Before you read this you need to know something. I am a
13 year old girl. If there is a few spelling mistakes, I do
apololgize. I do not use microsoft word and the progam I use does
not have spelling and grammar check. Once again I am sorry if it
does not appear to be up to par for you. I am not a mother, and I
am going based on what I would have liked to be able to see from my
mother. I moved in with in aunt at the age of 2. Please try not to
judge to harshly. The sad part about this is so many mothers do not
follow theses guidelines.
1. Let your kids learn from their mistakes.
We want our kids to be safe, but can we really do that
is we don't let them learn at least partially by themselves? We
need to trust that they can learn on their own. They don't need
to feel like their parents are judgemental because they make
mistakes.
2. Don't try to be their best friend.
Kids make enough friends, and well the last thing they
need is a parent being a friend too. All you dads out there, your
kids are most likely embaressed by you, so they don't
need you to be like a friend. Moms out there, being friends
with your kids just doesn't work. You are meant to be parents
not friends. This doesn't mean you have to be all strict with
them, but it means you should give them freedom with thier friends.
They need to know you are a parent and not just some other
friend.
3. Raise them based on your beliefs.
If you don't believe in spanking your kid, then
don't. If you do believe in spanking your kid, then do. You
have to go based on the laws, but you have a little freedom in
that. use it to your advantage!!!! All parents know when thier kid
needs to be disciplined, so act on it!!!! I am not trying to sound
like an idiot here, but seriously parents need to learn to
disipline thier kids without crossing the line.
4. Let your child know when they did something wrong.
Kids know when they made a mistake, but they need to
know you do too. If they tried to slap you across the face do you
just let them get away with it? I sure as hell hope not. They
need to be corrected by you now, or when thy move out, they could
get in a lot of trouble with the law. If you don't correct them
someone else will!!!
5. Tell your kid you love them.
Sometimes it just helps to hear the words 'I love
you', and your kids are no exception to that. You can never
tell them you love them too much, but you can tell them not enough.
Be sure to tell them a lot because in the end, they will appreciate
it.
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