These Four Questions Might Make You
Scream.
Here's how to be prepared for tactlessness about your
pregnancy.
When an acquaintance of mine heard about my pregnancy from a mutual
friend, her reaction was, “Really? That’s so weird. I can’t picture
her with kids.” Needless to say, that’s not what this mom-to-be
wanted to hear.
If sharing your happy news brings cringe-worthy comments and
questions instead of congratulations, respond politely and
definitively—and then change the subject to something you’re
comfortable with, says etiquette expert Cindy Post Senning,
director at The Emily Post Institute. “There’s something about
pregnancy that makes people think they can say things they’d never
say otherwise.” Here are her suggested (polite) replies to some
classic remarks and questions:
“Were you trying?”
You say “You bet, and we’ve been having a great
time!” Humor is a great way to deal with nosy questions. Not the
cheeky type? Simply say, “I consider that personal, but we’re so
excited.”
“Are you supposed to be eating/drinking/doing
that?”
You say “Thanks for your concern, but this is
perfectly OK.”
“You’re so big already!”
You say “My doctor tells me I’m right on
track.”
“You’re naming the baby that?!”
You say “Yes, I love the name.” It’s hard to
combat an “I” statement.
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I Can't Believe She Said That!
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