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Monday, November 30, 2009

Exclusive from Elle: What terrifies Beyoncé? Childbirth


It's hard to imagine Beyoncé Knowles afraid of anything. She gives off this strong, serious, take-no-prisoners vibe, all while looking flawlessly gorgeous and approachable. But can we hate her? Not a chance. Not even when she has some questionable fashion moments.

Butin the January issue of Elle, the R&B singer and actress reveals one big fear: childbirth. Says Mrs. Jay-Z, "...I saw my nephew being born. That traumatized me."

If I had witnessed a baby's birth prior to having my own kids, I think I would have been pretty freaked out as well. It's not pretty. Until you get that baby in your arms, of course.

Maybe Beyoncé needs to channel her alter ego, Sasha Fierce, to get past her labor and delivery angst because good grief, we know her baby with Jay-Z would be downright adorable. And imagine how Beyoncé would rock maternity clothes.

And when it comes to her marriage, Beyoncé admits she and Jay-Z have a "power struggle." But she digs it because it shows strength in character. Otherwise...she'd be bored. Guess what? We believe her.

Check out these snippets from her interview:

On marriage to Jay-Z: It’s a power struggle. But if I didn’t respect someone and they didn’t have that strength, then I would be bored. I wouldn’t be attracted to them.”
 
On having kids: I’m terrified of having a child.  “No way! I’m terrified of delivering a child because I saw my nephew being born. That traumatized me. I’m only 27. I’ve got time”
 
How her latest role, playing Etta James in "Cadillac Records," took an emotional toll on her personal life: “My mom had to leave the set. I don’t normally curse. Maybe twice a year. I have to be really livid. Somebody saying things or scheduling something where I’m not in control. It was freeing, but it was also the most emotionally draining time of my life. Every day I would come home; my eyes would be completely swollen”

You can read more of the interview with Beyoncéover at Elle, where, yes, she looks flawlessly gorgeous.
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  • jovanna m's Avatar
    Posted by jovanna m Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:21pm PST

    well if she do become pregnant i hope she brings out a maternity clothing line because motherhood sux! lol im saying because im pregnant and DEREON is hotttttt

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:23pm PST

    That broad's kid with Jay-z is going to be hideous. She's doing us all a favor by refraining from motherhood. Anyway..she's more concerned with her $$$$$$. That's the real reason she won't have a kid.

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  • rhonda g's Avatar
    Posted by rhonda g Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:23pm PST

    I agree with Beyonce.. Kids are terrifying..I dont ever want any and nor do I want to have anything coming out of me in that way no matter how nice it is in the end..hellno.

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  • Charles S's Avatar
    Posted by Charles S Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:23pm PST

    oh yeah how terrifying.obviously not terrified of having a big fat asss.

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  • Poca85's Avatar
    Posted by Poca85 Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:23pm PST

    Yeah man, I watched my younger sister giving birth to my nephew two years ago and it was anything BUT beautiful. Whoever said childbirth was beautiful either a) never saw it in action or b) saw it, but was high. Anyway, I'm sure she'd make an adorable prego, have beautiful babies, and be a wonderful mother.

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  • Tasundra's Avatar
    Posted by Tasundra Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:23pm PST

    WTF!!! I mean is that it!!! I already have 1 and Im expecting another one in January. Get over it. If Jay-Z nut in u I bet u will keep it. Jus keepin it real!!!

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  • Mailayasia Y's Avatar
    Posted by Mailayasia Y Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:24pm PST

    i feel bad for her

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  • scott b's Avatar
    Posted by scott b Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:24pm PST

    THANK GOD YOU DONT WANT A KID AS IT WOULD BE BUTT UGLY !!!!!

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  • boomzer1's Avatar
    Posted by boomzer1 Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:24pm PST

    Long live Such-a Farce! I'd be scared of having a kid with Monkey Boy, too!

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  • Teya's Avatar
    Posted by Teya Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:25pm PST

    Childbirth can be a beautiful experience, so can the pregnancy. From personal experience being with child is biautiful all in its self. I was a pregnant model very attractive pregnant woman. Im also willing to share my pictures with you at any moment.

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