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Thursday, December 3, 2009

Mom of Tweens: When Mom Bloggers Attack

I watched it unravel in real time on Sunday. Moms who blog and those who tweet on Twitter were creating an uproar over what can be nicely described as a publicity error by the folks at Motrin. Their ad about babywearing was ticking off a lot of moms who wear or have worn their babies in a sling. It's since been yanked from Motrin's site, but it lives on, of course, on YouTube.

The VP of marketing at McNeil Consumer Healthcare, herself a mother of three, later issued a well written apology, stating, We had intended to demonstrate genuine sympathy and appreciation for all that parents do for their babies.

But flash mobs move fast on the Internet. In just twelve hours or so, angry mobs of moms tweeted and blogged and blamed and pointed fingers until #motrinmom became one of the top trending topics on Twitter. They were angry at the tone of the ad, which they found to be condescending, and they railed against the ad's assertion that somehow babywearing is a fashion statement. Also that moms feel tired and crazy.

And then the inevitable happened: Angry mobs went after the angry moms, telling them to find something more important to get behind, and far, far worse things that I won't repeat here. But if you've ever watched an online brawl breakout, you can fill in the blanks yourself, mainly with words that begin with F and end with hurt feelings and lots of flaming.

It's unfortunate for the folks at Motrin that the whole thing went down on a weekend, because, like most major corporations, no one was watching their site or what people were saying about their brand. But, like my babies (or so it felt), the Internet never sleeps.

The lesson here that communications majors will no doubt study for years to come is that social networking is a powerful force, especially when moms are using it. And while many non-moms complained online about it, when mom bloggers attack, it can be dangerous for whoever is at the other end of it.

So, Motrin: I feel your pain. As a former ad executive, I can imagine what it was like for the Motrin ad team to come to work yesterday morning. Your best bet now is to reach out to the very moms who brought you to the woodshed in the first place, and find out what it is they want to hear from you. Then come back with better ads that make moms-who-tweet happy. Because when mom bloggers attack, somebody always gets hurt.


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  • Barbie's Avatar
    Posted by Barbie Sat Nov 22, 2008 12:04pm PST

    These moms need to relax! I am a mother myself. I think these are lonely housewives who have to feel important. ( No offense to the housewives out there).

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  • Christa's Avatar
    Posted by Christa Sat Nov 22, 2008 1:57pm PST

    I think a lot of moms were worried that new moms, or moms who had not tried baby wearing, would see the add and decide not to babywear over it. Not that it is bad if you decide not to baby wear, but an add for pain killer shouldn't decide for you. Babywearing is a wonderful experience for me, as it is for a lot of babywearers out there, and we want to spread the joy, not hamper it! Another portion of the add insinuated that people babywear to be trendy, not for their children's well being. I'm sure they are out there, but I personally make all parenting decisions based on the good of my children and family, not on being trendy. Anyway I didn't think the add was too offensive, just in poor taste and I think Motrin needs to take a second look at their adds before sending them out.

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  • Jenue's Avatar
    Posted by Jenue Sat Nov 29, 2008 10:26am PST

    OH PLEASE! GET A LIFE... IT'S A MOTRIN COMMERCIAL...BESIDES, WE ALL USE SOME FORM OF PAIN RELIEF WHATEVER THE CAUSE...

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