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Monday, November 30, 2009

A Not-So-Grand Slam.

by Vicki Larson (Around the Watercooler - Mommy Track'd)

There’s been a lot of hoopla in the world of mothers and athletes ever since tennis player Kim Clijsters — her husband and 18-month-old daughter watching — nabbed the U.S. Open, the first mom to win the grand slam title in 29 years.

It’s an amazing comeback story for the 26-year-old who retired a few years ago to become a wife and mom, and who credits her husband, Antwerp Giants basketball player Brian Lynch, for giving her support.

While Clijsters was swinging her way to the top, another tennis mom has been making her comeback, too — Sybille Bammer, a 29-year-old Austrian who lives with her boyfriend, Christophe Gschwendtner, father of their 8-year-old daughter, Tina.

Bammer, who lost her record-breaking run at the U.S. Open in the quarterfinals, also credits her partner for supporting her. And, boy, did he; It was Gschwendtner’s idea that Bammer, then 21, get back to playing tennis after giving birth, and to make it easier for her, he gave up his career as a manufacturing engineer for five years to be Mr. Mom. 

Now that Bammer’s back on the tennis and sponsorship track again and Tina’s in school full time, Gschwendtner has returned to work — he started his own electrician’s business — and the jokes from his friends about his decision to stay home have stopped. “Now my life is more interesting. It’s like I have two lives,” he told the New York Times.

His life is more interesting? As a mom who’s been a SAHM and is now a full-time employed divorced mom, I find his statement interesting. Is Gschwendtner saying that staying at home and caring for a child is uninteresting, or that the parent staying at home becomes uninteresting? Or both? 

Is Gschwendtner slamming the stay-at-home parenting world?

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Vicki Larson contributes to Around the Watercooler at Mommy Track'd. She is a journalist and single mom who also writes at The OMG Chronicles.
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  • Karen S's Avatar
    Posted by Karen S Thu Sep 17, 2009 7:40am PDT

    OK, this is the third article that sets up this b-s dichotomy. It's possible for two different people to find enjoyment and fulfillment in two different ways. I would hate to be a teacher, or doctor, or a mail carrier but that doesn't mean I pass judgment on those who have those professions. I take NO offense to someone who can't envision having my life. Frankly, 6 years ago, I wouldn't foresee being happy having 3 kids under the age of 5 -- and frankly some days I am NOT happy with my "job" -- just like some days when I worked full time outside the home before having kids, I wasn't happy with my job.

    And not for nothing -- I bet his life IS more exciting than mine! Having a professional athlete for a spouse, running his own business, with a child starting school and having the experience of having been the child's primary caretaker for years, it IS an exciting time for that family, and good for them. Their happiness does not detract from mine!

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  • Zom-B's Avatar
    Posted by Zom-B Thu Sep 17, 2009 8:19am PDT

    VERY well said, Karen.

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