My son is home!!! And I am really mad at his father.

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  Posted by Super Abuelita Mon Dec 29, 2008 8:54am PST

  29_ and holding,

  We are kind of going thru some similar stuff with my grandkids dad. Whenever he brings them over he FORGETS the diapers for the baby, FORGETS to bring clothes to change to. Hr then asks us for money tp put in his gf's truck!! Then he calls and tells my daughter he can't pick them up, unless we give him money. The his mother calls and says we can't see the kids unless my daughter (their mother)doesn't come by.

  I don't get it when kids are not given top priority!! You have the right to be mad. I know I don't appreciate people playing games with innocent lives.

  You will be in my prayers. So will your sson!

  Luffya

  Abuelita

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  Posted by Leigh Mon Dec 29, 2008 8:58am PST

  I'm glad to hear that your son is finally home. By the sounds of it, your home is the only place he is safe or cared for! His fathers actions are 100% neglectful and should be addressed in court-you should NEVER have to send that child ANYWHERE to visit a father who has so very little concern for his welfare..

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  Posted by 29_and holding Mon Dec 29, 2008 9:40am PST

  Leigh, thank you for your comments. I did take pics of his thumb, and I made sure that it was documented at the hospital.

  Abuelita, I am sorry that you have to go through the situation that you are in. It is so frustrating that people who should love their kiddos do not put them first.

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  Posted by bob the builder Mon Dec 29, 2008 9:45am PST

  WTF!!!!! Does your ex love that 75 dollars more than his own son's well being. I could'nt stand to watch my son in pain. I dont know how he could.

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  Posted by 29_and holding Mon Dec 29, 2008 10:13am PST

  I doubt that he really cared. This is the same man that promises that he will be here and never shows.

  They went hunting. My kiddo shot a deer. I have the pics of him holding it. He came home still smelling like it. He said he did not take a shower the whole time he was there.

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  Posted by groovygirl27 Mon Dec 29, 2008 10:20am PST

  Oh my gosh 29!!! That is terrible!! I would definitely bring it to someone's attention. Even if there is a 75.00 copay, and let's say hypothetically he didn't have the money, ERs cannot refuse to see you, at least not where I live. That is pitiful. His custody(even if only at certain times of the year) should be revoked if he cannot even take his son to the hospital. You shouldn't have to worry about his well-being the whole time he is gone!

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  Posted by 29_and holding Mon Dec 29, 2008 10:28am PST

  I agree groovy. However I do worry about him every time he is away. I do not know the real reason he did not take him that is just my assumption.

  Thanks to all that have commented.

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  Posted by BryanB Mon Dec 29, 2008 10:35am PST

  Well I am sorry to hear about your Kid and your x should be ashamed of not taking care of it while he was thier . I hope it will all work out but I do understand why you say what you do but let email each outher you sound nice

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  Posted by groovygirl27 Mon Dec 29, 2008 10:37am PST

  No matter what the reason 29, he should've taken him to the hospital. And made him shower! Ugh!

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  Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Mon Dec 29, 2008 11:19am PST

  That is child abuse and grounds for a change in custody. The child had a broken bone and his father refuesd to take him to get medical treatment!!!!

  I'd be steaming if I were you. I'd report him to Child Protection Services!

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