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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Crabmommy: Santa's gonna be a little cheap this year

We took Crabkid to Macy's today to check out the Christmas scene in the basement. It was a great success, especially since we were able to utterly avoid the far-too-long line for Santa by telling Crabkid all those people were just "waiting for the elevators"! She was fine with that and didn't even ask us about Santa; the animatronic elves and fake stables with Donner and Blixen more than satisfied our 4-year-old's appetite for Christmas enchantment. Which is a good thing because Santa's not going to make it to our house this year.

Why is Santa not coming to the Crabfamily this year? For the same reason he's not coming to any of our houses, people. Because of global warming. What with the polar ice caps melting, Santa got stranded this year. On an ice floe. Separated from his reindeer. So there will be no presents from him this year. Very sad, I know.

Jokes, people. Seriously, I know there are readers out there who think Crabmommy is cruel enough to pull something like that for real and tell her kid that Santa's out of commission, but you can rest assured that Mr. Claus will be making his stop at our tree. Only, he's going to be stingy this year, just as he's going to be at your house..and yours...and yours. Indeed, we all know consumer spending is at record lows, and while I suppose that's not good for the economy in the long run, I know that for my family, lowered expectations are not only the theme of Christmas, but the theme of 2009 in general.

On a tight budget? Cookie's got great holiday ideas that will make this year as special as any other.

"Bandaids with pictures on them." That's what I've told Crabkid she can expect from Santa. The rest of the year I buy only generic bandaids, so she's actually psyched about that one. "And you can ask Santa for  stickers. And for your own roll of tape." Yes, I'm going to put something else under the tree from Mom and Dad (a $4 Hello Kitty necklace, and a $5 Playmobil set involving a fairy pushing a wheelbarrow). But Santa's firmly in recession mode. He's bringing basic survival supplies—and few of them at that.

Stocking stuffers: Seven cute, affordable small presents that won't disappoint.

Of course, as we all know, kids like cheap stuff so Crabkid will no doubt be pleased with her modest stash. I hope that attitude lasts well into her future. Because I think she's going to need it.

What about you? Are you skimping on holiday presents for the tots, or does all the recession doom and gloom bring out the spendymom in you?

Don't feel bad about skimping a little on this years' presents, these 25 Gifts Under $25 has the whole family covered, leaving you a little extra to buy something for yourself!

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  • Mimi-pz's Avatar
    Posted by Mimi-pz Tue Dec 9, 2008 10:44am PST

    Our kids are getting a Wii this year with a few accessories. We've told them that their presents this year fall into the "quality" category -- not the traditional "quantity."

    We're planning on a lean 2009 too -- making adjustments for the as yet unknown future of my husband's current employment!

    Hopefully things will pan out for us, but at the moment... we're taking it easy!

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  • HotCrossBuns's Avatar
    Posted by HotCrossBuns Tue Dec 9, 2008 11:04am PST

    OMG! I thought I was the only one with kids who think their own tape is fabulous gift. hehehe I have to hide my own roll in the house or i'd never have any when I needed it!

    We told our kids that Santa had to lay off some elves this year and that production is down with a lot of toy manufacturers going out of business, so they shouldn't expect too much. It's all in good fun, but they've had fair warning that things may not be as lavish as years past. We're doing like Mimi this year, going for quality, not quantity.

    I acutally just picked up fancy underpants for all their stockings. Next week I'll get some socks to match!

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  • Libby T's Avatar
    Posted by Libby T Wed Dec 10, 2008 6:53am PST

    Wow. I thought I was cutting back this year, usally go overboard. I guess I am not then. But I am still spending about $300 on my 2 kids total. Some gifts are combination ones. I think the recession has not hit Texas yet, esp. now that gas is cheap again.

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  • Susan's Avatar
    Posted by Susan Wed Dec 10, 2008 7:03am PST

    Well this is my kid's first Christmas, so besides not really knowing what is going on, she of course has no other Christmasses to compare it to. I think we spent a little less than we would have if she would have been around last year, but not a whole lot less. Really not so much because of the economy, but because now I am a stay at home mom (by choice) so our income is less because of that. My husband and I are spending a little less on other family members (parents, etc.) than normal, and also a little less on each other. But it's always the thought that counts, and it's always fun to open a gift and be surprised, no matter how inexpensive it was.

