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Sunday, November 29, 2009

Gift Giving to Teachers- What is Proper Etiquette?

Buying a gift for a teacher is always tricky as there is a fine line between showing your appreciation and brown nosing.  While teachers deserve a big, “thanks!” for coaching and guiding your child, you don’t want to go over the top with your gift and have it look like bribery! Two great, modest ways to show your teacher appreciation is to either ask the other students to “chip in” on a gift and/or to limit the gift buying to the following occasions: holidays, end of year, National Teacher Day, or a teacher’s retirement.  While buying a gift for any of these occasions is not necessary, it is appropriate and well appreciated.  Below you will find some helpful Q&A to guide you through teacher gift-giving.

Q. Who do you typically give a teacher gift to?

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teacher notecards

A. Daycare, Nursery School, Preschool, or Elementary School teachers are the ones who you would typically buy a teacher gift for.

Q. How much should you spend on a teacher gift?

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Dollar Sign

A.Since you do not want to seem like you are brown-nosing, limit the gift price to $10-$25.  If you would like to buy something that is more expensive, ask the other students in the class to chip in.

Q. Do you need to buy your teacher both a National Teachers Day and an End of Year present?

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Teacher Cookies

A. Since they are so close to one another, many parents opt to acknowledge one over the other.  We suggest that you consult with the other parents in the class to see which they are acknowledging or to see if they want to chip in on a National Teachers Day gift, and then you can buy an end of year gift yourself. 

Q. When should you absolutely NOT buy your teacher a gift?

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No Sign Image


A. You should not buy your teacher a gift “just because” or even for his/her birthday, as these instances would be construed as brown nosing. 

Q. When should you buy your teacher a gift?

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Teacher Gift

A. As mentioned above, the appropriate times to give your teacher a gift are holidays, end of year, National Teacher Day, or even a teacher’s retirement.

Q. What are appropriate gifts to give your teacher?

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Apple Jar

A. Something small and thoughtful is key when giving teacher gifts.  We recommend teacher tote bags, personalized notepads or even personalized canisters that can be decorated with all of the student’s names.

And last but not least, remember to include a note and spell-check your message!  A perfectly written note will certainly please your teacher the most!

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  • DarleneM's Avatar
    Posted by DarleneM Fri Jun 26, 2009 8:57pm PDT

    As a teacher, can I just say-please don't get me anymore gifts that say "teacher"! I have plenty of totebags to last for the rest of my career. I think it's better to realize that teachers are normal people outside of school and would probably like the same kinds of gifts that other people would like. When in doubt, go for something edible (chocolate is usually a hit), or get a gift card to a local bookstore-teachers can use it to get something for the class or for themselves.

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  • JerryH's Avatar
    Posted by JerryH Mon Oct 26, 2009 4:13pm PDT

    You're invited to visit the nonprofit www.iLoveSchools.com where you can give a teacher a small or large gift towards their classroom WishList. Teachers spend money out of their pockets every year to educate America's schoolchildren yet most people have no idea they do so. Giving to their WishList helps three times. Once when the teacher receives your gift, second when they don't have to spend out-of-pocket to buy those classroom resources and third as your gift benefits our schoolchildren - helping them stay engaged in school. You can also give any new, used or in-kind donation to any teacher of your choice as well as tell us how much, if any, we can use for our administrative costs. Thanks much!

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