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Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Do You Think 30 Is Too Old to Have Your First Child? (Typo fixed) LOL and I found a typo not mentioned

I have worked in child care since I was 16yrs old. Most of those years I thought 30 was to ol to have your first child. The reason for that is because your energy level decreases and I thought it would be hrder on the body. Right now I am 28yrs old and have seen good parents an not so good parents ranging from 16-40 and. The span of ages include first time parents.

I am now 28yrs. old,married for 1yr and no babies. Do to my experience in child care I always knew what criteria I wanted to meet before I ha a child. Yes, married was part of the criteria. Out of all the job I have had randing from retail,paralegal,HR,and Grad assistant the one I have now would give me the most flexibility. I am a 2yr old toddler teacher and would be able to enroll my child into the child care center i work at. That means I woul pay $109 a week which is cheap for an infant and be able to see my baby while at work. Right now my husband and I don't have insurance because when we qualified for it last yr August an this yr March we really couldn't pay for it. By the time March rolls around we will be able to pay for insurance and be much better off financialy.

So the question is do I get off the pill when we qualify for insurance because I now believe that 30 isn't to old. The reason why I ask is because a want can change your perception.
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  • Lllll's Avatar
    Posted by Lllll Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:12pm PDT

    It's not TO old, it's TOO old. Please, spell check, it's a good thing, use it. Yikes, lady. Please do not reproduce.

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  • classicalmuzclovr's Avatar
    Posted by classicalmuzclovr Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:14pm PDT

    Hey there..

    No I don't think 30 is too old..

    I had my first at 23, and my second at 33.. got preggers right away at 32.

    There shouldn't be any reason at 30 that you should think you're going to have trouble, if you try for a while with no success, go see your doc. If you're not ready at 28, and want to wait till your 30, then you should still be okay. I won't lie, the younger the better.. but, 30 is still relatively young too, so you'll be fine!

    Be sure to not get preggers till after you get your insurance though!

    good luck!

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  • Kendra's Avatar
    Posted by Kendra Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:20pm PDT

    When the time is right for YOU, you'll know it. Do it when you're ready, set, stable-relationship-money wise. Speaking from expirence, babies first year of life is the most expensive-Dr. visits, check-ups, shots, etc. 30 is NOT too old. I was 25 with my first, 26 with my second. After my son was born, I had my tubes tied, we only wanted 2, I had to fight 4 nurses, 3 doctors about my descision. They tried talking me out of it cause I was "so young". It's my body, not theirs, smartest thing I ever did. Make sure the time is right for BOTH of you, talk about your emotions, feelings, concerns throughly. I wish you the best of luck!

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  • Kendra's Avatar
    Posted by Kendra Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:23pm PDT

    LoriK, what a cruel thing to say, not to reproduce over her spelling! What goes around, comes around.

    By the way, WHERE'S YOUR BLOG, HUH?

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  • annie's Avatar
    Posted by annie Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:27pm PDT

    Pregnancy is a preexisting condition. You'll have to be covered prior to conception. I had my first child at 32, second at 35 and last at 37. Ladies over 35 get offered an amniocentesis at 25 weeks gesation which identifies in utero anomalies and birth defects (not all, but some of the major ones like cadiac condition Tetrology of Follet, aencephaly and other brain abnormalities: bladder and spnal defects... a worthy diagnostic tool).

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  • annie's Avatar
    Posted by annie Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:27pm PDT

    Miss CML

    WORD!

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  • annie's Avatar
    Posted by annie Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:28pm PDT

    Look at the walking article in Health. Omipotent One has additional concerns to add to the underlyng difficulties......

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  • JoKTM's Avatar
    Posted by JoKTM Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:29pm PDT

    Thanks Kendra.

    I was at work from 6:30am-6:30pm tonight chasing 2yr.olds all day. I am happy I remember my own name. Some people cant handle one two year old and I have 11.

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  • annie's Avatar
    Posted by annie Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:30pm PDT

    Way to git her Kendra!!! LoriK that GIT was intentioanlly not GET.

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  • JSE's Avatar
    Posted by JSE Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:31pm PDT

    CML beat me...I agree with her. 30 is not too old. Just make sure you and your husband are ready emotionally as well. Bringing a new baby into the marriage is a big change. Take sometime for yourselves while in the process...enjoy one another. I had my two at 20 and 25 years old. I do not regret it at all. You should do what is best for you and your husband. My advice make sure and have the insurance.

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