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Sunday, December 6, 2009

A breastfeeding v. formula feeding debate...again

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In a recent Momversation, Rebecca Woolf of Girl's Gone Child asked: "Why is my breast-feeding your business?" Clearly, the subject matter was breastfeeding bullies -- women who are nursing fanatics and find opportunities to ostracize women who feed their babies formula.

Last week, The Atlantic published a story by Hanna Rosin called "The Case Against Breastfeeding." As one would imagine, responses to this story are a plenty. Because how can you not be fired up with a blatant headline that tells you the article will be setting up sides?

I read the article, taking it in with gigantic grain of salt. I honestly don't understand this perpetual need to pit women who breastfeed against moms who use baby formula. (Again: Why is my breastfeeding your business?) I have no opinion either way on breastfeeding or formula, but it was this paragraph that made Rosin lose all credibility in my eyes:

"The debate about breast-feeding takes place without any reference to its actual context in women’s lives. Breast-feeding exclusively is not like taking a prenatal vitamin. It is a serious time commitment that pretty much guarantees that you will not work in any meaningful way. Let’s say a baby feeds seven times a day and then a couple more times at night. That’s nine times for about a half hour each, which adds up to more than half of a working day, every day, for at least six months. This is why, when people say that breast-feeding is “free,” I want to hit them with a two-by-four. It’s only free if a woman’s time is worth nothing."

I don't know about you, but I can find many, many women who worked in a very meaningful way while breastfeeding exclusively. Also, that the last line of that paragraph really burned me.

But here's what's worse: her story was inaccurate. In the article, Rosin says there is little evidence to support claims that breastfeeding is better than formula. The American Academy of Pediatrics quickly responded with a Letter to the Editor of The Atlantic, stating: "In the article, "The Case Against Breast-Feeding" by Hanna Rosin, the author skims the literature and has omitted many recent statements including the 2005 statement of the American Academy of Pediatrics which supports the value of breastfeeding for most infants...The evidence for the value of breastfeeding is scientific, it is strong, and it is continually being reaffirmed by new research work."

In the end, every mom's decision to breast- or bottle-feed is based on what a parent feels is best. We all know this and I wish moms on both sides of the cause would take a chill. 

I asked Gina Ciagne, director of breastfeeding relations and outreach for Lansinoh Laboratories, what she thought about Rosin's story and the continued polarization of breastfeeding versus non-breastfeeding moms and I think she hits the nail on the head. She said, "Women, breastfeeding and otherwise, need support and mom-to-mom and woman-to-woman support is crucial especially in the early days after birth. The decision a mom makes about infant feeding is hers to make and while there may be differing opinions about what is best for one’s baby, tearing each other down is not healthy for anyone."

Amen.




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  • kimberlyc's Avatar
    Posted by kimberlyc Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:04pm PDT

    Hi my name is kimberly and all my friends put me down for giving my child formula when he was a baby, I think it's mean and hurtfull and I am a damn good mom! My childs nutrition and health are very important to my husband and I. And the last article on shine said that your responsiblity of a mom is to breastfeed well all I gotta say is screw you lady! I had to work and as an accountant there was no time to stop and pump! I barley had time to pee, and my child is doing above and beyond well in growth and height and he eats all his vegetables and fruits and milk! So to all you moms who give formula horray for you and to the moms who tried it and gave up and switched to formula horray for you and horray to woman who breastfeed full time! We should stop focusing on this and be happy that babys have loving parents and a good home and we just have our best interest in mind for our own flesh and blood!

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  • Shawna P's Avatar
    Posted by Shawna P Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:07pm PDT

    This topic really needs to stop being posted on Shine. We get it, thanks.

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  • Charlene Prince Birkeland, Shine staff's Avatar
    Posted by Charlene Prince Birkeland, Shine staff Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:19pm PDT

    Kimberlychnt4 - you should definitely check out the Momversation video, because that's sort of the whole point. There is nothing wrong with formula feeding and no one should care what you do but YOU! :) I'm sorry your friends gave you grief about it.

    ShawnaP - We're so grateful that you "get it" but sadly there are plenty of people who don't, which is why it's so important to help new moms feel supported in their decisions to breast/bottle feed and for the others not to be so judgmental.

