Parenting

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Pot Parents: Smoking's Better Than Drinking!

A controversial new movement promotes pot use instead of alcohol. These parents want to ban pot prohibition because they believe it will save lives.

teen smoking

Gina Kaysen Fernandes: Alcohol and marijuana are the two most popular -- and easily accessible -- substances on college campuses, but they're not treated the same under the law. Possessing pot can land you in jail, but drinking too much at a keg party can kill you. "This highlights the absurdity in how we treat these two substances," said Mason Tvert, the co-founder and executive director of the group Safer Alternative for Enjoyable Recreation, or SAFER. Mason has made it his personal mission to debunk the government's anti-marijuana message. "The fact that we have students drinking themselves to death made us realize we had to start some awareness on college campuses," says Mason.

According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, nearly 20,000 Americans die every year as a result of drinking too much. It's a tragedy that Mason narrowly escaped. He nearly died from an alcohol overdose in the summer of 2000. The high school senior guzzled beer all day at a country music festival in Arizona. "Beer was widely available, and my friends gave it to me," recalls Mason. Paramedics rushed him to a nearby hospital, where doctors pumped his stomach. Mason's mother didn't know what happened to her son until the next day, because he was 18 years old and the hospital was not required to notify his parents. "He could have died -- I was so worried about that," said Diane Tvert. As a practicing physical therapist, Diane is supportive of her son's efforts to dispel marijuana myths. "I would so much rather he smoke pot than drink and get behind the wheel of a car," said Diane.

Many like-minded moms share her opinion. "I want my children to grow up to believe that laws are just and rational, and if there's injustice, they should fight it," said Jessica Peck Corry, a Denver-based Republican political strategist. Jessica, a former GOP candidate for state senate, is also a cannabis activist who campaigned for a ballot initiative that would decriminalize marijuana possession in Colorado. "We can no longer afford to wage war on a substance that people can grow in their backyard. It's a war we can't win," says Jessica. As a mother of two young children, Jessica says she plans to have an open dialogue with her kids about drug and alcohol use, even though, she says, "I want to place them in this bubble where I can protect them." Jessica believes that by arming her daughters with accurate information, "they will respect their bodies and make good decisions." These moms insist they're not pushing their kids to abuse drugs, but prefer they choose the lesser of two evils. "Things have gotten so skewed. People look at pot like it's the bogeyman. It's not going to kill you; alcohol can kill you," said Diane.

The statistics on the dangers of alcohol are staggering. Drinking on college campuses led to 1,400 deaths, 500,000 injuries, and 70,000 cases of sexual assault or date rape, according to a 2002 study by the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) task force.

The risks associated with getting stoned are fuzzier. No studies have found a direct link between marijuana overdose and death. There's no objective research that finds pot use contributes to violent or aggressive behavior. "They're correct. Typically people don't get violent; I'll be the first to admit that," said Ken Winters, Ph.D., a psychiatry professor at the University of Minnesota-Fairview who specializes in adolescent substance abuse. "But there are plenty of issues with marijuana. It's not a healthy option," says Winters, who believes parents are fooling themselves if they think smoking pot has no long-term consequences. "Prolonged marijuana use appears to increase memory and learning problems," said Winters, who adds, "like tobacco, habitual pot smoking can also lead to cancer and respiratory diseases." Winters also warns there's new research emerging that suggests marijuana can effect your DNA, which has risky implications. He thinks that parents who rationalize marijuana use are being naïve. Instead, Winters recommends we teach our kids to drink responsibly by sticking to the two-drink rule. "It's no fun to be the 'no-fun police,' but that's what you got into, that's part of parenting."

The so-called "Marijuana is Safer" movement is gaining momentum among college students, but is facing a lot of resistance from campus officials. Mason believes the institutions are part of the problem. On one hand, school administrators are trying to promote responsible drinking, yet "universities are fostering this behavior," argues Mason, by allowing beer companies to sponsor campus events like fraternity parties.

A number of well-known party schools are starting to mellow out on pot penalties. Students are adopting SAFER measures at about a dozen college campuses nationwide, including Colorado State University, University of Colorado-Boulder, Florida State University, University of Maryland, University of Texas-Austin, University of Central Florida, and Ohio State University. Students on these campuses are working to make sure the school penalties for marijuana use are no greater than those for alcohol use.

Mason makes his case for SAFER Referendums in a new book hitting shelves this month, titled "Marijuana is Safer, So Why Are We Driving People to Drink?." Mason co-authored the book along with two other prominent legalization advocates, Steve Fox of the Marijuana Policy Project, and Paul Armentano of the National Organization for the Reform of Marijuana Laws (NORML).

Marijuana is so easily accessible that one in three Americans have tried it at least once, including the three most recent U.S. presidents. The nation's marijuana business is estimated to rake in $113 billion in annual sales. That's not far behind the alcohol industry, which pockets $130 billion per year. For parents like Jessica, it's the fiscal concerns that make her blood boil. "It costs $30,000 a year to incarcerate a pot dealer, and we spend $10,000 a year to educate a child." Jessica thinks it's time that more mothers come forward "because for so long, others have been exploiting our children by perpetuating this war on drugs in the name of our children."

Gina Kaysen Fernandes
  Gina Kaysen Fernandes is an award-winning documentary
  producer and a former TV news producer/writer. She lives in
  Los Angeles with her husband and son.

RELATED FROM MOMLOGIC

Syndication:

From the Community…

Comments 1-10 of 435
  • David K's Avatar
    Posted by David K Mon Aug 10, 2009 10:25am PDT

    The best part about legalizing "weed" is that th US will collect tax on it. The other reason is that it is God's way of filtering out the stupid!

