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Sunday, November 29, 2009

Nude photo of Brooke Shields does not tell the whole story

A cropped version of the original 1976 picture of Brooke Shields, taken for Playboy by Gary Gross

A cropped version of the original 1976 picture of Brooke Shields, taken for Playboy by Gary Gross

Succumbing to pressure from the police, the Tate Modern in London has removed a Richard Prince photo that features Brooke Shields, age 10, wearing lots of makeup, prepubescent and nude.    

If the idea that such a photo exists is a little dizzying to you, its origins might make you downright queasy. Prince’s work is actually a photograph of another photograph—one that Brooke’s mother Teri authorized for a Playboy publication called Sugar 'n' Spice in return for $450 in 1976.

Now, as a mom, there is a lot that is cringe-worthy about this bit of information for me (a ten-year old? Playboy? $450?), especially in light of the recent hubbub Stateside about parental judgment vis-à-vis what could be child pornography. Why on earth would a mother put her daughter through that? What kind of parent does that to a minor?

Looking further into Brooke Shields early acting career didn’t really comfort me.

Between her nude scenes as a girl in a brothel in Pretty Baby at age 12, telling the world “nothing [got] between” her and her Calvin’s at age 14, and having to testify before Congress at age 15 that it was, in fact, a body double that did all that steamy lovemaking in the Blue Lagoon, I started to wonder how Teri Shields had escaped the attention of Child Protective Services.

So you can imagine my surprise when I ran across this article from a 1978 issue of People Magazine. In it, almost 13-year-old Brooke Shields answers some pretty tough questions about her role in Pretty Baby in a disarming and age-appropriate way: "It's only a role. I'm not going to grow up and be a prostitute. If I were in a Walt Disney movie people would never ask me if the part would affect my life. That's so dumb."

Later in the piece, there’s this:

Still really a child ("I don't even have my period yet"), Brooke attends Mass every week with her mother. Boys? "Sometimes they're really stupid, but other times they're okay." Until recently, Teri would allow Brooke only to double-date, though she can now go out alone. "But I don't want to go steady. My mom doesn't like it. I'm just not ready yet." Brooke shrugs off sex—"I knew all about that when I was 2. Mom told me." When Playboy asked her what "good in bed" meant to her, Brooke nonchalantly replied, "When I'm sick and I stay home from school propped up with lots of pillows watching TV and my mom brings me soup—that's good in bed."

Clearly, taking a People Magazine interview, or really any magazine interview as the end-all-be-all of a young girl’s mental state is unwise at best. And again, this brings up many more indignant mom questions (2? Really? Playboy asked what?) But there’s something truly surprising about reading Brooke Shields, the kid, talking about Brooke Shields, the sexual icon. She has a unique combination of innocence and perspective that I never would have believed possible for a girl in her situation. That she grew up to be a well-spoken, gracious woman and thoughtful mother, avoiding the kind of breakdowns reserved for young female sex symbols (think Britney Spears, or Lindsay Lohan) speaks volumes.

Does it take away the sick feeling I have about the original photo of taken of a nude, ten-year old Brooke Shields? No, it absolutely does not. It doesn't matter how well she has turned out, I shudder that the picture was ever taken and I feel bad for the older, grown-up Brooke Shields who tried to suppress it. But it does change what I think about the girl in that picture. She does not become the victim I imagine she will.

I can’t think of another young actress who was more consistently sexualized from a young age, or seems less damaged by it. I also have to believe a pretty large portion of who Brooke Shields grew up to be, and who she is today has a lot to do with how her mother (who by all accounts was basically single-parenting) raised her. Which in turn makes me wonder: Is it possible that a mother who used such poor judgment in exploiting her young daughter was also a good parent to her during that same time period? Is it possible that the same woman who made a really bad decision to have her daughter photographed that way also helped her retain good boundaries and a strong sense of self?

It’s not the answer I was looking for, but it’s one I'm having trouble denying.

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  • wendy g's Avatar
    Posted by wendy g Thu Oct 1, 2009 10:00pm PDT

    While I think that Prince's artistic intent was a commentary on the the way a society that sexualizes a ten year old girl has gone wrong (the title of the exhibit attests to this), there is NO doubt about the intent of the original photograph, which was to offer up as spank material the image of a heavily made up and sexually posed ten year old in Playboy magazine. I'm not even sure what PLAYBOY was thinking....what was with the kiddie porn issue? And I CANNOT imagine what that woman was thinking. What is a child of TEN to make of being dolled up from the chin up, stripped from the chin down, and posed like a mannequin for a pornographic magazine? "Really Mom? You sure about this? $450, huh?"

