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Friday, December 4, 2009

Child Pornography: The Abduction of Innocence

                                        

The technology that created the internet may be the most significant contribution to communications science since the invention of the telephone. It allows us to reach out and touch the rest of the world in the blink of an eye, communicate with strangers half a world away, access news and information as it happens, and explore cultures and societies foreign to our way of living. It has also become an indispensable educational tool for both students and anyone else in search of knowledge.

As with any technology, there is always the possibility that it may venture into the wrong hands. Curiosity seekers have pulled up plans for nuclear weapons, adventurous teens have brought down banking systems, and terrorists and hate-mongers have used the medium both for recruitment and to broadcast their message of radical activism to the masses.

But, little compares to the corruption of otherwise average citizens who have crossed the line between sexual fantasy and sexual deviation, triggering dormant thoughts into frightful reality. And the fastest growing segment of these are the adults who, even with the threat of civil punishment, venture into the sordid world of child pornography.

Child pornography has become a multi-billion dollar industry. The United States Department of Justice estimates that the sexual exploitation of children in the United States to include more than one million children, and involves children as young as two years old. A study analyzing the arrest of men charged with pornography between 2000 and 2001 found that 83% had images of prepubescent children on their computers, and that 83% of them had images of children being sexually penetrated.

A New York Times article revealed that "some men convicted of sexual abuse say that child pornography from the Internet fueled their urges". And studies by the Mayo Clinic indicate that 76% of individuals arrested for child pornography had at some point molested a child, though psychologists at the Federal Bureau of Prisons believe that number is slightly higher.

More alarming than the statistics themselves, are those who are included in them. Many of the individuals arrested are men entrusted with the care and development of those children; including teachers, family members, and even priests and ministers. The catholic church in the United States has fielded accusations against 4,032 priests. The actions leading to those accusations were made between 1950 and 2002, and though they represent only 4 percent of the priests in the American Catholic Church, the institution has paid out more than $2 billion in damages.

What causes individuals to be lured into child pornography and how does the rest of society identify those who may eventually explore deviate tendencies? Many psychologists believe that a great number of them may have themselves been abused as children, but determining who may become predators is a more difficult challenge. It seems that greater awareness by parents and the early education of our children on what is, and is not appropriate behavior by adults is the best protection we can offer.

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  • Terry Marsh's Avatar
    Posted by Terry Marsh Wed Jun 4, 2008 7:00pm PDT

    Princess_bubble_wrap...

    I just want to thank you too, especially for your passion!

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  • VICKIW's Avatar
    Posted by VICKIW Thu Jun 5, 2008 5:57am PDT

    THIS IS IS WRONG AND IT STAYS WITH A CHILD FOR EVER,IT IS PAINFUL TO LIVE WITH,IT HAPPENS TO MUCH,AND THE MENTAL PROMBLEMS THAT IT CAN CAUSE.(TO EVERY ONE THAT HAS DEALT WITH THIS)MAYBE WE CAN HELP OTHERS.

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  • Terry Marsh's Avatar
    Posted by Terry Marsh Thu Jun 5, 2008 6:35am PDT

    Vicki, you're right. The biggest problem is trying to identify these predators before they strike. Maybe longer and more severe prison sentences might be the answer, but parental intervention is still the first course of action. Protecting our children must also be a community effort. When we see something or someone that could possibly create a dangerous situation for our children, we need to report it immediately. It's better to be wrong, than not do anything and risk harm to a child.

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    Posted by princess_bubble_wrap Thu Jun 5, 2008 2:59pm PDT

    t y terry i am becoming a big fan of yours..you raise some very emotional issues..guess u givin my mind a work out lol...parental intervention is a great start..but when it is a parent doing the abuse a child can be confused and afraid..that makes it a whole new situation and in my case it was my sperm donor he dont deserve the name daddy..my grandma was the only one that believed me..my mom was not in the best mental state at the time ..i couldnt go to her..my best friend knew..and still after all this came out after the step grandchild thing..my step mom cried to me and said she was so sorry she didnt believe me..but it makes me so angry..he still got away with it..if i were an evil person i would shoot him slowly..but i feel like i have to let go and let god..higher power..he was meaner to my sister than he was to me..but one day he will face god..i have to raise the question how can a parent do such a thing to their own flesh and blood?well i havent been the best parent i make mistakes..but i would never abuse my kids or grands..u know my grandkids have never met him and they never will..may god forgive me for my anger..but i am calmer now...and a big fan of terry marsh smile

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  • Newt's Avatar
    Posted by Newt Thu Jun 5, 2008 3:00pm PDT

    no, you misunderstood. i am with you all, agree with you all. i was talking about the main post. Every section of the Shine site that I went to had that post, and it is annoying to see the same post on every page. don't get me wrong, I like what it says...

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  • princess_bubble_wrap's Avatar
    Posted by princess_bubble_wrap Thu Jun 5, 2008 3:10pm PDT

    i noticed on shine that it is posted 2 xs maybe a glitch...it is emotional so...is possible its going to pop up in different areas

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  • Terry Marsh's Avatar
    Posted by Terry Marsh Thu Jun 5, 2008 5:34pm PDT

    Hi Princess... Thanks for the kind words. I really enjoy your comments. I almost always look for your response when ever I write something :)

    I usually try to write about the things that move me emotionally, and this happens to be one that I feel deeply about. As a relativly intelligent society, it disappoints me that we can land and control a rover on Mars, but we can't prevent the abuse (and hunger, but that's another topic) of our children.

    Larry...

    No harm done. I did notice that the post showed up twice on several pages, and I even tried to delete one of them, but was not successful. It is never my intent to offend anyone. I write about what moves me, but I also understand that not everyone will agree with my views.

    I was also moved by your story, and you raised a very strong question...What do we do when it's a parent doing the abusing. My opinion is that punishment should be more sever in that kind of situation.

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  • VICKIW's Avatar
    Posted by VICKIW Thu Jun 5, 2008 7:54pm PDT

    THESE CHILDREN ARE LIVING WITH THIS PAIN ,THEY ARE TOLD NOT TO TELL,SOME ADULTS DO NOT BELIEVE THEM ,WE NEED TO LISTEN TO THEM,BEFORE IT IS TO LATE.

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  • justmegivinmy2cents's Avatar
    Posted by justmegivinmy2cents Fri Jun 6, 2008 9:17am PDT

    hey you larry david...u aint got 2 read it so dnt!!! this is a VERY BIG issue and if you dnt want 2 read it- aint no1 forcing u 2! so go to another blog.....some people r just so ignorant.

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  • justmegivinmy2cents's Avatar
    Posted by justmegivinmy2cents Fri Jun 6, 2008 9:35am PDT

    SORRY LARRY DAVID...JUST GOT TO UR OTHER BLOG...DIDNT MEAN TO JUMP AT YOU.

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