Parenting

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Mom of Tweens: When Mom Bloggers Attack

I watched it unravel in real time on Sunday. Moms who blog and those who tweet on Twitter were creating an uproar over what can be nicely described as a publicity error by the folks at Motrin. Their ad about babywearing was ticking off a lot of moms who wear or have worn their babies in a sling. It's since been yanked from Motrin's site, but it lives on, of course, on YouTube.

The VP of marketing at McNeil Consumer Healthcare, herself a mother of three, later issued a well written apology, stating, We had intended to demonstrate genuine sympathy and appreciation for all that parents do for their babies.

But flash mobs move fast on the Internet. In just twelve hours or so, angry mobs of moms tweeted and blogged and blamed and pointed fingers until #motrinmom became one of the top trending topics on Twitter. They were angry at the tone of the ad, which they found to be condescending, and they railed against the ad's assertion that somehow babywearing is a fashion statement. Also that moms feel tired and crazy.

And then the inevitable happened: Angry mobs went after the angry moms, telling them to find something more important to get behind, and far, far worse things that I won't repeat here. But if you've ever watched an online brawl breakout, you can fill in the blanks yourself, mainly with words that begin with F and end with hurt feelings and lots of flaming.

It's unfortunate for the folks at Motrin that the whole thing went down on a weekend, because, like most major corporations, no one was watching their site or what people were saying about their brand. But, like my babies (or so it felt), the Internet never sleeps.

The lesson here that communications majors will no doubt study for years to come is that social networking is a powerful force, especially when moms are using it. And while many non-moms complained online about it, when mom bloggers attack, it can be dangerous for whoever is at the other end of it.

So, Motrin: I feel your pain. As a former ad executive, I can imagine what it was like for the Motrin ad team to come to work yesterday morning. Your best bet now is to reach out to the very moms who brought you to the woodshed in the first place, and find out what it is they want to hear from you. Then come back with better ads that make moms-who-tweet happy. Because when mom bloggers attack, somebody always gets hurt.


Good Housekeeping
* How One Mom's Wardrobe Dreams Came True
* Vote on the Cutest Pet Costumes!
* Take a Break with Mahjongg
* Should You Microwave Plastic?
* For More Tips & Tricks You Can Count On: Subscribe to Good Housekeeping & Save!


Reprinted with Permission of Hearst Communications, Inc.
Syndication:

From the Community…

Comments 11-20 of 33
  • Jen Singer's Avatar
    Posted by Jen Singer Wed Nov 19, 2008 11:57am PST

    Twitter is a microblogging site where you update your status in 140 characters or less. You sign up to follow other tweeters and vice versa. If you'd like to test it out, follow me: http://twitter.com/JenSinger

    Report Abuse
  • Karen S's Avatar
    Posted by Karen S Wed Nov 19, 2008 12:32pm PST

    I think the ad was off. As a mom who has worn her babies I took issue with the characterization that a babywearing mom was doing it just because it was "in" even though it was painful. Most the times, if wearing my kids gave me pain, they were too big for the carrier or the carrier was being used incorrectly. I think it wasn't the worst thing I've ever seen but I can see where others got upset.

    Report Abuse
  • cindy's Avatar
    Posted by cindy Wed Nov 19, 2008 12:35pm PST

    I dont like when it says it makes you look like an official mom. So I am a bad mom cuz I carried mine in a car seat? Whatever. I do think the tone is a little superficial and condencending. Flaky even. I hadn't heard of it until this blog though.

    Report Abuse
  • Hanny22's Avatar
    Posted by Hanny22 Wed Nov 19, 2008 1:01pm PST

    Give me a break!?! Seriously, I'm so happy that I'm not a mom...apparently it makes you overreact to stupid crap. People are way too hyper-sensitive these days. Get over it!

    Report Abuse
  • 's Avatar
    Posted by Wed Nov 19, 2008 1:05pm PST

    It is so ridiculous how moms reacted to a commercial. Being a mother does give you pains when you have to carry your kids everywhere you go which is great because it makes me closer with my child. I just don't understand how these mothers could be so mad about an ad that in no way is controversial. All those mothers that were offended should get over it. I always thought people who wear baby slings or backpacks were lazy. God blessed you with arms USE them.

    Report Abuse
  • Magen's Avatar
    Posted by Magen Wed Nov 19, 2008 1:33pm PST

    Wow...really? It's a freaking advertisement! Get over yourselves! If people got this upset over things that actually matter and that are actual problems, like AIDS, Darfur, poverty, etc., then maybe we could actually solve some of the world's worst problems. I mean to get angry enough over it to get them to pull the ad is ridiculous! If you use Motrin is that ad going to stop you from using it from now on, or keep you from buying it? Why are people so dang sensitive these days? You can hardly sneeze without offending someone..oh that's right you can't because someone might say "bless you" and offend someone who doesn't believe in blessing someone.

    Report Abuse
  • Amy R's Avatar
    Posted by Amy R Wed Nov 19, 2008 1:45pm PST

    Are you serious!!!! What a stupid thing to get bent out of shape about. Those moms need to get a grip and worry about the kids not a stupid commercial.

    Report Abuse
  • Science mama's Avatar
    Posted by Science mama Wed Nov 19, 2008 2:49pm PST

    Here is what I think is the problem. A baby carrier is meant to make your life easier. However, some people have to turn in into a movement, calling it babywearing and attachment parenting. Then it becomes like a religion, and anyone who dare offend it will get into trouble.

    It is like we are ashamed to say we are doing something for our own convenience, so we try and turn it into something more noble.

    And for the person who said using a baby carrier is lazy - yes, if lazy means that my life is easier, you bet I am lazy. I am no martyr, I will admit when I do something for myself.

    But really, all the moms I know (including myself) thought the ad was fine. This sounds like a very vocal minority complaining here.

    Report Abuse
  • paige_n_jordans_mom's Avatar
    Posted by paige_n_jordans_mom Wed Nov 19, 2008 2:53pm PST

    You're kidding right? Have moms gotten so out-of-touch that they are offending by a freakin' commercial? I have an 8 yr old and 5 yr old. I don't have time to watch commercials, let alone be offended by them. For the record, I never used a carrier for my kids. I was terrified it would break and/or I would drop them somehow with it. I used those two sticks attached to my upper body... arms. Yes, holding your child is important. Having them close is great, BUT I wasn't going to hold them 24/7. If I needed both of my hands to do something, they were put on the floor, in their swing, or in their seat. I can't imagine trying to sweep, mop, do laundry, or clean a toilet with a child strapped to me, lol.

    Report Abuse
  • paige_n_jordans_mom's Avatar
    Posted by paige_n_jordans_mom Wed Nov 19, 2008 2:55pm PST

    "offending" should be offended SHEESH... I've got typo-itis today.

    Report Abuse
Comments 11-20 of 33

leave your comment

You must sign in to post a comment

Sign In for personalized information

New User? Sign Up

Updates Chatter on Shine…

parenting byte

When entrusting your child's health to a pediatrician, you are bound to have concerns about whether you are picking the right practice or doctor. Here are five questions to ask when choosing a pediatrician.