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Saturday, December 5, 2009

The germ game is on: Teaching kids to wash their hands

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I spent the past week taking care of the dudes in my house. My preschooler had hand, foot and mouth disease, which apparently is on the rise in preschools in my county. Now, adults rarely get hand, foot and mouth disease, but my son lovingly passed it on to my husband. Toward the end of the week, my oldest son was hit with the stomach flu.

Here I was tending to three sick males. (Man cold, anyone?) I had three goals: one, to stay sane; two, to book a weeklong trip far, far away (oh, the sweet bliss of silence); and three, to stay healthy.

Last week was my initiation into this fall's germ fest, where colds, the flu and random bugs start cropping up as kids get immersed into their school year. And it was a not-so-gentle reminder that I need to make sure my kids are diligently washing their hands. Not just getting their hands wet in the sink, but actually washing their hands. With soap (little sneaks).

Teaching your kids to wash their hands is not just about germs that cause illness. Have you ever looked at a young child's hands when she comes home from school? Nastique. They're usually covered in markers, dirt from the playground and probably a little bit of lunch. And boogers. And anything else they've touched since the moment you dropped them off earlier that day.

So here's a little hand-washing 101 to help your kids out:

  • Monkey see, monkey do. For little kids, wash their hands after you wash your hands. Let them participate in the process by getting the soap and creating suds. I tell my kids that if they don't see suds, they're not really washing their hands. And be sure to show them how to wash their hands, fingers and wrists.
  • Time it. It should take about 20 seconds to thoroughly wash hands. Tell your kid to sing "Happy Birthday" or another song while they wash their hands.
  • Rinse. Kids tend to put too much soap on their hands so they to learn how to completely rinse their hands of soap. Otherwise they risk drying out their skin, especially in between their fingers.
  • Routine. Let your kids know when they need to wash their hands. After they...use the bathroom, eat, come home from school, touch garbage, play with a pet, touch anything that has contact with lots of people (shopping carts, buttons on elevators, counters at stores, etc.)
  • Remind. Little kids who've just learned to wash their hands are always eager to practice their new skill. But as the novelty wears off, you'll need to remind them. Often. And you'll need to check their handiwork (heh), because they become quite skilled at saying they've washed their hands when they've only washed a few fingertips. (This is where you employ the sniff test.)

As for what soap you use, it doesn't matter if it's antibacterial or regular hand soap. As long as your kids are doing a good job getting their hands clean, you're in business. Also, don't buy into gimmicky products like Pamper's Kandoo hand soap with funky packaging to get little ones excited. Toddlers will use that entire bottle in an hour. Just use what you have and create the excitement yourself.

And finally, those antibacterial gels and sprays are a nice temporary solution when you're out and about with your kids. They may kill germs, but they don't get rid of dirt. And they're definitely not a substitute for soap and water. When you get home, send your kids to the faucet.

Tips and stories are welcomed. And please, share your stories about your kids getting sick at the same time. I know I'm not the only one!








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  • Mimi-pz's Avatar
    Posted by Mimi-pz Mon Nov 3, 2008 6:48am PST

    Oh gotta love HFM! Both my kids had it - and both very mild (thankfully).

    It whips through Day Care faster than pink eye apparently!

    Hope you're all recovering well!

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  • Phoenix's Avatar
    Posted by Phoenix Mon Nov 3, 2008 10:06am PST

    Thank you for this post! Thank goodness someone's out there making sure the next generation knows proper hygiene. Hooray for clean hands!

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  • HotCrossBuns's Avatar
    Posted by HotCrossBuns Mon Nov 3, 2008 3:01pm PST

    germs, yuck! It's a rule in our house that we wash hands immediately upon entering (especially from school or shopping!) and also before leaving, so that we don't take our germs out into the world and share them.

    I do still have to remind them about often, but I'm a bit of a germaphobe so they've gotten used to the 3rd degree on proper hygiene!

    Last year I had all 3 kids come down with the same puking virus on the same day. Kid2 started puking on the couch while napping, and as I was cleaning it up, Kid3 laid a nice pile for me in the kitchen. Kid1, who went upstairs to watch TV in my bed to stay away from the pukers...started puking on my carpeted bedroom floor while I was still cleaning messes 1 and 2!

    I had 3 kids all puking in 10-15 minute intervals and couldn't get one mess cleaned up before another mess started, especially with running between 2 floors. I finally called my husband at work and begged an SOS...By the time he got home 40 mintues later I had all 3 kids in one room with garbage pails,trash bags, and towels staged around the room to avoid any more spillage. Thank goodness it ended up being only a 48 hour bug.

    (...The following week we had the professional carpet/upholstery cleaners out to the house!)

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  • just aumoe's Avatar
    Posted by just aumoe Mon Nov 3, 2008 7:27pm PST

    I always had my daughter sing the Alphabet song while washing her hands. It is just about as long as you need for the soap to do it's job. ABCDEFG HIJKLMNOP QRSTUV WXYZ Now I've said my ABC's and washed those germs right off of me!

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  • Jezabel's Avatar
    Posted by Jezabel Tue Nov 4, 2008 9:27am PST

    I am a hand washing nazi. I need to wash my hands before i eat, regardless where or with who. Too many adults sit at the table without rubbing off the nasty who-knows-what on their hands. Bleh.

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  • Margie A's Avatar
    Posted by Margie A Tue Nov 4, 2008 11:17am PST

    For your list of things to wash hands after touching, it's a bit obscurely known, however, telephones, keyboards and mice of computers are the biggest germ spreaders known to date

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  • HotCrossBuns's Avatar
    Posted by HotCrossBuns Tue Nov 4, 2008 11:22am PST

    marma: after a recent study we can add to your list: sink spigots and fridge handles. BLECH!!

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  • HotCrossBuns's Avatar
    Posted by HotCrossBuns Tue Nov 4, 2008 1:25pm PST

    none: your mother must be so proud.

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  • carvergirl616's Avatar
    Posted by carvergirl616 Wed Nov 5, 2008 7:33am PST

    I worked in a preschool for 3 years, and was shocked to discover that we were ALL washing our hands wrong. We were taught to sing the Happy Birthday song, too - but you'd be surprised how long that actually is in hand-washing-time. We all wash our hands - yes - but the number of people who actually do it correctly isn't very high. It's a great habit to have, and will help in the fight against cold/flu. For more great tips on beating the cold/flu season, check out this prevention blog at http://buzz.prevention.com/community/fit-figures/help-your-body-out-immune-boosters-for-the-cold-season.

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  • Lynn's Avatar
    Posted by Lynn Wed Nov 5, 2008 6:55pm PST

    I am afraid that if your kids constantly wash their hands and don't start getting immune to germs while they are kids... They will get very sick. send them out side.. let them roll in the dirt.. let them be around kids that have colds, chicken pox.. kids should be able to fight this stuff as they get older and they won't be able to do so if they are constantly sterile. Antibiotics can become useless in the long run because the body eventually gets used to it and the antibiotic won't work anymore..

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