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Monday, December 14, 2009

Exclusive from Elle: What terrifies Beyoncé? Childbirth


It's hard to imagine Beyoncé Knowles afraid of anything. She gives off this strong, serious, take-no-prisoners vibe, all while looking flawlessly gorgeous and approachable. But can we hate her? Not a chance. Not even when she has some questionable fashion moments.

Butin the January issue of Elle, the R&B singer and actress reveals one big fear: childbirth. Says Mrs. Jay-Z, "...I saw my nephew being born. That traumatized me."

If I had witnessed a baby's birth prior to having my own kids, I think I would have been pretty freaked out as well. It's not pretty. Until you get that baby in your arms, of course.

Maybe Beyoncé needs to channel her alter ego, Sasha Fierce, to get past her labor and delivery angst because good grief, we know her baby with Jay-Z would be downright adorable. And imagine how Beyoncé would rock maternity clothes.

And when it comes to her marriage, Beyoncé admits she and Jay-Z have a "power struggle." But she digs it because it shows strength in character. Otherwise...she'd be bored. Guess what? We believe her.

Check out these snippets from her interview:

On marriage to Jay-Z: It’s a power struggle. But if I didn’t respect someone and they didn’t have that strength, then I would be bored. I wouldn’t be attracted to them.”
 
On having kids: I’m terrified of having a child.  “No way! I’m terrified of delivering a child because I saw my nephew being born. That traumatized me. I’m only 27. I’ve got time”
 
How her latest role, playing Etta James in "Cadillac Records," took an emotional toll on her personal life: “My mom had to leave the set. I don’t normally curse. Maybe twice a year. I have to be really livid. Somebody saying things or scheduling something where I’m not in control. It was freeing, but it was also the most emotionally draining time of my life. Every day I would come home; my eyes would be completely swollen”

You can read more of the interview with Beyoncéover at Elle, where, yes, she looks flawlessly gorgeous.
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  • Shawanda's Avatar
    Posted by Shawanda Mon Dec 15, 2008 12:48pm PST

    U took a cute pic

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  • natural_beauty's Avatar
    Posted by natural_beauty Mon Dec 15, 2008 2:41pm PST

    OMG THATS IS THE ONE THING THAT SCARES HER?! WHAT A WIMP!! WOMEN HAVE BEEN GIVING BIRTH SINCE TIME STARTED. I HAVE TO ADMIT IT MOST LIKELY ISNT AS FUN AS LETS SAY PERFORMING OR SHAKING YOUR ASS BUT COME GIRL YOU'VE ACCOMPLISHED SO MUCH WHY NOT TAKE IT FURTHER!!!

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  • Blackdiamondz08's Avatar
    Posted by Blackdiamondz08 Wed Dec 17, 2008 5:25pm PST

    i would love to be high on marijuana sounds bad but i want to be seeing s--- thats not even there so i cant feel a thing ontop on the epidural..And tell my kid all about it..If i ever catch them smoking weed i'll simply explain to them there came a time when your mom had given you weed and you looked like a total bomb so dont smoke week babe..lol

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Thu Jan 22, 2009 5:50am PST

    I thought Beyonce would be more scared looking in the mirror at her HUGE A$$!

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Thu Jan 22, 2009 5:59am PST

    Oh, goodness, its nothing. I have had six (yes, six) children including a set of twins. Every single one a cesarian section. Now I can't have anymore because my last one tore a hole in my uterus. Fun, huh?

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  • born2bfatgirl's Avatar
    Posted by born2bfatgirl Sun Jan 25, 2009 10:41am PST

    Ladies I would be carefull with those oh so famous epidural's I am permanently

    disabled from the epidural I received during childbirth One of those

    risks they dont tell you about.

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