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Thursday, November 26, 2009

Can Halloween Exist Without High Fructose Corn Syrup and Styrofoam Gravestones?

In the interest of full disclosure, I have to tell you that I actually wrote the majority of this post last year. And not that I'm so brilliant or anything, but I wanted to run it again to highlight the fact that despite a bout of Buddhist soul-searching in order to instill some semblance of self-realization upon my children, their materialistic yearnings are in full swing, yet again, this Halloween.

In fact, not much has changed chez nous this year: The $7 Mona Lisa's skeleton portrait, purchased from the Chinese crap factory otherwise known as Party City, hangs on the door in an effort to thwart my kids' relentless requests for a styrofoam graveyard on the (ec0)lawn. We grew three gorgeous pumpkins in the garden this summer, which are just waiting to be carved. And despite the fact that I've been hoarding cardboard in anticipation of designing some truly terrifying gravestones, last night they told me anything homemade wouldn't be scary enough.

Sigh.

Yes, Halloween has truly evolved from what I knew as a kid:  Kleenex ghosts hung with thread in the window, a few hand-carved pumpkins on the porch, a pillowcase to carry the loot and a ghost costume made from a sheet over my head. (A sheet with the over-the-head part colored yellow made me an fried egg one year. The visual still makes me cringe.) 

Today I get guilt from my kids every time we exit or enter the house. Why don’t we have cobwebs. Why can’t we get a tombstone. Why nothing screams or sighs when you pass through our front door.I’ve tried to explain that we’re trying not to buy so much plastic. I’ve tried to explain that plastic is made from oil, and oil is non-renewable, causes pollution and wars (not necessarily in that order) and that it never, ever goes away, it just breaks into tiny little pieces that swirl in the middle of the ocean. My in-laws even made bat cut-outs for the windows.

All they want is a $49.99 screaming ghost hanging in our entry way. Oh, and candy, did I mention the candy?

Far be it from me to deny my kids a little Halloween candy. But it’s with a wince that I witness the bags stacked high in the supermarkets, filled with candy that’s made with (un)fair trade chocolate, artificial food colorings that have been linked to hyperactivity and ADD, and high fructose corn syrup, which health experts say alters the way our metabolic-regulating hormones function and basically tricks our bodies into wanting to eat more and more of it. (Ergo the post trick-or-treating gluttony.)

Last year, I sourced candy free of petrochemically derived artificial colors and flavors, and not made in China (whose melanin-tainted milk chocolate gave us quite a scare). I found indie packs of USDA certified organic cotton candy made from evaporated cane juice, single-serving bags of organic gummy worms, individually-wrapped organic hard candies and yummy bubblegum made from a natural chicle gum base sustainably harvested in Central American rain forests, rather than the synthetic plastic that’s in conventional gum. (Thinking twice about handing out Hubba Bubba?)

That didn't stop my kids from bringing home bulging bags of chemically-enhanced candy, which they ate in gluttonous frenzy until they made themselves sick.

This year, I might just shut off the lights and hide. Although the sight of the Barnacle (read: baby) done up like a kitty-cat might be worth staying up for. I think I'll leave the lights on. Keep the bats in the windows. And hand out organic pretzels.

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  • mother1's Avatar
    Posted by mother1 Wed Oct 21, 2009 4:42pm PDT

    I hear yah....Haloween has gotton too far out of hand. I miss the simple Halloween we grew up with. We carved pumpkins, roasted the seeds, and ran around the house looking for something funny to wear out treat or treating for an hour or two. That was it....and it was fun!

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  • Robert's Avatar
    Posted by Robert Tue Oct 27, 2009 8:49am PDT

    Check out this angle on making it through halloween! www.bordencom.com/bordenhalloween.pdf - lots of chuckles rather than screeches!

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    Posted by Robert Thu Oct 29, 2009 7:04am PDT

    EEK! Halloween can be scary, but I've adapted so we don't have to sit inside with the kids in the dark and avoid it! Better to be out, about and enjoying while inspiring...I think anyways!

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