Should my Boyfriend meet my sons father?

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  Posted by Steven Sat Nov 7, 2009 11:15am PST

  I have met my sons, mothers husband, and we really got along well, im sad to say that he died a few years ago, but i am glad i got to know him, and think that only you can decide, if it is a good idea, it depends on the personality of your sons father and your boyfriend

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  Posted by SusanS Sat Nov 7, 2009 11:15am PST

  YOU DONT HAVE TO LET YOUR EX MEET YOUR BOYFRIEND IF YOUR DONT WANT TO

  AND NO LAW SAYS NEVER ALLOWED HAVE ANOTHER MAN IN SONS LIFE HE EX HAS

  GIRLFRIEND HAS ANOTHER WOMEN IN HIS LIFE CAN WORK BOTH WAYS. SOME MEN

  TRY TO CONTROL THEIR EX WIFES NOT RIGHT. IAM DIVORCED ALSO MY EX KNOWS

  I HAVE A BOYFRIEND I TOLD HIM OVER THE PHONE HE DOESNT REALLY CARE HE

  IS GLAD HEAR THAT. MY EX REMARRIED FEW YEARS AGO I NEVER REALLY CARED

  AFTER WE WERE MARRIED 7 YEARS HE WASNT THAT INTRESTED IN ME ANYHOW

  THATS WHY I DONT CARE HE GOT MARRIED AGAIN. HE NOW BUSY WITH HIS WIFE

  NOW AND DOESNT COME AROUND MUCH. MY DAUGHTER HAVE IS 23 YR OLD NOW

  HAS A BOYFRIEND NOW AND WORKS AND BUSY ALSO AND DOESNT CARE ABOUT

  HER DAD. GOOD LUCK TO YOU

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  Posted by stormyriderxxx Sat Nov 7, 2009 11:43am PST

  As long as you are a good mother and provider to your children, he does not have a saying on who you go out or who you see, that is your own business, as long as the children are safe as well.

  I know each relationship is different,I've been there, done that. It's not as bad as it seems, it's just "some men" are controlling.

  My best to you!

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  Posted by ayeeshka Sat Nov 7, 2009 11:55am PST

  in the first place if your husband sets a rule that you werent allowed to have another man in your life and he himself cannot even adhere to same selfish rules ,,, then why waste your life thinking if you should or should not do it.... you could give your self a chance to be happy and be with the man who would and could love you and your son ... when you part ways you were already leading and living a separate lives so it should be a live and let live attitude ...move on and follow your heart .... you should not let others dictate to you how you should live your life ... about the question if both guys should meet yeah it can't be avoided so its better that they do meet...and be both civil with each other ...

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