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Monday, November 30, 2009

Is This Normal?

When I was in Elementary school I had a friend. Back then I hadn't realized that friends can also be enemies, or could turn into enemies. We use to be best friends. Then he started saying nasty things about girls and/or women. I was quite disturbed. He would say a girl liked him, when they didn't.


The worst of it all was, he would say nasty things about my mom. That's what changed everything.
He would look out of the second floor windows, and look down my mom's shirt. My mom saw him do it once and she flipped him the bird. After that every time after school, she would look up while she was waiting for me to get out and see him. He would always stare at my mother while he would walk out of the school. I wasn't the type that liked to get in fights, but if I did, I very much would have beat his a**.

The worst of the worst was, while my mother was pregnant with my sister, he said "I like pregnant women". He just randomly told the students in my class that! Of course the students responded with "omfg" or "wtf".

No one really liked this kid. I told him at the end of the year I was gonna beat his a**. He had left early from school that day, so I didn't get the chance. Now that I see more things he has done, he is obsessed with cell phones, and his Playstation.

Could this kid have a mental illness? I never saw anything good happening in his future when it comes to women. He would always make nasty comments. So far it has been about 1 year since elementary and I wonder, Could this kid have Mental illness? I thought that maybe the public could have some interesting comments.


By the way, what I just wrote, is barely even close to the details. This is just a quick over view.
Oh, and by the way, maybe this will help. He is consistently saying his name is different. He says his mother got remarried, when she didn't. He said his first name is Paris, when on school records it says the real name. He said his dad is in jail at "San Quinton" when that prison is shut down. Clearly he is crazy.

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  • casy's Avatar
    Posted by casy Sat Oct 10, 2009 2:22pm PDT

    Some one to satay away from, that's for sure..

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  • Mrs. Carol B's Avatar
    Posted by Mrs. Carol B Sat Oct 10, 2009 2:31pm PDT

    I agree with Casy. He is someone good to stay away from.

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  • Morgana's Avatar
    Posted by Morgana Sat Oct 10, 2009 2:36pm PDT

    It sounds like a mental disease most likely. Either way, this is someone the cops should surveillance to ensure that he doesn't act on these voyeuristic tendencies and rapes or kills a woman.

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  • casy's Avatar
    Posted by casy Sat Oct 10, 2009 2:38pm PDT

    No it is not Normal

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  • Dorothy's Avatar
    Posted by Dorothy Sat Oct 10, 2009 2:39pm PDT

    no thats not normal and yes he very well could have a mental illlness and it sounds like someone needs to give this young boy some well needed therepy

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  • Leah's Avatar
    Posted by Leah Sat Oct 10, 2009 2:45pm PDT

    The boy has issues, and there's a hard road in front of him....for himelf and anyone around him. Stay clear.

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  • wildchild's Avatar
    Posted by wildchild Sat Oct 10, 2009 3:47pm PDT

    Everyone that has commented before me is absolutely correct. It would be wise to stay clear of this person and if you think you need to get someone involved please do we have a sixth sense for a reason.

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  • J's Avatar
    Posted by J Sat Oct 10, 2009 7:38pm PDT

    I think you should talk to an adult you trust in your life about this. I can't tell the age from your post, so it might be simple kid looking for attention and finding it by doing negative behavior or something much more serious. You should tell someone, give them the whole story, and hopefully help this boy before it becomes worse. Don't just stay away from him and ignore him, get him some help too!

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  • Ingeborg's Avatar
    Posted by Ingeborg Sat Oct 10, 2009 11:07pm PDT

    yea, he could have a mental problem or seeking attention. If he's seeking attention he is not going about it the right way, it's the WRONG way. The thing about beating someones a** is not gonna help the situation. Yea, you are upset or could get upset about the situation but you can also make it worse. The best thing to do is talk to someone who would like to listen to the situation so you two could put your heads together and see what you both can do to help him.

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  • Silence*Tells*All's Avatar
    Posted by Silence*Tells*All Sun Oct 11, 2009 12:53pm PDT

    perhaps you should speak with someone such as a teacher you are close to or even better a guidence counselor. this kid needs help.... he could have several diff. mental disorders (not his fault). even though you do not like him or what he does or how he acts you should still try to help him... by doing this you could be saving lives or protecting women/girls. the longer this boy goes w/o help.... the worse it will get.....

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