    I think Brooke turned out as she did DESPITE her upbringing. It may seem like a non sequitur, but there is much evidence that suggests that at least some individuals are born with genetic factors that make them somewhat impervious to "bad parenting." In other words, there ARE children who are abused, neglected, beaten, or in Brooke's case, made into a child-odalisque, who grow up perfectly fine. I think that Brooke had an innate ability to rise above the crap her mother put her through. She's lucky.

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  • KerryQ's Avatar
    Posted by KerryQ Thu Oct 1, 2009 10:27pm PDT

    Some kids grow up in bad families and become good people only because they learned what NOT to do from their parents bad example.

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  • miss my family's Avatar
    Posted by miss my family Thu Oct 1, 2009 11:20pm PDT

    That's disgusting. That a mother or father would even allow there child to do that is sick. And anyone who publishes it should be arrested for child pornography. I don't care if they have "good intentions" there is no good intention for publishing a nude photo of a ten year old.

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  • Mira Jacob, Shine staff's Avatar
    Posted by Mira Jacob, Shine staff Fri Oct 2, 2009 4:44am PDT

    Wendy, you make really good points, and I agree with most of them--especially the fact that good kids can come from nutty upbringings. While I agree that it's possible that Brooke Shields did the same to become who she is today, it doesn't quite explain the amount of perspective she has at age (almost) 13 in the People article, a time when most kids need some kind of strong role model to have that level of articulation and common sense. That article (and numerous others) maintains that her mother was the only real adult role model she had at that time. I'm not saying Teri Shields was perfect--FAR, FAR from it. But I do think that this situation might not be as simple as we're used to making it in our own minds.

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  • Trini's Avatar
    Posted by Trini Fri Oct 2, 2009 6:37am PDT

    I do agree that someone from a broken home can turn out to be a good person. Of course we rarely hear of these people and society in general is not so quick to exalt anything positive...the negative is what's always high-lighted so we constantly hear about people like Brittany Spears and Lindsay as you mentioned. Some people use have the ability to take their bad experiences and turn it into wisdom, while others become broken by their bad experiences. I don't have an answer whether or not its just fate or genetics, but I just thank God that she is the person she is today...I'm not going to blast her mother...I wasn't actually there, I don't know her story [not excusing her for what she did], but I hope she's sorry for she's done and I hope her and Brooke moved past their past...

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  • Trini's Avatar
    Posted by Trini Fri Oct 2, 2009 6:45am PDT

    Sorry about the various typos...^^^

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  • Mo B's Avatar
    Posted by Mo B Fri Oct 2, 2009 6:49am PDT

    Just because a mother has poor judgement on some things does not mean she does not parent her child and talk to her about things. I think what Teri did is disgusting but at the sametime we don't know what her and Brooke talked about and how she parented when at home. I can never imagine doing that as a parent no matter how much money we're offered. I question what her motives were beyond having her daughter in the spotlight.

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  • springtime's Avatar
    Posted by springtime Fri Oct 2, 2009 7:53am PDT

    Teri is a piece of garbage. Children are very impressionable, so of course a 10 year old would listen to Mommy Dearest. It was all about money. Today Brooke is a lovely young woman with a beautiful family, and she seems to have her head on straight. I wouldn't allow those children to stay with Granma though.

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  • Paulette's Avatar
    Posted by Paulette Fri Oct 2, 2009 8:51am PDT

    In the study of child development, I learned of children that are just born "resilient" genetically and turn out well no matter what. Sorry I don't give Teri credit for Brooke "turning out" mentally healthy. On the opposite side of the coin, some kids genetically can't handle much stress, and are much more at risk for mental health issues, such as bipolar and depression. Human beings are born uniquely different in all respects and respond differently to all of life's challenges. I believe Brooke's friendship with Michael Jackson was largely due to her also being robbed of her childhood and innocence.

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  • Elm's Avatar
    Posted by Elm Fri Oct 2, 2009 9:13am PDT

    Wow, I am amazed at how her upbringing didn't make her a drug addict, alcoholic or worse.

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