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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

User post: What's more acceptable, kids smoking cigarettes or pot?

It seems more and more nowadays, cigarette smoking is going by the wayside. It kills you, makes your teeth stain, your clothes stink and gives nonsmokers the ability to give the "eat crap and die look," faster than taking a shooter at a nightclub. If the hike in price of the packs of twenty, thin, tobacco filled sticks doesn't get you, cancer will.

Growing up as a child, I remember everyone smoking. They smoked at work, in the car, at parties, in the bathroom... the list goes on and on. Children could even be sent down the road to pick up a pack of cigarettes for their parents. Choosing to smoke was the rite of passage from childhood to adulthood. Or so it seemed...

In college, smoking was still seen as something cool to do. I can warrant even today in high school's across the country, a pack of girls and guys are lighting up to make their image more appealing. In college though, smoking pot was the "cooler" to do than smoke cigarettes. Groups of kids I knew only smoked pot and left the cigarettes alone. Cigarettes were become less popular too be seen toting around in your pocket or handbag. Rolling papers and crumpled sandwich bags of weed were the newest label for "coolness."

With society's push, along with the federal government and insurance companies help, smoking has become expensive and repulsive. Pot on the other hand has been given a new look through government and the older generation. We now no longer believe pot is as harmful as once believed and many question whether or not it is as harmful as tobacco. State after state have begun putting on their voting ballots legalization in some form or another of this plant. It's as if we are all wondering when it will be legal not if it will become legal.

Will pot be more acceptable than cigarettes? Will we rather our children smoke marijuana than tobacco at some point?
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  • J Montana™'s Avatar
    Posted by J Montana™ Mon Jul 13, 2009 1:11pm PDT

    I would hope that my son does not smoke either one, Cigs or Pot.

    I can only ask that he waits to become an adult to make his decision.

    Great post Apple!

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  • Apple's Avatar
    Posted by Apple Mon Jul 13, 2009 1:18pm PDT

    I know me too.

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  • Habanero♥™'s Avatar
    Posted by Habanero♥™ Mon Jul 13, 2009 1:31pm PDT

    Apple: In the perfect world neither is a habit that is healthy, cheap or socially acceptable any more and a problem that I would wish no parent had to worry about.

    I think the question should be alcohol or pot? In this case I most definitely say pot!

    Smoking anything, in my eyes, is committing suicide over a very long period of time.

    I do have family members who are in their 60's - 80's who have been smoking pot forever and I am yet to see any health failings due to it. So I don't know.

    I quit smoking cigarettes a year ago April and I have never been able to smoke pot. My sucking Hershey's Syrup directly out of the can was not an appealing sight to say the least!

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  • Apple's Avatar
    Posted by Apple Mon Jul 13, 2009 2:22pm PDT

    Habanero: I remember reading earlier this year about your quitting smoking. Congrats on your continued abstinence. To all that want to quit, I wish the same. It's a nasty little habit that many do, even if they do not admit to it.

    I have read about increase in COPD with pot smokers... Also many parents that smoke, cigs or pot, do it with their children when the child is older. I wonder what that tell about the relationship of the parent and child?

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  • Habanero♥™'s Avatar
    Posted by Habanero♥™ Tue Jul 14, 2009 4:33am PDT

    Apple: I think it says the same thing for a parent and grown child who share a beer together. The only difference is that pot, although it is a gift of nature and grown freely, is illegal. Alcohol is no longer prohibited so it is man made and acceptable.

    I have lost way too many friends and family members due to alcohol. I have never lost a family member to pot. Either through an accident or from illness.

    So what do YOU think it says about a parent and a grown child who partake in either?

    This is an interesting topic.........

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  • Apple's Avatar
    Posted by Apple Tue Jul 14, 2009 7:30am PDT

    I think it odd for parents to smoke pot together. Maybe because it's defined by being illegal. Drinking: well hello my family is from drinking roots. Maybe my view of parent and grown children partaking in has to do with if the substance is legal or not.

    I may not always follow the rules but some seem to be ingrained into my brain you know?

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  • G's Avatar
    Posted by G Tue Jul 14, 2009 10:46pm PDT

    Neither.

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  • Sue's Avatar
    Posted by Sue Tue Jul 14, 2009 10:53pm PDT

    Yes, I do believe it is more a question of alcohol or pot, but I believe the issue is more the epidemic American misunderstanding of moderation. Pot may become legal one day, but like alcohol it can abused. This is more likely to happen in a culture that consumes to excess.

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  • wayne's Avatar
    Posted by wayne Wed Jul 15, 2009 1:58am PDT

    so in the bout between cigs or pot? hands down pot its natural and unaltered when i partook of smoking i never had a hangover there is no such thing as ODing you fall asleep alcohol is the worst drug in the world ....its plays off how your emotions are running at the time...happy sad or very angry.....pot is just ...chill.....

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  • Rowdygirl's Avatar
    Posted by Rowdygirl Wed Jul 15, 2009 5:33am PDT

    Why does it have to either one? How about no to both?

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