Lets face it kids are kids and they will have tantrums, however,
how we, as parents react to the tantrums is what is
important. My son, now 21yrs, had his first temper tantrum in the
middle of the supermarket, of course, I had two choices: 1) I could
have given him all the attention and give him what he wanted or 2)
I could ignore him and see where that will bring me, I chose to
ignore him! What i did was completely ignore him, I walked right
"over" him and continued shopping as tho he wasn't
even there. As I was approaching him he was very verbal and all the
while "looking at me" just to see what reaction I had.
Well, I gave him no attention and as I approached the area of the
floor that he was "performing" in I just walked
right over him and completely ignored him, as I did this he
just "stopped dead" in the middle of the tantrum, looked
at me, got up and walked towards me, quietly. That was the end
of the temper tantrums, never to be seen again from him. It worked
for me and I do believe that children respond to our reactions. How
else do they learn? The old saying still works "Children learn
wha they live" true, so true!
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