A women that carried you for 9 months means the world
to you, you also mean the world to her. A mother wants to make sure
she gives her child the best life it can have whether its with her
or another family. For all mothers it is hard to
give up there child. For some mothers it may look like it was easy
for them but it wasn’t. How can someone carry a child for 9 months
and give it up right after birth? When you carry that child for
nine months you become close with the child. You have a connection
with the child. When you hold your child in your
arms for the first time and feel the love you have for your child
and your child looks you in the eyes for the first time how can you
give it to another family? For some families a new baby brings joy
for other families it brings sadness. Sadness from a miss carriage
or to see go with another family. For a mother to give her child to
another family and trust that the family will take good care of it
and give it a better life then she could proves that that women is
strong. No matter what she has been put threw in life giving up a
child is the bravest thing any women could ever do. If you think
its easy it isn’t. When you are pregnant you might think to your
self I can do this and feel sad in the end but once you see the
child you created it changes your mined. Keeping a child isn’t just
about the love it is also about can you afford the child? Yes love
is important and so is taking good care of your
child. To me my mother is the bravest person
alive that I know so far. She gave up three or four of her own
kids. She had my older half brother when she was
19, then me at 20, then my younger half brother or sister at 21,
and my younger half brother or sister at 22. To
do it once is hard but three- four times must be really hard. I can
understand why she gave me and my brothers and sisters
up. I know she lived on her own and she didn’t
have her parents support for whatever reason. She might have had a
job to support one person and not two but for what ever reason I
still care for her and still love her no matter what. I am going to
look for her this year starting in December.
