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Wednesday, February 10, 2010

User post: How to throw your kid an eco-friendly birthday party for under $50


The Barnacle (read: baby) turns two next week and I've got 30 people descending on my house on Friday whose ages range from one to 100. (Seriously. The genes in my husband's family are ridiculous.)

Since I had to schedule it after nap time for her and relatively close to end-of-work hours for the adults, the party is from 4 to 7. All you veteran birthday party throwers know what that means: Not only do I have to do decorations, party favors and cake, but now I'm making dinner, too. Oh, joy.

But did you watch the video yet? I mean is there anything I wouldn't do for that adorable little monkey to exend the photo opp? Dinner it is.

Now the temptation at this point is to grab a bunch of cheap disposable plates, order Domino's and call it a day. But that would be very un-green. In fact, I would say that's Mommy Brownest behavior. So my quest is to create a kids' birthday party that's relatively eco-friendly and, most importantly considering the economic crisis my family is feeling so sharply these days, cheap.

FIRST ADD FLOWERS

First on the agenda: Decorations. I'm going to skip the balloons this year. Despite the fact that latex is a natural substance that biodegrades, and I can buy compostable ribbon, I'm going with tiny bouquets of flowers scattered on the table. Flowers don't take six months to biodegrade, during which time even a latex balloon could wreak all kinds of havoc to a wayward pelican. Although I really love these gnome-shaped numbers embedded with flower seeds!

My cost? Free, if you don't count labor, since I'm making bouquets of flowers and herbs from my garden. Environmental cost? If you can't get them from your ground, find flowers at EcoFlowers, which sells in bulk for less and is all kinds of sustainable.

SERVE IT UP

Instead of using disposables, I'm committed to washing dishes later in the evening. But because I simply don't have enough glasses for that many kids, I'm going to invest in some corn-based biodegradable plastic cups to fill with organic apple juice diluted with water. Rather than going to the landfill, these will go into my compost, where they'll break down into water, carbon dioxide and organic material within three months--as opposed to plastic cups, which take 500 years or more and never fully biodegrade, but just break down into tiny pieces that can distrupt the eco-system. But I digress. These days, you can get biodegradeable plastic cups, cutlery, plates and bowls in many supermarkets, including, of course, Whole Foods.

My cost? $20 for 50 for the cups. And about $7 for the juice. Environmental cost? Minimal, unless you get all nitpicky about it and figure out how much fossil fuel the cup company used in production. Whatevah.

PEACE A PIZZA

Rather than ordering pizza made from inorganic ingredients and a whole lotta sugar, I'm going to make my own. I like the whole wheat dough ($.99 for enough dough for two pies) from Trader Joe's, but in a pinch I'd use a Boboli. Making that much pizza dough is just plain scary. TJs also has some great organic tomato sauce ($1.39 spreads on four) and organic shredded mozzarella (enough for four at $3.79). For an adult option, I'll spread organic pesto ($2.19 for two), cover it with organic diced asparagus ($5.49 for two), throw on a few basil leaves from the herb garden (free!) and add chunks of feta cheese ($2.99 for two) to the mozzarella. Yum! To save plates, we'll serve on mismatched cloth napkins, rather than some vaguely Disney-an character she'd barely recognize.

My cost? $18.82 for six pies. Environmental cost: All organic, so no chemicals there. And I'll try to buy as much as I can locally produced. Too bad it's not still tomato season, but we eat ours faster than I could've canned them, anyway.

LET THEM EAT CAKE

Now the piece de resistance: The cake. After a serious boxed-batter dependency--I have three kids; we make a lot of cakes--I broke out the old Joy of Cooking last week and was pleasantly surprised by how damn easy a homemade sponge cake can be. Flour, eggs, baking powder, sugar; powdered sugar for the frosting. That's pretty much it. And it's a non-crumbly cake that can be served--you guessed it--on napkins.

I'm not going to itemize the cost, but I'd estimate about $4 for the whole shebang. And that's using organic and free range everything.

FINISHING TOUCHES

What's left? We're doing a gift trade, where everyone brings a gift for a two-year-old and they all pick one to take home, including Chloe. So that takes care of the gift bags.

Hmm... entertainment. What's more entertaining than a bunch of two-year-olds wreaking havoc on my house? Free and eco-friendly!

That's $49.82, start to finish. Wish me luck.

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  • jmpmaher's Avatar
    Posted by jmpmaher Sun Jan 11, 2009 2:43pm PST

    Some great ideas. I don't know about serving pizza and cake on cloth napkins, though. Especially to two-year-olds. Hope you've stocked up on lots of green cleaning products as well. Good luck!

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  • Kari's Avatar
    Posted by Kari Sun Jan 11, 2009 3:42pm PST

    What a neat article

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  • John's Avatar
    Posted by John Tue Jan 13, 2009 4:36am PST

    I'm all for being a good steward for the planet, but it's a little overboard when you're planning a party for your youngster and the first thing you think of is how to make the party "green," and "organic."

    It gives me the impression that this is an obsession which would permeate everyday life and detract from actually making life good for the FAMILY.

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  • FF's Avatar
    Posted by FF Tue Jan 13, 2009 4:16pm PST

    I'm curious to how all the components of a cake only cost you 4 dollars, eggs are like 4 dollars by themselves, then so is flour, so is sugar... Baking products are expensive, but I guess if you already have everything..

    I suppose I should stock up on everything for when I move out of the parents house next month, it's fun being a college student!

    Read up about it, on my blog

    The Confessions of a Real-Life College Student!

    With love,

    ff

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  • sm101's Avatar
    Posted by sm101 Sat Jan 31, 2009 8:30pm PST

    My DD turns 6 this week. Each year, we also do a gift exchange or gifts-to-charity gig, and forgo the goody bags (useless junk and sugar anyway). Because her birthday is 6 weeks after Christmas, she doesn't need toys from 10 of her closest friends. Don't get me wrong, she still gets presents from family, so she doesn't go completely without. Last year, she collected toys for the church nursery, and this year we're having a book swap. As a bonus, she gets to see the value of giving and sharing with others.

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  • lillith's Avatar
    Posted by lillith Sat Jan 31, 2009 9:55pm PST

    i liked your article. i'm having a "green" wedding and am trying to think outside the box and do organic as much as possible. i need a source for affordable, organic cloth napkins.....someone out there read this and send me a holla! ji_gen_ni@ya-hoo

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    Posted by lillith Sat Jan 31, 2009 9:55pm PST

    i liked your article. i'm having a "green" wedding and am trying to think outside the box and do organic as much as possible. i need a source for affordable, organic cloth napkins.....someone out there read this and send me a holla! ji_gen_ni@ya-hoo

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  • MARA's Avatar
    Posted by MARA Sun Feb 1, 2009 9:23am PST

    Nice to see people getting back to the old-time basics! This is how I grew up.....we grew, ca veggiesnned, froze, and ate our homegrown veggies. We dried a lot of our herbs as well as used fresh ones. And birthdays were a family affair. I grew up going to my grandmothers farm which was very multifunctional(stock, fruit, veggies, chickens, milk, eggs, and butter) and learning how to take cream off the fresh milk, churn butter,etc. Those values need to come back for Americans to survive. Kids just want their b-day remembered not some fancy stressed out function!!! I didn't have the fancy stressed out versions and neither did my children nor my grandchildren and we are all fine with it!

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