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  • erin's Avatar
    Posted by erin Mon Mar 23, 2009 3:27pm PDT

    I must misunderstand something...It’s only free if a woman’s time is worth nothing...I totally agree with this sentence. I believe she is stating that breastfeeding is hard work and at the time "her job." But then again if that is her job at the moment than it is one of many meaningful jobs there are. I bottle fed my son because I worked and also attended school. So it was basically impossible for me to breastfeed full time. But I do commend the women who do. I believe that it is healthier for a child to be breastfed. But sometimes life doesn't allow that to be an option...but who are any of us to judge? Whatever works best for your family is "BEST."

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  • Charlene Prince Birkeland, Shine staff's Avatar
    Posted by Charlene Prince Birkeland, Shine staff Mon Mar 23, 2009 4:25pm PDT

    erin02...i should have clarified. it's really the idea of putting a monetary value on feeding a baby, really. i mean, yes, breastfeeding is "free" per se, but really, but i'm more irked at the way we look at the whole discussion.

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  • HotCrossBuns's Avatar
    Posted by HotCrossBuns Mon Mar 23, 2009 7:06pm PDT

    CPB, I wholeheartedly agree with you. Anytime formula or breastmilk is even mentioned, the claws come out on both sides. I could write a blog that stated that while giving my baby a bottle, I simultaneously rescued a burning busfull of refugee orphans and their blind caretakers while on an overseas trip to personally replant an entire rainforest, which in turn would save a rare species of monkey from becoming extinct....and I can guarantee the only thing some people would see would be the part about feeding my child a bottle.

    Millions of kids in this country go without proper health care, without heated homes or adequate clothing and often get no food at all in the course of a day...and yet so many women are still catfighting about trivial things such as breast v bottle. It's disgusting, really. If only those same women would get off their soapboxes put as much passion into actually helping kids who REALLY need it!

    Our time spent feeding and nurturing a child is PRICELESS, no matter what method we choose.

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  • ckandw's Avatar
    Posted by ckandw Mon Mar 23, 2009 9:13pm PDT

    finally people in the middle...I didn't breastfeed and i have a very heathly 2 1/2 year old...my sitters kid has had far more ailments in his 9 months then mine in 2 1/2 years and she breastfeeds...I think to each their own...it doesn't matter in my life what other people choose to do...that is our choice...that is why we all live in the greatest country...choice...our freedom...freedom of choice :)

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  • Susan's Avatar
    Posted by Susan Tue Mar 24, 2009 7:40am PDT

    Hey, I totally agree about the time thing. Breastfed babies have to be fed more frequently than formula-fed babies (and each feeding takes longer because it's harder for the baby to suck and not as much comes out at a time) and the mom has to do all the work (even if dad helps by feeding bottles of pumped milk, mom still has to take the time to pump). I tried to breastfeed my baby and it was horrible and I hated it and I couldn't do it. I gladly switched to formula and if I ever have another child I will use formula right from the start. That way I can use the time following the birth to rest and recover while dad and grandparents help feed the baby. I certainly have no problem with others who breastfeed, but it wasn't the right thing for me!

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  • countnchickn's Avatar
    Posted by countnchickn Tue Mar 24, 2009 8:34am PDT

    When are we going to stop putting each other down and start supporting each other! This is a personal choice and there are good reasons for both sides.

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  • desiree's Avatar
    Posted by desiree Tue Mar 24, 2009 8:40am PDT

    wow i have exclusively fed all my babies until they needed more, and then i did both breastfed and gave formula to supplement. i say to all new mothers to go into labor with an open mind and if you can nurse than great if you can't then its ok the formula is there if needed! Now for feeding for a 1/2 hr on each side would be crazy. my peds dr always told me no more than 10 mins ea side you are not a pacifier!! my babies never wanted to nurse longer than that anyways! i have a great pump (medela pump in style) without that i probably would have given up but since it only takes maybe 10 mins to get 2 full bottles it helped me when i did go back to work. SO to all moms to give formula its ok, as well as to those moms who nurse what matters is that your baby is fed and if needs more than breastmilk why not do both! My children are more than healthy and eat very well.

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