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Parenting poll: Are kindergarteners too young for homework?

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When my son brought home his first kindergarten homework assignment last year, I will admit I was just a tad excited about it. I'm kinda' nerdy like that.

We broke out the crisp printing paper, sharpened his new fat, yellow pencils and opened his fresh box of Crayola crayons. And then my eyes glazed over after 10 minutes while he decided what words he wanted to use that started with the letters "A" and "B" that he could also illustrate.

When he was nearly done (30 minutes later) and accidentally ripped a hole in the paper while erasing a letter, we called it a night and deemed his first attempt the rough draft. We'd do the final copy the next night. (This is what happens when your mom is a writer...you hear her referring to rough drafts and final copy and start tossing those phrases around). It took about an hour total for the kid to write out six words (using his "kid spelling") and draw six pictures. My enthusiasm for kindergarten homework slightly waned.

Shine user Cher is floored that schools are making kindergarteners do homework: "I know they need to know things but I feel maybe 1st grade is a better start on giving homework out. My son is in the 2nd grade and he has ALOT of homework to do. He started with subtraction and addition last year, and spelling. I know they have guidelines the teachers need to follow but this is insane."

I'm fine with homework for kindergarteners as long as it's not excessive. I like that it teaches them about responsibility and taking pride in their work. It's never too early to start those lessons.

What say you? Is kindergarten too early to start giving kids homework?

And while we're at it, Cher also would like to know when your kids do their homework. Right after school? After dinner? (My son comes home, has a quick snack and some quiet chill time, and then we try to get the homework out of the way so he can have playtime.)


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  • Karly's Avatar
    Posted by Karly Wed Aug 13, 2008 11:53pm PDT

    Kindergarten is when I started getting homework and I am glad about that. Being 14 and starting high school in less than two weeks I am glad that in kindergarten I set a good homework schedule that I have kept up until this point. So, No kindergarten is not to early for homework. Also, homework should be done after your child has had time to wind down from their day at school and that means they will have better absorbed their lessons which will make homework much easier.

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  • Mimi-pz's Avatar
    Posted by Mimi-pz Thu Aug 14, 2008 5:10am PDT

    It's difficult to say. I think some homework is okay to get kids used to doing it and get them into the habit of doing it.

    When my oldest was in kindergarten his home work was to read aloud every day, practice sight words and he had a daily news he had to fill out -- there were about 4 questions on it about what they did in school that day. The worksheet took him 10 minutes, the sight words he knew before starting kindergarten and reading he loves anyway.

    In first grade, he had far less than I thought he would as well. Again, vocabulary was big for him. He didn't have the 1st and 2nd grade sight words at all like most of his classmates, but was on the third grade reading/vocabulary list straight away. This meant that he was responsible for spelling, when most of his classmates were not. And the second half the year he came home with a packet of work to do over the course of the week (multiple choice) to prepare him for the state exam at the end of the year.

    Now he's in 2nd grade, I know he will have lots more home work. Plus, his ALP/Gifted teacher that he sees once a week told me she always gives 2nd grade homework. So I think he'll be in for a shock in a few weeks when homework kicks in!

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  • al's Avatar
    Posted by al Thu Aug 14, 2008 6:29am PDT

    Homework is okay. I don't think it is a problem. As long as it takes 15 - 20 minutes to do. Any more then that is cruel. My daughter always did homework after dinner. It gave her that break she needed from the school day. My niece pretends to do homework in Pre-k. To them it is fun; at the same time teaching responsibility.

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  • TinaH's Avatar
    Posted by TinaH Thu Aug 14, 2008 7:31am PDT

    I think it's silly to even think that kindergarteners are too young for homework. The younger the child is, the easier it is to learn, which makes it all the more important to start early.

    That said, it's important to have age appropriate homework for the child. Since many preschools teach their students letters and numbers, I think the homework your son's doing is quite appropriate.

    Kids need to learn early that life is about hard work; as a parent, I'm sure it's a little heartbreaking at times to see your young child struggling over work instead of having fun, but learning is a necessity. Look how dumb our American children are these days.

    Students should learn that when work gets tough, they need to work harder. Alas, our changing curriculum only serves to teach kids that when the work gets tough, the adults will dumb down the lessons so students don't have to work as hard.

    How will that be good for society when all these kids reach adulthood?

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  • Caramel Cake's Avatar
    Posted by Caramel Cake Thu Aug 14, 2008 8:44am PDT

    I think that kindergarten is too young for homework. I just found out that they no longer have naps! That broke my heart, I was relly looking forward to buying him a new mat. My 5 year old hasn't come home with any yet, but when my older children get home, I usually let them eat first, then do homework, they don't seem to function too well when they're hungry.

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  • PRETTY GIRL's Avatar
    Posted by PRETTY GIRL Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:04am PDT

    i don't think kndergarten is too young...as long as its not a ton of work to do...like a little worksheet a night will not hurt to keep them on their toes with what they are learning in school

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  • Mindy R's Avatar
    Posted by Mindy R Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:22am PDT

    A little homework is fine, but too much can be stressful for them and make them not enjoy school. My son had homework EVERY night in 1st grade which I thought was a little much.

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  • Goddess's Avatar
    Posted by Goddess Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:43am PDT

    I think that if the homework takes more that 15 mintues for kindergarten or 20 for a 3rd grader it is too much. 1/2 hour for 6th graders. Instead I had my daughter taken an hour to do her homework at 8 years old. it is too much on this kids.

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  • E H's Avatar
    Posted by E H Thu Aug 14, 2008 1:35pm PDT

    Homework in kindy should take no longer than 10 minutes and it doesn't need to be every day. It's more about having a little responsibility. The parents should be given the homework of reading with/to their kids at least 15 minutes a day. Just like kids don't really learn more with longer days they don't necessarily learn more in kindergarten because they have homework. It's just an opportunity to be a big kid.

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  • Miss V's Avatar
    Posted by Miss V Thu Aug 14, 2008 2:22pm PDT

    NO it's not, the daycare my son attends I have actually seen the four years old take material home and have to bring it back

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