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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Parents' group asks radio stations to ban Britney Spears song

What a shocker.


If you haven't tried this yet, say "If U Seek Amy" slowly. It sounds like you're spelling the F-word followed by "me," right?

And this slick trick of words in a song title and chorus is causing a fuss among many moms and dads.

The Parents Television Council wants radio stations to stop playing the Britney Spears song "If You Seek Amy," saying it would "violate the broadcast indecency law" if aired between 6 a.m. and 10 p.m.

The song appears on Spears' latest album, "Circus," and at the start of the week, Spears' camp said they would change the lyrics to her song so that it would be "If you  see Amy."

All of this reminds me of the Prince/Shelia E. song, "Erotic City," where Sheila E. drops the F-bomb while she grooves with Prince. At my (Catholic) grade school, we never listened to the song at home, but we knew all the words.

So while parenting groups may try to ban the song being broadcast, even with the radio-edit, any kid who is a Britney Spears fan will hear the song, despite the efforts of mom or dad. Granted, I would not be playing this tune around my kids. But so many pop songs played on the radio are laced with such strong sexual references and phrases that I'm somewhat surprised this particular song is making such a buzz. 

Do you care if your kid listens to "If You See(k) Amy"?
Should it be banned from radio play?

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  • elle's Avatar
    Posted by elle Fri Jan 23, 2009 11:48am PST

    I don’t understand why parents think that because something offends them or is against how they want to raise their children that “something” should be banned for everyone else. In my opinion, if you don’t like the song and you are unhappy with the lyrics, then don’t allow your children to listen to it. In the event they hear the song or they have questions about it then you can take it as an opportunity to explain to your children why you do not want them to listen to the song and what you as a parent expect from them going forward when it comes to that “something” that they find so offensive. I think there are other things in the world much worse than Ms. Britney Spears trying to get her career back on track.

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  • Linda W's Avatar
    Posted by Linda W Fri Jan 23, 2009 12:15pm PST

    This is my opinion. Even when it comes to music, "everything that is made is not for kids" That is why we have ratings for movies. R ratings are really not meant for kids. We can censor things that we don't want our children to listen too. For example "2 live crew" was not for my son to listen. During that time he was 12 years old. I allowed him to listen to rap music, but they were not okay...Now rather I can censor him all the time, and everywhere he went is another subject...Hmm. The key word here is CENSOR...

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  • Christa's Avatar
    Posted by Christa Fri Jan 23, 2009 3:40pm PST

    I love this song! And so does my daughter, we listen to it all the time. Kids don't get their morals from the radio, they get them from involved parents.

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  • poogie's Avatar
    Posted by poogie Fri Jan 23, 2009 8:35pm PST

    ok for teens to watch

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  • Audrey's Avatar
    Posted by Audrey Fri Jan 23, 2009 10:45pm PST

    Wow, she is teaching kids how to spell, lol. I think the parents groups are funny. Did they grow up under a rock? No I do not think it should be ban and I think parents should take more responsibilty for thier kids. I think its funny that they worry about sex, but not about how many murders they see on tv.

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  • jtjunkie's Avatar
    Posted by jtjunkie Sat Jan 24, 2009 6:06am PST

    I'm sorry but get over yourselves people. If you don't like it don't listen to it. And if you don't want your kids to hear it then make sure you watch the 24/7 like a hawk because I'm sure they're going to hear worse walking down the street. Maybe you could keep them in the house in a bubble free from germs & chemicals & things they shouldn't hear, wouldn't that be fun for them!!!!

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  • LMH's Avatar
    Posted by LMH Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:15am PST

    whatever! come on people, you might as well put ear plugs on your kids every time they leave the house cause you can't protect them forever! They have to leave the nest sometime.

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  • Jen Singer's Avatar
    Posted by Jen Singer Sat Jan 24, 2009 12:38pm PST

    It reminds me of the ban of Prince's "Darling Nikki" when I was in high school, or the Steve Miller Band's radio version of their lyrics "funky *kicks* going down in the city." It's nothing new, but it probably seems like it to today's teens.

    If I had heard Spears' new song before reading the title and not the other way around, I would have assumed she's spelling out the F-word. The lyrics don't make sense otherwise: "All the boys want to if you seek Amy." C'mon, people. She's just trying to make herself relevant in her comeback. A little publicity buzz like this goes a long way toward selling concert tickets among young people.

    If you want to listen to her song, that's fine with me. If you don't care if your kids hear it, that's your business. But I don't want to hear it when I'm ordering lunch for my kids in the bagel shop or taking them to the mall. And if there's no ban or no radio-izing of the song, we will hear it.

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  • HotCrossBuns's Avatar
    Posted by HotCrossBuns Sat Jan 24, 2009 1:38pm PST

    I'm not a big supporter of censorship or banning music (or poetry, books or art, for that matter) HOWEVER, I do believe there is a proper time and place for all things. Any forum that is out there for the enjoyment of the general public, adults and children alike, is NOT the place for lewd, sexually suggestive or any other questionable artforms. If Brittany wants to sink that low with her comeback and show her true trashy colors once again...I say let her. But DO NOT tell me or my children that we HAVE to hear it because it's her right to sing what she wants. With certain rights come responsibilities. Artists do have the right to produce whatever music and lyrics they choose. However, with that right they must also be responsible for distributing their music only to those who are mature enough to understand it. I listen to some pretty "inappropriate" music myself...but never around my children. I want them to keep their innocence as long as possible. It's my responsibility as their mother to protect them from being desensitized to these issues. If that means turning the radio off or changing channels when they choose to air that kind of crap...so be it. I do the same when they air the endless "gentleman's club" and "male enhancement" products, too. Doing so is not putting them in a bubble. It's keeping their world age appropriate. As I said before, just because people are putting it out there doesn't mean it's appropriate for everyone.

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    Posted by badgerdog Sat Jan 24, 2009 3:11pm PST

    LOL, reminds me of "Darling Nikki" by Prince. Except he was much more overt. We never heard that song on the radio, or listened to it where our parents could hear, but every time my friends and I got into a car (which was pretty much every day) we were listening to that song and singing right along with it. Kids will be kids, and kids are not dumb and will figure it all out. The difference is, do you want to be the ones talking with them about this kind of stuff, or do you want them to be hiding it from you like I had to do with my parents? Talk to your children, people, don't expect musicians and other artists to bend to your will. They have their own careers and moral dilemmas to deal with.

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