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Saturday, July 4, 2009

Mom of Tweens: When Mom Bloggers Attack

I watched it unravel in real time on Sunday. Moms who blog and those who tweet on Twitter were creating an uproar over what can be nicely described as a publicity error by the folks at Motrin. Their ad about babywearing was ticking off a lot of moms who wear or have worn their babies in a sling. It's since been yanked from Motrin's site, but it lives on, of course, on YouTube.

The VP of marketing at McNeil Consumer Healthcare, herself a mother of three, later issued a well written apology, stating, We had intended to demonstrate genuine sympathy and appreciation for all that parents do for their babies.

But flash mobs move fast on the Internet. In just twelve hours or so, angry mobs of moms tweeted and blogged and blamed and pointed fingers until #motrinmom became one of the top trending topics on Twitter. They were angry at the tone of the ad, which they found to be condescending, and they railed against the ad's assertion that somehow babywearing is a fashion statement. Also that moms feel tired and crazy.

And then the inevitable happened: Angry mobs went after the angry moms, telling them to find something more important to get behind, and far, far worse things that I won't repeat here. But if you've ever watched an online brawl breakout, you can fill in the blanks yourself, mainly with words that begin with F and end with hurt feelings and lots of flaming.

It's unfortunate for the folks at Motrin that the whole thing went down on a weekend, because, like most major corporations, no one was watching their site or what people were saying about their brand. But, like my babies (or so it felt), the Internet never sleeps.

The lesson here that communications majors will no doubt study for years to come is that social networking is a powerful force, especially when moms are using it. And while many non-moms complained online about it, when mom bloggers attack, it can be dangerous for whoever is at the other end of it.

So, Motrin: I feel your pain. As a former ad executive, I can imagine what it was like for the Motrin ad team to come to work yesterday morning. Your best bet now is to reach out to the very moms who brought you to the woodshed in the first place, and find out what it is they want to hear from you. Then come back with better ads that make moms-who-tweet happy. Because when mom bloggers attack, somebody always gets hurt.


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  • Elle's Avatar
    Posted by Elle Tue Nov 18, 2008 3:37pm PST

    OK, I've seen the ad. What part of it is offensive?

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  • ramonawh's Avatar
    Posted by ramonawh Tue Nov 18, 2008 4:14pm PST

    Wow!!! It is sooo not that serious. Really, just chill out. It's just an ad about pain relief. That's not to say don't use a baby sling or anything condescending about using one. Sling or no sling carrying a child or anything else can cause back pain. I think we mother's have other things to worry about (i.e. raising your child) than to spend time complaining about this particular advertisement.

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  • babygirl's Avatar
    Posted by babygirl Tue Nov 18, 2008 5:44pm PST

    that is so true. hello i have 2 sons and 4 step kids and my kids live with there father and i recently come back to my husband after leaving him about 7 times. his twins are holy terrers.

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  • Habanero's Avatar
    Posted by Habanero Wed Nov 19, 2008 3:48am PST

    Wow mothers are really weird these days. Take a Motrin and relax.

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  • cutebanker's Avatar
    Posted by cutebanker Wed Nov 19, 2008 6:14am PST

    what is twitter? is it a mom thing i just don't understand?

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  • Mmgirl's Avatar
    Posted by Mmgirl Wed Nov 19, 2008 8:16am PST

    Seriously? Ridiculous! See moms are tired, cranky, and need to take some motrin. My sister is a new mom to twins and I tell her she is crazy. She says I have newborn twins, of course I am. They need to get over it and get some sleep.

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  • amanda's Avatar
    Posted by amanda Wed Nov 19, 2008 10:18am PST

    UMMMMM....seriously...wow....hmmmmmmmmm?....its just an ad, I just watched it..and had to watch it again to see if there was something I missed becuase there was NOTHING offensive about that what so ever. People need to chill.

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  • gpgirl06's Avatar
    Posted by gpgirl06 Wed Nov 19, 2008 10:24am PST

    I am a mom, and I used a baby carrier for a long time with my son. However, I thought the commercial was fine. I was very surprised at the negative response. Are people so sensitive that everything needs to be 100% positive? Yes, moms do get tired and crazy. Is that so awful to say? Do we all have to be super-moms and pretend we have it all together.

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  • hardyhar's Avatar
    Posted by hardyhar Wed Nov 19, 2008 10:40am PST

    Hey Candice, twitter is a social networking website like facebook.I think angry moms need to calm down. Motrin was just trrying to sell products using 1 person's mom experience. Something has happened in America where some women feel that being mothers make them over-sensitive know-it-alls trying to one up each other.Like Elizabeth Hasselbeck, who really wasn't that annoying until she had her daughter in 2005 and felt that she could educate people like Barbara and Meredith who have been mothers for longer time (combined or not combined in Barbara's case) than she has been alive.

    No disrespect to Moms out there. Most mothers are down to earth people who have little time for stupid internet squabbles about painliller commercials.

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  • N C's Avatar
    Posted by N C Wed Nov 19, 2008 11:15am PST

    I happened to like the add and it had a kind of truth to it. Maybe these moms who are having such an issue with the ad should get some sleep instead of spending hours blogging over it. They are obviously cranky. And yes, I am a mom too

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