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Saturday, July 4, 2009

Cookie(s) & Sex: New survey says 34% of mommies are cheating.


Cookie and AOL Body did a survey called "Sex and the American Mom" and it turns out -- according to the 30,000 mothers who responded - that 34% of us are cheating on our husbands and over half of us have thought about it;  23% of us watch porn to transition from diapers to dominatrix (or whatever your pleasure); and 29% said they'd rather have sex than lose 10 lbs. 

The survey offered up a bevy of other statistics too -- giving us moms and everyone standing on the sidelines watching what we do - insight into the state of modern marriage. But honestly, I was left with more questions than answers - a few I've listed below - which I'd love to open up for candid and uncensored discussion! 

So ladies, fess up....

1) If you're having an affair (and I'm not judging AT ALL...just wondering) - when do you find the time?? I can barely fit a shower in on most days, let alone wonder where to meet my paramour. 

2) Did you initiate the affair?  Or did he?  And where did you first meet? At the park?  At work? Your high school reunion?

2) Is it/was it worth it? 

3) Has your affair been discovered by your husband?  And if so, how did he handle it?  Is your marriage still intact?   Are you one of the 6% who has an open marriage -- and if so, does it really work???

And if you're still in the mood to share your sex secrets, participate in our own True Mom Confessions and True Hook Up Confessions sex surveys!



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  • 's Avatar
    Posted by Wed May 14, 2008 4:06pm PDT

    I haven't had a good affair in years. But, of course, my boyfriend and I do watch porn together and wouldn't mind at all taking a broader set of partners, so long as neither excludes the other.

    But at least half imagining it sounds a little low to me. I can't imagine who doesn't except for those who are asexual. Am I right out there?

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    Posted by twiddle Wed May 14, 2008 6:57pm PDT

    I just told my step- sister about this question she has juicy answers you would not want to stop reading .1 year she said its been going on, they met one rainy day she did not know it was going to rain so she took no umbrella to the gym. Get in he said or you will catch a cold and fell miserable she had no choice what a nice ride that was.She brags that she dont have to watch porn because she wrote most of the script.Its a pity she does not have internet so she could tell you more.[smile]

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    Posted by lkirk33 Wed May 14, 2008 8:24pm PDT

    Women need to be adored and when they loose that from their husbands, they are going to start looking. I think the only reason a woman cheats is when she knows or thinks her husband no longer finds her sexy. Woman have a constant longing to be hot, sexy, and adored. I initiated a friendship with a single dad one fall. He was a regular customer where I worked. We became close and began kissing but nothing more. My husband knew we where hanging out together with our kids. He would sit at home looking at porn online and chatting with girls online. My husband and I tryed to recommite but so hurt by what he had done for so long. I couldn't forget about my hot single dad. So it has been a year and a half since that, spent missing him with my whole heart. We saw each other once in awhile. I would take cookies to him and the kids alot. We exchanged sexy stares but nothing more for a long time. This last Christmas we started hanging out again. By Febuary we were driving each other crazy with kissing and touching. For valentine's day he took me to a beutiful hotel and we stayed in a huge suite. He rocked my world and made me feel adored. We have been having a secret affair ever since. He is infatuated with me and treats me with kindness I have never known before. Cheating is fun and makes me feel good about myself. I am loved again and needed in a real way not just sex. But that is a huge perk in our relationship. He is awesome in the bedroom, so passionent. I don't regret it at all. In facthes my neighbor and I see him now everyday and make love in his bed at least three times a week.

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    Posted by Charles Thu May 15, 2008 6:45am PDT

    Doesn't anyone face the truth anymore. When 34% of the "mommies" have had affairs...doesn't that tell you anything about the incredibly low

    morals in our country. No wonder 50% of the marriages fail in the U.S.

    Men and women who cheat on their spouses get exactly what they deserve.

    That's why antidepressants are the largest selling pharmaceuticals in

    America. Don't any of you, who are having affairs, realize that you can

    have no happiness or peace of mind when you are living in a world of lies and betrayal. I pity all of you who aren't capable of building and

    maintaining a relationship of trust and love. The whole thing makes me

    want to throw up! It's sick!

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  • Allswell~DM~'s Avatar
    Posted by Allswell~DM~ Thu May 15, 2008 11:13am PDT

    Well.....what makes ME wanna throw up is when my husband tells me after being married for 10 years and when I want to hold hands, or kiss in public, that it's "over"...that he did that in the beginning just to capture me, now we are comfortable with each other so the romance is gone......I agree with you lkirk33, you couldn't have said it better! I want to feel hot and sexy, and I do, but my husband tells me I'm too old to feel that way, I am 40 but feel like I'm 25. I was in something with one of my supervisors a few years ago....he was 26 and I was 37...OMG....we never had sex but we did almost everything else, it was awesome and he made me feel great, like I have wanted to feel all along, he still keeps in touch, we haven't done anything in long time, but whenever I want to feel good about myself again, I can just give em a call;)

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    Posted by Thu May 15, 2008 1:04pm PDT

    omg I was talking to someone in the past who made me feel alive again he was a year older then me but he was the best thing ever and i mean ever... The things we did were the greatest but good things have to end sooner or later...And yes are hubbys they forget to wow us so we find someone else that will wow us and hey that what happens when men get tired and lazy we want something more then just come here hon watch this movie with me and by the way rub my back to this do that but nothing for us! So what do we do we go out and look for someone who wants to touch us the way we want to be touched there is nothing wrong with it if no one get hurt!

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    Posted by Thu May 15, 2008 1:04pm PDT

    omg I was talking to someone in the past who made me feel alive again he was a year older then me but he was the best thing ever and i mean ever... The things we did were the greatest but good things have to end sooner or later...And yes are hubbys they forget to wow us so we find someone else that will wow us and hey that what happens when men get tired and lazy we want something more then just come here hon watch this movie with me and by the way rub my back to this do that but nothing for us! So what do we do we go out and look for someone who wants to touch us the way we want to be touched there is nothing wrong with it if no one get hurt!

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    Posted by Thu May 15, 2008 1:04pm PDT

    omg I was talking to someone in the past who made me feel alive again he was a year older then me but he was the best thing ever and i mean ever... The things we did were the greatest but good things have to end sooner or later...And yes are hubbys they forget to wow us so we find someone else that will wow us and hey that what happens when men get tired and lazy we want something more then just come here hon watch this movie with me and by the way rub my back to this do that but nothing for us! So what do we do we go out and look for someone who wants to touch us the way we want to be touched there is nothing wrong with it if no one get hurt!

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    Posted by Ali A Thu May 15, 2008 1:23pm PDT

    hi lov u sexxxxxxxxxxxx

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  • lexaleena's Avatar
    Posted by lexaleena Fri May 16, 2008 7:36am PDT

    When a man and woman wed they vow for better or worse. Just because you want another man does not give you the right to have an affair. I know that marriage can be more worse than better at times. But that is life and you have to deal with your problems as a couple instead of running into the arms of another. Give a 100% to your marriage...if your spouse cannot or will not give 100% also then maybe consider divorce not an affair. It takes two to make a marriage work...if you're having a affair then you are not giving to your marriage you are only taking away.

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