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Monday, November 30, 2009

Top 5 Mistakes We Make Teaching Kids About Money

By Laura Rowley


We all make stupid money mistakes. Find out if you're making bad money decisions with this advice from Kodak spokesperson and money expert Laura Rowley.


1. Becoming a Human ATM Machine
Give children an allowance and let them know what they have to pay for out of their own stash—whether it's the ice cream truck, the goodies in the $1 aisle at the discount store or that Scholastic book order form that comes home from school. This reduces nagging, allows them to develop math skills and learn from their mistakes. It's amazing to see how much more they value the things they paid for themselves.


2. Overlooking Every Day Lessons
Don't miss opportunities to discuss simple economics in every day settings. While grocery shopping, explain why it's smarter to choose the package that costs less per pound, or the more affordable generic brand; and why it makes sense to stock up when an item is on sale. Explain why savvy savings habits make sense: "By saving just $15 a week using the grocery store's loyalty cards and coupons, we'll have almost $800 at the end of the year to spend on something fun."

3. Not Involving Kids in Longer-Term Goals
Solid money management comes down to two things, planning ahead and making choices. If you're planning a vacation, talk to the kids about the budget: airfare, lodging and entertainment. Take a coffee can and label it the "Vacation Fund" and throw in your loose change at the end of the day. Take the coins to the bank and show the kids how the money is adding up; and how the bank will pay you interest for storing the cash in a savings account. Give them a specific budget for souvenirs—say $15—and suggest they increase it by earning cash for the trip through lemonade stands, dog sitting or lawn mowing.


4. Missing the Opportunity to Motivate Their Savings Habits
If your kids put money in the bank, match their contributions. I took my kids to our local bank branch when they were 8, 6 and 4 and opened savings accounts for all of them. I matched the money they deposited, using the opportunity to discuss how a 401(k) plan works and why someone should contribute up to the amount of the company match (free money!).


5. Not Explaining How Plastic Works
According to a study by Nellie Mae, the student loan firm, the average college freshman has $1,500 in credit card debt, and that figure doubles by the time they graduate. Some 56 percent of college seniors carry four or more credit cards. That's when the real trouble starts, because if teens lose the battle to understand and manage credit cards at 18, the damage can haunt them for years. An estimated 70 percent of employers check credit scores before they hire. Over time, a low credit score will suck tens of thousands of dollars out of your child's pocket when they seek financing for an auto or a home. Consider allowing a teen to practice with a pre-paid, reloadable debit card such as Visa Buxx. It has fewer fees than competing cards and features parental controls—such as setting a weekly cash limit. Parents can also get email alerts showing when and where a teen used the card, setting the stage for discussions about wise spending.



Do you have any fail-proof methods for talking money with your children? Chime in here and share your techniques!

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  • miss my family's Avatar
    Posted by miss my family Tue Sep 29, 2009 9:49pm PDT

    Don't agree with 1 4 or 5.

    1 I don't believe children need an allowance. And a lot of families can't afford it. The way I look at it why should we pay kids for living? We pay for everything they have they don't need to be handed money also. If they want to earn money from other people fine but they don't need to be handed money monthly/weekly. Plus even if they have money their not allowed to spend it without me approving it. God only knows what they'd come home with.

    4 First of all kids don't need a bank account. But if they have one yet again I say they should earn the money they put in it not have their parents putting in half. I mean they said at the beginning don't be your kids atm and now they want us to fork over all this money? And again what about the families who can't afford that? It's gonna make those kids feel like their parents just don't care.

    5 This one I disagree with the most. Don't hand your kid a credit/debit card. They don't need to be taught how to go in debt. I've never had a credit card and refuse to get one for many reasons. One being that if you don't have the money for it you shouldn't buy it. I've watched tons of my friends (age range from teens to 50's some 60's+ but not as many) get those cards and then go deep in debt. It's because their in the mindset "I don't have the money for this but I do have this card" and that's a bad mentality to have. I've had too many people with and without credit cards warn me against it. I'm thankful I'm the type of person who can learn from others mistakes and not have to do them myself before I get the point.

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  • Joe's Avatar
    Posted by Joe Tue Sep 29, 2009 11:50pm PDT

    Children don't "need" an allowance, but it is a good way for them to learn how to manage their money at a young age. I agree you shouldn't just be handing it out, giving them a small amount of money per week for doing age appropriate chores around the house works for us, and it helps them better understand the relation between work and reward.

    There's nothing wrong with children having a bank account! I had one and I bet you did too. It was always a great feeling to see the interest grow on my savings account, albeit not by very much. I would usually take birthday or Christmas money and save half in my account, and spend the rest.

    Credit cards are bad period. It is a shame that young adults are taught that you need a credit card so you can have established credit, when many adults cannot handle that responsibility. Giving your child a credit card is a terrible idea, why not just educate them on the evils of plastic money?