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  • 311 is Life's Avatar
    Posted by 311 is Life Wed Dec 10, 2008 7:12am PST

    Libby T, are you for real? You don't think the recession has hit TEXAS yet? I'm pretty sure it's not sparing anyone...

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  • springtime's Avatar
    Posted by springtime Wed Dec 10, 2008 8:48am PST

    I agree with Susan. Kids just love opening presents... the gifts do not have to be expensive. There are many small gifts that will delight.. some board games, small trucks, small stuffed animals. This year I found a Hannah Montana wig, on sale ,for my five year old niece, ($ 12.00). She is quite the extroverted drama queen, so I know she will be thrilled. Any other year, I would have bought the microphone to go with it, but this year I am cutting back across the board.

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  • Angel's Avatar
    Posted by Angel Wed Dec 10, 2008 9:01am PST

    This recession is good for us. It's going to teach us that material things are not what it's all about, because when you lose everything you thought was important, all you have left is what is really important. Friends and Family. We are concentrating on them and not so much ourselves this year. My kids agree that they already have a lot, and just want to spend as much time as possible with the ones they love. They are 9, 7, & 5.

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  • Jenn's Avatar
    Posted by Jenn Wed Dec 10, 2008 9:40am PST

    AH! I love that you're giving your child tape - I am too! There is no kid old on earth that won't be delighted by that gift. This Christmas will be just like all of the others my daughter has ever known - one "big" gift and a few small gifts. I learned quickly no matter how much you tell your family to cut back when you have the only grandchild on one side and she's now also the only available grandchild on my new husband's side she will get bombarded with gifts. So if I, er, Santa get her that one thing she wants, we're all good.

    On a side note - to help make Santa recession proof, look into a Christmas Club at your bank. I deposit $20 week, which I set up to automatically come out of my checking account on pay day (so I never feel the pinch) and in October my bank mails me my $1000 plus interest. Half goes into my savings account and the other half buys holiday cheer. Most banks offer them in denominations of $5 - $5 week can buy you $250 worth of gifts. Not bad for the same cost of a trip to Starbucks once a week.

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  • Graphix Grrl's Avatar
    Posted by Graphix Grrl Wed Dec 10, 2008 9:59am PST

    I spent about $100 on my 5-year-old for this Christmas. That is cutting back because last year I spent $200. I got her stuff she wrote on her list but what I realized is everything she asked for was small. So she's not getting a huge gift under the tree this year. That kind of makes me feel like I didn't get her enough because it won't look like much, but since it was all stuff she wanted then I guess I shouldn't be worried. It's definately frustrating when you can't spend as much on gifts as you would like. Oh well.

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  • trxiegirl71's Avatar
    Posted by trxiegirl71 Wed Dec 10, 2008 10:05am PST

    I have a 5 year old Daughter, a 3 year old Son and a 12 year old Sister that I am buying for. I am not spending money on any one else other than people who live in my house (my MIL and My Mother live with us) or people who do not share my last name! LOL! So that is my Daughter, Son, Sister, Mother, MIL, Husband and Neices. I might get something small for my BIL and his wife. As for my kids, I have mostly gotten them used items. Before some people go bezerk, let me explain. I put up an ad on Craigslist looking for Barbie items for my Daughter. I explained that I would not take pure junk and that I would pay about $2.00 per doll. I got really great responses and then my Sister gave me all of her Barbie dolls and clothes and a car so all and all I have about 30 Barbie Dolls to present to her. I bought a Barbie Car with a doll in it at Wal*mart for $10.00 and now I am looking at a Barbie house and hopefully I can get that used too. I wash everything down and make it look really nice and there is no difference. I have about 12 Polly Pocket houses and peices to go with all of them that I got for $6.00 at the Flea Market. That was a deal. It was all in perfect condition too. She is also getting a gituar that I paid $20.00 at TRU. My Son is getting a Drum set that I paid $50.00 for and a bunch of Cars (Lightning McQueen) stuff. So I think that I have prob. spent about $100.00 for both of them. I am going to spend about $150.00 on the rest. Sorry for the long post, I want to let people know that just because it is used, does not mean that it is not out of the question to give it as a gift.

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