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Saturday, July 4, 2009

Take note: How to grocery shop with young kids

Photo Credit: thetobyshow.typepad.com

Photo Credit: thetobyshow.typepad.com

Grocery shopping with young children is one of the most headache-inducing experiences for a parent.

When children are in the toddler stage, they just whine because, hello, how fun is it to sit in a shopping cart when there's so much to pull of all those shelves? And as they get older -- and become skilled negotiators -- it's near impossible to get to the checkout counter without at least one request for something your kid absolutely must have or else she'll perish. And then life will suddenly become so not fair because of that box of Lucky Charms box left sitting in an aisle.

I'll be honest. I like to go grocery shopping alone. It guarantees me at least 30 minutes of pure silence.  But mama doesn't always get her way. So when my kids go grocery shopping with me, I employ two tactics:

-Go in the morning after a big breakfast. It helps avoid the tantrums that stem from when they're deliriously tired. And they also have full tummies, making it harder for them to plead the "I'm still hungry" case.

-Give them a job to do. Preschoolers usually can recognize pictures of food items but they're young enough -- and small enough -- to still sit in the shopping card. Make them an illustrated shopping list. Tell them to point out items that you need to put in the cart. If your kids are old enough to walk with you, let them grab the items of the shelf.  I always add a little treat to the list -- a cookie or fruit skin -- to act as my preemptive strike against their random requests for stuff.

I dig the shopping list Jonah Lisa over at The Toby Show pulled together for her little guy. It's simple though that even those of us who are artistically challenged can manage a few cute crayon sketches.

[via Parenthacks]

What are your tips for grocery shopping with young kids?
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  • DMLady's Avatar
    Posted by DMLady Mon Oct 6, 2008 9:20am PDT

    my mother did the same thing with me. she would let me help get things off of the shelves and would also teach me about the different kinds of food in the aisles - what they are, where they come from, what they are used for. it was a great way to keep me occupied.

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  • 29_and holding's Avatar
    Posted by 29_and holding Mon Oct 6, 2008 9:59am PDT

    I ALWAYS bring a list and i have taught my 3 kiddos that we have to stick to the list. if we are buying something for them then i put it on the list, so that it can be marked off as we go. And they also keep me in check, if i get something that is obviously not on the list, then my older child looks at it and says mom that is not on here. Which is good they are learning not to splurge and they are keeping me to the list.

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  • tracey's Avatar
    Posted by tracey Mon Oct 6, 2008 10:25am PDT

    I took my camera to the store with me the other day and we had a blast!

    http://maypapers.blogspot.com/2008/10/shopping-some-best-shots.html

    It really made the most mundane (and dreaded) outing super-fun. My kids thought it was a riot and I really enjoyed myself. Who would have thought?

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  • Charlene Prince Birkeland, Shine staff's Avatar
    Posted by Charlene Prince Birkeland, Shine staff Mon Oct 6, 2008 12:29pm PDT

    Hey Tracey! Good to see you here:)

    I love those photos -- awesome idea. Next time you can hand her a camera (just not the really good one!!)

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  • beemom's Avatar
    Posted by beemom Mon Oct 6, 2008 8:53pm PDT

    i bring snacks for my two year old and always buy her a container of cut up fruit which she really looks forward to! she usually stays in the cart for about 1/3 to 1/2 of our shopping time occupied with her fruit and snacks. Then she'll usually ask if she can walk with me. i take her out and remind her to stay close and be good or i'll put her back in the cart. she's pretty well behaved. i also agree wholeheartedly that you should have a list, preferably organized by the aisles of the store. this helps get your shopping done much faster!

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  • Superlativity's Avatar
    Posted by Superlativity Tue Oct 7, 2008 6:49am PDT

    These sound like great ideas. Mine's only 16 months, so I sit her in the cart with a cart cover that has toys. That keeps her occupied for about 10 minutes, so then I start with the Gerber fruit snacks that I carry in my purse at all times. I feed her one fruit snack at a time, and usually we can make one bag last our entire trip. I'll start with the ideas mentioned above when she decides that the fruit snacks aren't enough. Thanks!

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  • Katie's Avatar
    Posted by Katie Tue Oct 7, 2008 12:02pm PDT

    I invlolve my 4 year old in the shopping, letting him pick out the juice, one kind of cereal, and the fruit. I guess I'm really lucky that his requests usually run towards apples or milk, and more bread!

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  • Mrs. Griff's Avatar
    Posted by Mrs. Griff Wed Oct 8, 2008 7:15am PDT

    These are great suggestions. In fact, I do this with my children as well. My oldest son is eight and he pulls from the shelves and tell me how much it is. Great article!!

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  • mom of 3's Avatar
    Posted by mom of 3 Wed Oct 8, 2008 4:54pm PDT

    well after listening to all you wonderful mothers i feel like a complete failure! my son, who is three, would not stop whining one day at the store and to shut him up i stole down the organic isle where they have organic gummy bears, anyways, i "stole" one for him and it worked, the rest of the trip was a breeze with him. now, when we get to that side of the store, he knows that if he is good he gets a treat and his sister, who is one and isn't trusted with that sort of food, does not. i know, horrible mom, but at least it's organic!

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