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Thursday, December 3, 2009

Can breastfeeding moms party hardy on Halloween?

A mom over on CafeMom wants to have a few drinks at a Halloween party, but here's the hitch -- she's breastfeeding. So the question came up: Should she "pump and dump," meaning pump and discard the breast milk she produces during the time she's imbibing.

A lot of moms in the CafeMom Answers thread advised her to just not drink, saying this is one of the sacrifices you make when you commit to nursing an infant. But even the folks at kellymom.com, a great breastfeeding resource, offer some less drastic alternatives for moms who want to clock out for a few hours.

Another mom on CafeMom, who is studying to be a lactation consultant, explains it just as well:

"Alcohol leaves your breast milk at the same rate it leaves your blood. So if you pump and dump, and you're still drunk, all that's going to do is waste milk and produce more alcohol laden milk. But if you wait until you're sober, you're perfectly safe to nurse. Safe to drive = safe to nurse. Or two hours per drink. But if you only have, say, one beer, you would be fine to nurse shortly after."

Here are some specifics on breastfeeding and drinking from kellymom.com:

  • Current research says that occasional use of alcohol (1-2 drinks) is not harmful to the nursing baby.
  • It is recommended that nursing moms avoid breastfeeding during and for 2-3 hours after drinking.
  • There is no need to pump and dump milk after drinking alcohol, other than for mom's comfort -- pumping and dumping does not speed the elimination of alcohol from the milk.
  • Alcohol does not increase milk production, and has been shown to inhibit let-down and decrease milk production.

Do you drink while breastfeeding? How do you do it -- pump and dump or wait it out?

Written by Cynthia Dermody for CafeMom's Baby Buzz


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  • Lara's Avatar
    Posted by Lara Thu Oct 8, 2009 10:23am PDT

    Being a breastfeeding mother is hard thing to do at times. It was for me. A friend I had back then told me to pump and dump one time because she wanted to go have some drinks with me. I was disgusted. What a selfish thing to do. You don't know how much milk you have to pump to get it out of your supply, because everyone’s body is different and digests things differently. I never did that and never would. My baby is way more important than drinking and I would never take ANY kind of chance like that.

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  • Mira Jacob, Shine staff's Avatar
    Posted by Mira Jacob, Shine staff Fri Oct 9, 2009 5:51am PDT

    Lara--I don't think any mother on earth would say drinking is more important than her baby. Very good mothers might like to have a beer or two on Halloween, and they should know how to do that responsibly. I think it helps all mothers to remember that there are ways to be a good mom and enjoy and adult moment. It's not selfish, it's self-aware.

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  • Casey's Avatar
    Posted by Casey Fri Oct 9, 2009 6:17am PDT

    I had this same dilemma after my first son. We decided a night or two would be fine to have a "night off". However, I made sure to have some milk in storage to last until the day after a party. And I think it's funny this article mentioned that alcohol does not increase milk supply, because after drinking, my breasts would be more full than they normally would be. If you feel you'd like to have a night off, just be responsible! Every mom deserves a night off once in a while :)

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  • Kathey's Avatar
    Posted by Kathey Fri Oct 9, 2009 7:03am PDT

    Just pump enough milk before you go out for at least a days worth and you should be fine..just because you are breastfeeding doesn't mean you can't have fun as long as your responsible about it..

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  • Alissa's Avatar
    Posted by Alissa Fri Oct 9, 2009 8:38am PDT

    they do sell test strips so you can make sure there is no alchol in the milk

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  • hotNspicy's Avatar
    Posted by hotNspicy Fri Oct 9, 2009 9:13am PDT

    Why don't you go out and have fun. But why do you have to drink? Why not have drinks with no alcohol ?Its your choice though but i think partying hard isn't what you should do. Enjoy yourself with your friends but don't drink. If they are your pals they will understand and respect that.

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  • Erica's Avatar
    Posted by Erica Fri Oct 9, 2009 9:38am PDT

    I love how judgemental people are on here. It's the mothers choice to have 1 beer or 10 if she so chooses, but it is also up to mommy to be responsible when feeding the baby. I'm 8 1/2 months prego with #2 and I absolutely plan on drinking on NYE even though I'll be breastfeeding. It just takes a little planning ahead and some common sense.

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Fri Oct 9, 2009 9:41am PDT

    I'm sorry, but if you can't withhold your alcohol for a few months, you shouldn't have started breastfeeding. I breastfed my daughter for 9 months and didn't even like to take tylenol. Shame on ANY mother who even thinks about drinking while nursing.

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  • Catherine's Avatar
    Posted by Catherine Fri Oct 9, 2009 10:28am PDT

    well lala you must have one heck of a perfect stress free life cause i breastfed and still made time for myself to relax and let loose for an hour or two a month its unhealthy not to and whats wrong with that drink being alcoholic if your ressponsible and caring you can take the steps necessery to ensure your babys health

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  • Catherine's Avatar
    Posted by Catherine Fri Oct 9, 2009 10:30am PDT

    also breastfeeding dosent mean no breaks or freedom its not an opretion holding you against your will and my son is perfect

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