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Friday, November 27, 2009

No Words? No Problem. Teach Your Tot Sign Language

If you’ve seen Meet the Fockers then you’re familiar with baby sign language. In the movie, released in 2004, Robert De Niro teaches his grandson to communicate using his hands. Though portrayed humorously in the film, baby sign language is no joke. The pop culture nod to baby signing really gave the public insight into a movement that researchers have been studying since the early 1980s: Just because babies can’t talk doesn’t mean they don’t have anything to say. 

Kids can start learning how to communicate with signs when they’re as young as 6 months old. There are signs to help with food, signs that represent everyday items, outdoor-related signs, signs to help with potty training,and more.

Based on a simplified version of American Sign Language, researchers (and parents) say that baby signs are a way of alleviating frustration and even tantrums, because kids are able to express themselves.

 “Signing and communicating with babies helps them communicate before they can talk,” says Jamie Stevens, an independent certified instructor for the Baby Signs Program. “The muscles in the mouth are not full developed until 2 years old and so through coordination of their movements they’re able to produce the simple signs and communicate with their parents and childcare givers anywhere from 6, 7, 8 months old.”

Stevens shared a few of the most basic, early signs that she shares with her students: 

  • More—Holding your hands in front of you, bring fingertips together and tap them several times.
  • Milk—Make a fist and squeeze, as though milking a cow.
  • Eat—Hold the fingers and thumbs together as though holding a small piece of food and tap to mouth.
  • All done—Aim palms toward floor, crossing hands over top of each other, back and forth, in front of you.
  • Hurt—Tap together two index fingers together, near where the pain is.
  • Drink—Position hand as though you’re holding an imaginary cup and raise to mouth.
  • Sleep—Tilt your head to the side and rest your hand to your cheek, while closing your eyes.

Stevens says that once kids get the hang of it, they’ll be asking for more. “As they start picking up the signs, they’re craving more information,” she says. “They’re wanting more signs to be able to communicate.”

In fact, once they start learning kids have a tendency to make up their own signs, whether it’s for airplane, banana, teddy bear or whatever is meaningful to them.

“They love inventing signs,” says Stevens.

When the do create their own, it’s up to the parents to become the interpreter and learn what the child is saying. Stevens suggests that the parent can either adopt the sign that the child has come up with or look up the correct sign and model that for the child. Either way, the same goal is being accomplished: Communication and understanding.

To learn more about Baby Signs and/or Jamie Stevens go to www.babysignsprogram.com/withjsinterpreting.

 

—By Kate Silver for Parents.com

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  • Leah's Avatar
    Posted by Leah Tue Oct 27, 2009 11:54am PDT

    I think signs would be ok as long as you still encourage vocalizing. If babies are making up their own signs and the parents don't understand, wouldn't that be just as frustrating to everyone?!

    If it ain't broke, don't fix it....babies have been getting their point across since the beginning of time.

    BTW, I had 4 kids. My oldest tried the 'point and grunt' thing with me. He was capable of saying 'cup'...he just didn't want to. I had him say the word when I handed it to him.

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  • S's Avatar
    Posted by S Tue Oct 27, 2009 12:20pm PDT

    Studies have proven that children who sign have no speach delay. It just enables tham to communicate sooner. My son could sign 'milk' by the time he was seven months old. Now at 18 months he knows over 30 signs and will also try to say the word as he signs. He also can say over 50 words. Baby sign is a great tool, all that is required is a parent putting in the effort to teach it.

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  • Joey's Avatar
    Posted by Joey Wed Oct 28, 2009 4:02am PDT

    My niece learned her very first sign "more" at about 6 months. She's now 22 months and speaks probably a good 100 to 150 words that anyone could plainly understand and does about 5 signs to get her point across. I don't think teaching her signs slowed her down any, I think it sped her up because it cut down on her frustration so she was more relaxed when she started talking.

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  • TAY's Avatar
    Posted by TAY Wed Oct 28, 2009 4:27am PDT

    I think it's a great idea. people are always talking about learning a second language. Sign is the best because it's the only language where the other person doesn't have a choice in how they communicate. It's not as if they chose not to learn to speak English (or the language of the country they are in), they just can't hear you. Babies pick up on sign quickly too, and it would be great to teach them signs as you teach the verbal part of the language as well.

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  • danny's Avatar
    Posted by danny Wed Oct 28, 2009 5:47am PDT

    my son (who is now three) started signing when he was 7 months, when i signed to him i also said the word (which encourages vocal skills as well) it helped alot, for me to know exactly what he wanted, and as time progressed he would start to say the word as he signed, i believe it was very beneficial and i will be signing when i have another child! as of right now, my son talks very well and can say very large words and talk in 6-10 word sentences .

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  • 's Avatar
    Posted by Wed Oct 28, 2009 6:19am PDT

    I've taught all five of my babies the sign for 'eat', which is wonderful because it ends the frustration for both mom and baby. It doesn't reduce vocalization,either.

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  • Mo B's Avatar
    Posted by Mo B Wed Oct 28, 2009 9:09am PDT

    I never taught my daughter to sign, didn't personaly see the point. She never seemed frustrated with communication as a baby, she had her own way as I assume most babies do. I think that if parents and baby are in tune they will figure it out with or with out signing.

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  • Maverick99's Avatar
    Posted by Maverick99 Wed Oct 28, 2009 5:23pm PDT

    I grew up with deaf parents and have been signing since way before I could talk. My daughter has taught all 3 of her boys various signs (they're 3 and under) and it has been phenomenally successful. I would wholeheartedly recommend parents learn and teach their kids basic signs to help with communication. You're going to talk to them, why not include a sign that allows them to "speak" back to you?

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  • SakeJuice's Avatar
    Posted by SakeJuice Thu Oct 29, 2009 2:21pm PDT

    a friend of mine works at my daughter's day care, and she taught all the kids in her class (all 6 month old babies) how to sign "please" and "more". at 22 months my daughter still says "please" in sign language when she wants something.its pretty amazing to see your baby learn. my baby girl also understands spanish in adition to english! im a very proud mami!

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  • LaLa's Avatar
    Posted by LaLa Thu Oct 29, 2009 3:20pm PDT

    Im gonna need the person that is maintaining this blog to DO SO please

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