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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Back to School Basketcase.

by Leslie Morgan Steiner (Mommy Track'd - Two Cents on Working Motherhood)

As much as I grow wistful as summer ends, like most moms, I secretly look forward to a return to the peaceful structure of the school year. Sure, we have to get up early. But after 60 minutes of breakfast-teethbrushing-shoetying insanity, I’m back in my office by 8:15 with HOURS of uninterrupted time to work stretched in front of me. Day after day, week after week, until next June.

This year was no exception. In anticipation of a smooth transition, I made myriad work commitments as part of my own “back to school” schedule.

School started Tuesday with a three hour orientation from 9-12. The kids all loved their teachers. The girls looked so cute in their back to school outfits, neatly braided hair, and their new backpacks. My son sported a new buzz cut and an Abercrombie outfit he’d shopped for himself. Everything was bathed in an Indian summer glow.

Until that night at dinnertime, when my son went pale and started throwing up. The flu. He was up all night. We spent most of the next day at the doctor’s office – glad I could be there with him, glad he had neither swine flu nor Strep. But that time was supposed to be spent prepping for four important meetings next week.

Then last night my two girls both got sick. And I’d forgotten that the electrician was coming this morning to fix the phone, the computers and the television. The back door lock jammed – luckily the locksmith was available.

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Leslie Morgan Steiner authors Two Cents on Working Motherhood on MommyTrack'd. She is the editor of the best-selling anthology Mommy Wars and the memoir Crazy Love. Steiner is a frequent guest on the Today Show, MSNBC, and regularly contributes to The New York Times, Newsweek and Vanity Fair. She lives with her husband and 3 kids in Washington, DC.

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  • miss my family's Avatar
    Posted by miss my family Tue Sep 15, 2009 3:29pm PDT

    Selfish selfish selfish. Because having to take care of your kids is a crime. Like it's impossible to enjoy their presence no we all have to shove them off on other people. We live in a selfish world where we think we need "me time" and we should "do whats right for us and not worry about kids because after all its about us" No real joy comes from giving of yourself and doing for others. Think about it, if we stopped thinking about ourselves and started thinking about each other then we would get more satisfaction out of life. Instead we think of ourselves first and in the end are never truly satisfied.

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    Posted by Karen S Thu Sep 17, 2009 7:23am PDT

    Nanner, don't be so judgmental. It's not selfish to admit it's difficult to juggle commitments. It's not selfish to admit that spending a day tending to a sick child isn't the #1 choice of how to spend a day. The writer isn't shoving her children off on others, she is sending them to school. And I wonder if you wouldn't display such a martyr complex if you took a little time for yourself? You don't seem to be as filled with you as you think.

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