    Report Abuse
  • Biscognito ;)'s Avatar
    Posted by Biscognito ;) Mon Aug 10, 2009 10:52am PDT

    God made the stupid, stupid. ;)

    Report Abuse
  • Fancie's Avatar
    Posted by Fancie Mon Aug 10, 2009 12:47pm PDT

    In the article it says that marijuana can affect your DNA, but they do not say how or how they have come to this conclusion. Sounds like a scare tactic. Of course any smoking increases your chance for lungs disease and cancer. But have you ever heard of a man coming home stoned from the bar and beating up his wife. My dad was a wonderful man until you put alcohol in front of him.

    Report Abuse
  • Chris S's Avatar
    Posted by Chris S Mon Aug 10, 2009 12:53pm PDT

    "I would so much rather he smoke pot than drink and get behind the wheel of a car," said Diane.

    Um, Diane, hate to break it to you, but when you're high, your perception is impaired as well. So, driving under the influence of alcohol OR drugs kinda evens itself out. Either way, you child, the person they're with, or the innocent people in the other car(s) will suffer because your "crusade" to legalize pot.

    I couldn't care less if you do drugs or not. To each their own. I just hate the idea of people trying to make it sound safer than alcohol. It's not. People die because someone got behind the wheel of a car IMPAIRED. Is this really something we can live with...for some, they WON'T live with it.

    Report Abuse
  • Heidi's Avatar
    Posted by Heidi Mon Aug 10, 2009 1:11pm PDT

    To say that marijuana is just as bad for your lungs as tobacco is ridiculous. How many people smoke 20 or 40 joints a day, the way people do cigarettes? And I agree with the lady in the article who's peeved over how much it costs to incarcerate people over drugs and you know perfectly well that a great majority of the people in jail are there over small drug offenses like posession.

    I think marijuana should be legalized, with one exception: people on government assistance should have to submit to random drug and alcohol screenings. There are way WAY too many people in my county living off the government because of made-up health and psychological problems, who spend all day drinking and smoking weed on the taxpayers' dime.

    Report Abuse
  • Heidi's Avatar
    Posted by Heidi Mon Aug 10, 2009 1:11pm PDT

    To say that marijuana is just as bad for your lungs as tobacco is ridiculous. How many people smoke 20 or 40 joints a day, the way people do cigarettes? And I agree with the lady in the article who's peeved over how much it costs to incarcerate people over drugs and you know perfectly well that a great majority of the people in jail are there over small drug offenses like posession.

    I think marijuana should be legalized, with one exception: people on government assistance should have to submit to random drug and alcohol screenings. There are way WAY too many people in my county living off the government because of made-up health and psychological problems, who spend all day drinking and smoking weed on the taxpayers' dime.

    Report Abuse
  • Jenn's Avatar
    Posted by Jenn Mon Aug 10, 2009 1:15pm PDT

    I really have a hard time with people forgetting the part where pot does impair perception and judgement. Yes, it's perhaps less dangerous to the body than alcohol. However, put someone impaired behind the wheel of a car and someone could and often will suffer the consequences.

    Report Abuse
  • VK's Avatar
    Posted by VK Mon Aug 10, 2009 1:39pm PDT

    How can you tell if a person is impared on pot when they are in a car wreck.Some people's eyes do not get red. THC stays in your system even if you haven smoked in a week and all of a sudden have a car wreck. How will the DUI laws change if pot is legalized just wondering.

    Report Abuse
  • Ahleah G's Avatar
    Posted by Ahleah G Mon Aug 10, 2009 1:57pm PDT

    Pot does impair perception, and you should never drive under the influence of any substance, including pot or alcohol. I do not think the person quoted was suggesting that her son should drive while stoned. And VK, while not everyone's eyes turn red, changes in behavior and smelling of pot are some signs that a person may be under the influence. Also, THC can be detected in blood and saliva for a much shorter time after it is used, so it would be possible to tell if someone had smoked recently or several days ago.

    Alcohol poisoning is much more likely to kill you (I don't think I have ever heard of a pot overdose induced death). Alcohol is also the only substance where you can actually die from withdrawal as opposed to just becoming sick or having negative symptoms. Alcohol is more addictive than pot, also causes cancer, and yet is legal. I have to side with the legalization of marijuana on this one. It just doesn't make sense to me that it is not legal. (Btw I have worked in the field of drug research, so I'm not just some person who wants to get stoned...)

    Report Abuse
  • bchristo's Avatar
    Posted by bchristo Mon Aug 10, 2009 2:04pm PDT

    I smoked pot a bowl or two almost daily my senior year and continued on daily doing that for the next 5 years. i was married the summer after high school graduation, and I went to college and made it through with a degree, but I have to admit that I was not a confident person, I was paranoid, and I truly think that I was cheating my self out developing to my potential during those crucial years. your brain is still developing when you are a teenager and young adult. I feel like I am not as mature as I would be if I wasn't smoking pot all those years. I quit when I got pregnant 2 years ago, and I am never looking back. POT IS ADDICTIVE if you have that kind of tendency, so dont give it to your kids. come on people! Put your foot down and dont tolerate then using anything, If that means you have to throw out your booze, then do it!

    Report Abuse
Comments 1-10 of 435

leave your comment

You must sign in to post a comment

Sign In for personalized information

New User? Sign Up

Updates Chatter on Shine…

parenting byte

When entrusting your child's health to a pediatrician, you are bound to have concerns about whether you are picking the right practice or doctor. Here are five questions to ask when choosing a pediatrician.