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:34am PDT

    Here's a tip: LEAVE YOUR KID AT HOME

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  • another hockey fan's Avatar
    Posted by another hockey fan Mon Oct 19, 2009 9:17am PDT

    I'm all for leaving the kids at home UNLESS they know how to behave, but I also realize it's not realistic, so why not choose places like Chuck E Cheese where they are entertained and noise is the norm?

    And those of us who prefer a child free environment would appreciate it if you would take your upset children home or outside until they calm down.

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  • BSFreeMama's Avatar
    Posted by BSFreeMama Mon Oct 19, 2009 9:26am PDT

    My two boys ( 22 months and 5 years old )have always done well at restuarants. I feel like we are kind of lucky that we can go out and enjoy our dinner and they are so well behaved. Of course they have their moments (usually the 22 month old) but we just take him out and walk him around etc...

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  • DeeDee's Avatar
    Posted by DeeDee Mon Oct 19, 2009 9:31am PDT

    What about granpa who acts up when things are not perfect. I have seen more elderly people act worse in restaurants than small kids.

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