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  • Crystal Annlin McClen's Avatar
    Posted by Crystal Annlin McClen Wed Sep 30, 2009 1:09am PDT

    yeah i agree with the last one... because my mum not me a credit card when i went away to college after i TOLD HER i didn't want one... luckily shes paying for it (again she got it in my name for me after i told her i didn't want one) b/c i wasn't because i didn't want one...

    Also it IS good for kids to know how to use money wisely starting from a young age, its what we do with my niece (even tho shes only 2).. heck my grandma usually gives her a dollar to put in her baby purse that my sister puts away...

    Actually if my mum had done the whole "allowance" thing with me i probably wouldn't be either too stingy (which i am) or too spendy (which i also am but less often than stingy)

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  • miss my family's Avatar
    Posted by miss my family Wed Sep 30, 2009 11:42am PDT

    No I didn't have a bank account as a child. In fact (and I'm in my late teens) I never even heard of a kid having a bank account. Not unless they were famous or something. I didn't even know they did that when I was little. Any money I got I earned and put in my piggy bank until I had enough for whatever it was I wanted. My parents only paid us if we asked for an extra chore (which was always harder than our regular chores) to make some money. They did not give us any money for doing the chores we were supposed to be doing. Kids should be doing their chores not because they get money but because they should be helping. I see no reason to just hand kids money when you already buy everything they have. They should earn it. And we learned good money managing skills from the money we earned. You don't have to just give your kids money for stuff they should be doing anyway to teach them how to manage money. Trust me you feel a lot better about yourself when you actually earn it. Not if your just given a free ride. I think of all these kids today who complain about their allowances and I can't help but laugh. Maybe the reason kids act so rude to their parents these days is because they get a free ride. They don't actually have to earn anything it's just handed to them. And doing everyday chores isn't earning it. Chores are chores and you shouldn't expect to get paid to do them. Do you get paid for doing chores? It's called being a family and everyone pitching in and you shouldn't be paid to be a family.

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  • Joe's Avatar
    Posted by Joe Wed Sep 30, 2009 5:32pm PDT

    I don’t really see the difference in having a piggy bank and a savings account. They have youth savings accounts and you don’t need to have a ton of money in them, money that we give the kids is never a large ammount. They are doing their chores, and right now money is too tight for us to spare an allowance for them and they understand it. They know that as parents we don’t have all the luxuries we would like to right now so we certainly can’t provide them with any, but the work still needs to get done to be a part of the family. I still think that managing money is a skill children should already have before they go out into the world and make their own, so they know how to not screw it up. That doesn’t mean give them 10% of your paycheck, but a couple dollars a week for even the poorest family isn’t going to break them, and the child will appreciate having and earning their own money.

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  • miss my family's Avatar
    Posted by miss my family Wed Sep 30, 2009 10:07pm PDT

    but a couple dollars a week for even the poorest family isn’t going to break them, and the child will appreciate having and earning their own money.

    And it isn't going to hurt those kids NOT to be handed that money. And they didn't earn it if they just did regular household chores. It's only earning it when they do MORE. Do you get paid to go home and clean up? Why should they. And like I said we learned to manage our money with money that we EARNED. And your theory of a couple bucks a week won't hurt even the poorest family isn't true. Some people don't have ANY left over after paying the bills and buying food and other household needs. They shouldn't feel like they owe their kids on top of that.

    Kids get to many free rides these days. They need to learn to earn what they have. Not expect it. (not counting clothes and food and presents and things like that. I just mean extras.) We earned what we had and we felt pride. When other kids were talking about their parents giving them their money we were proud to say we earned it.

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  • yaya's Avatar
    Posted by yaya Thu Oct 1, 2009 1:41pm PDT

    'We pay for everything they have they don't need to be handed money also.'

    That was the point of Number 1, if you give them allowance then you wouldnt HAVE to pay for everything.

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  • miss my family's Avatar
    Posted by miss my family Thu Oct 1, 2009 2:34pm PDT

    No giving them an allowance is so they can buy what they want not what they need. By paying for everything I meant everything they need. Are you implying that we should give them an allowance and make them pay for their own food/clothes etc.? Because wouldn't it be simpler just to buy the items they need.

    Kids don't need an allowance. I'm not going to hand money over to my kids just for doing chores that they were supposed to be doing in the first place.

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  • Mark's Avatar
    Posted by Mark Fri Oct 9, 2009 5:16pm PDT

    do you tell them how much the fees are on the visa buxx card? Or just tell them that cash is always better?

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  • M G H's Avatar
    Posted by M G H Fri Oct 9, 2009 5:17pm PDT

    I had a bank account when I was a child, and so did everyone else in my class at school. I must be getting old. ;)

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