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Saturday, November 7, 2009

Tally of kids in polygamist sect grows to 401 -- how does this happen?

Photo Credit: Associated Press

Photo Credit: Associated Press

The news of the polygamist ranch in Texas is a few days old. But the fact that 401 children were part of this religious sect still baffles me. I haven't seen a breakdown on their ages yet, but the photos say it all. It's so tragic that even while the sect's leader, Warren Jeffs, sits in jail for incest and other sexual misconduct with minors, he still is wreaking havoc on the lives of other kids and women through this ranch.

Reports indicate the children aren't saying what happened within the walls of this so-called retreat. You have to wonder how long it will take for them to feel comfortable enough to talk about their lives. Or how they'll react if they are pulled from their families.

Here's my other question...how does something like this happen in a town without anyone reporting it? I'd like to think that if a compound with 400 kids and more than 100 women were located in a nearby city, residents would notice and report it, no?

What's your take?
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    Posted by Tue Apr 8, 2008 1:06pm PDT

    Saw Carolyn Jessup on the Today Show this morning. She wrote the book Escape, about her life with this group and how she escaped with them (with all her children - yea!). From what she said, I'm guessing abuse on a massive scale will do all kinds of strange things to people, I suppose. Maybe when this group moved to Texas, the powers-that-be started to put pressure on them - as they should. Nothing happened when they were in Colorado City (is that Utah?). That part is a mystery to me, too.

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  • Mimi-pz's Avatar
    Posted by Mimi-pz Tue Apr 8, 2008 1:33pm PDT

    Have you read Krakaurs book about the Mormons and the polygamous sects and the Jeffs family? it's incredible and you get an insight into how it happens when you read how insular and controlling these people are. Horrible! And what's worse is how much money they get from the government as "single parents" -- disgusting!

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  • Sarah's Avatar
    Posted by Sarah Tue Apr 8, 2008 1:47pm PDT

    Sophie, the reason they moved is because authorities were starting to question what they were doing. it isn't just that 'nothing happened,' it's that they moved before authorities could obtain warrants and find out what they were doing.

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  • Jessa's Avatar
    Posted by Jessa Tue Apr 8, 2008 1:56pm PDT

    first of all where this place is is in the middle of NO WHERE . Texas still has massive areas where there are no towns... I just feel for the children they dont know any other way but this....

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  • Charlene Prince Birkeland, Shine staff's Avatar
    Posted by Charlene Prince Birkeland, Shine staff Tue Apr 8, 2008 1:59pm PDT

    Laela -- I get that part, but yet...someone had to notice. At least, that would be a rational (hopeful!) thought. If they were totally under the radar, it all makes sense. But I have a hard time believing that there wasn't a single outsider who didn't know something was hinky.

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  • PJ's Avatar
    Posted by PJ Tue Apr 8, 2008 9:41pm PDT

    This is why the series on HBO "Big Love" is so fascinating. There are so many lives to live in this country and this kind of life is so hidden, protected, and secluded. Sometimes these communities have their own police and law enforcement that make the rules. Scary. And, of course, like all cults it is very hard to break free mentally, physically, and emotionally.

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  • HatterasGirl's Avatar
    Posted by HatterasGirl Wed Apr 9, 2008 3:54am PDT

    My sister (through her husband) got sucked into a religious sect. It's wasn't polygamist - but similar in that they had a compound that after one of their usual summer visits - my sister didnt return from. Up to that point the religion seemed a little weird - but no red flags were raised. Her oldest and two youngest daughters had been on that trip - and the oldest DID escape. And she told us what was going on. For years we had minimal contact - and she wasn't allowed to go to her oldest's wedding or see the birth of her child. When the youngest (who grew up in the church) chose to marry outside of the church - she was thrown out and my sister was told to never see or speak to her again. It took that - after years of control - to finally break her and she got out too. She had to leave her husband and one of her daughters (who is an adult now and deeply ensconced in the church) behind.

    I tell you all of this because - it happens. There's a fundamentalist religious sect in our area - everyone knows of them. They seem pretty normal - except that they walk everywhere and the way the dress is a bit odd. It doesnt seem like anything horrible is happening there. But could there be? Sure could. Could women be held there, being told that their oldest children, not in the sect, are sinners and fornicators and dead to them? Being told that they are dirt and scum and the only way to salvation is to be reborn in the principles that are being taught on the compound. Absolutely, it could be. But we have "freedom of religion" as a choice in our country. Unless you are on the inside - you dont know if this is a peaceful and healthy choice and lifestyle - or if children are being married off at 14.

    To ask why no one in the community knew seems naive. I bet people DID know women and children were there. But I find it doubtful that anyone knew with certainty about the abuse. If they report that there is a compound of women and children living in their midst... I can hear the response of the police... "and what exactly would you would like us to do about that, miss?"

    What would you do?

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  • Regina T's Avatar
    Posted by Regina T Wed Apr 9, 2008 7:23am PDT

    I just want to make it clear that they are FUNDAMENTALISTS and are not true Mormons. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints has not practiced polygamy in over 100 years.

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  • pussyeater's Avatar
    Posted by pussyeater Wed Apr 9, 2008 7:39am PDT

    if you look at Religion as an acult,then yall should include Jahovahs Witness to the list.My brother and sister belong to the same church and my sister,her husband and 3 sons were cast aside for not performing as childern of god.The church says that when this happens,no one is aloud to have any contact with them that belongs to the church,not even her own brother.But my brother can interact with anyone else,even if they arent with the church.They even have a Bible of there own and written by an unknow person.

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  • kym's Avatar
    Posted by kym Wed Apr 9, 2008 7:51am PDT

    I like that authorty know about this in ther town, and are apart of this or doesn.t want the media in there small towns

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