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Friday, December 11, 2009

What Will Toddlers Remember?

When Casey told her son Will that the Weisses were coming over for dinner that night, his response took her by surprise: "Don't forget the strawberry cupcakes." Three-year-old Will was recalling that the Weiss' son liked the cupcakes Casey had served at a dinner party eight months earlier, when he was only two. As precocious as his memory might seem, though, by the time Will reaches school age, the strawberry cupcakes will be gone, along with his recollections of most, if not all, of his first three years.

Psychologists refer to this as "childhood amnesia." But it only applies to certain kinds of memory — kids retain plenty of information from the early years. If Will's dad teaches him to throw a baseball, he may remember how for the rest of his life. Not only that, but the emotional memories of childhood have a lasting impact. Long after the image of the cupcakes has faded, Will might be left with warm feelings towards sweets and social gatherings. Researchers now know this is because the brain doesn't have just one record button. By studying healthy kids as well as adults who have lost certain kinds of memory completely, psychologists have come a long way in explaining how early childhood can be so formative long after our memories of these years have completely vanished.

The most famous patient in brain research, Henry Molaison, known for decades as H.M., passed away recently in a nursing home in Connecticut. Born in 1926, he suffered from severe epilepsy until, at age twenty-seven, he underwent a radical surgery in which doctors removed two slivers deep in his brain, just at ear level. When H.M. woke up, his seizure disorder was cured, but he had lost the ability to form new memories. He remembered his childhood, but, from the time of the surgery until his death at age eighty-three, new memories stayed in his consciousness for about twenty seconds and then disappeared. A lot of what we know today about how memory develops began with H.M. It turns out that for the first few months of life, babies operate much like the famous amnesiac. Babies then gradually become more skilled at memory as the part of their brain that H.M. lived without begins to grow.

Even though their memories are just beginning to ripen, newborns are surprisingly good at knowing what they've seen or heard before, a skill referred to as recognition. To test the abilities of the tiniest babies, researchers take advantage of the infant sucking reflex. When they are given a pacifier that controls what they see or hear, depending on how fast they suck, babies just days old will adjust their sucking rates to spend more time looking at a picture of mom's face, or listening to the words of a book she read aloud in her pregnancy. The fact that a baby recognizes what is familiar to her (and prefers to see and hear her parents) means that, in some form, she is storing memories of her experiences right from the start.

An experiment designed by Carolyn Rovee-Collier in the 1970s is still used today to test just how long infant memories are stored. Researchers lay a baby on her back so that she's looking up at a mobile. They tie the mobile to the baby's foot with a ribbon so that when she kicks, the mobile comes to life. The baby quickly learns to kick more vigorously to watch the mobile dance. Then, after days have passed without any exposure to the set up, she is put back in her crib with the mobile, but it's no longer attached to her foot. When they see the mobile, most babies start to kick furiously, remembering the fun they had with it days before. Two-month-olds remember if they are tested a day or two later, while six-month-olds remember for about two weeks.

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  • Chrystani's Avatar
    Posted by Chrystani Thu Jan 15, 2009 12:58pm PST

    I know this is going to sound like B.S. but I remember my first bday.

    I'm 23 now. I don't remember it like it happened yesterday, but I remember vague things like the feeling of my dress.

    I also remember when I was probably about 16 months and my mom would put e in one of those kid swimming pools and let me swim in the living room. It's so weird.

    But I'm for real.

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  • Kari's Avatar
    Posted by Kari Fri Jan 16, 2009 11:32am PST

    What a cool post!

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  • Jene's Avatar
    Posted by Jene Sat Jan 17, 2009 4:45pm PST

    yep I remember I was about 15 months old sneaking behind my parents couch with my cocker spaniel brandy who died when I was 2 and eat his cookies with him..Why I as a toddler ate dog cookies? I'll never know. I really loved that dog enough to eat cookies with him.

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  • Kristy T's Avatar
    Posted by Kristy T Mon Jan 19, 2009 3:21am PST

    about four months ago I handed my cousin, 2, a sea shell and told him to listen for the ocean.

    Last week he took the shell down and said he could hear the ocean. Then he asked my mother and my grandmother to listen to it too.

    it was so random and amazing. I love that kid.

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  • Lindsey's Avatar
    Posted by Lindsey Mon Jan 19, 2009 11:13am PST

    I once took my 2 yr old cousin food shopping with me and when we were halfway home she told me we forgot the cheese...low and behold, we had forgotten the cheese! I was astounded that she remembered and I didn't (although she loves her cheese!)

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  • Hally's Avatar
    Posted by Hally Mon Jan 19, 2009 2:44pm PST

    My earliest memory is of being in my crib during a thunderstorm. I remember seeing the lightening flash, and hearing the thunder roar. I started crying. I didn't know what it was, but it sounded so scary. I remember my mom coming into the room, and I remember thinking she looked like a princess come to save me (later I realized that the princess-like quality was her flowing nightgown). She laid me back down, and I can still feel the mattress and see the blue lamb painted on the crib's headboard. My mom says I had to be about 15 or 16 months old because by the fall, she had moved me into a "big birl" bed.

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  • christine's Avatar
    Posted by christine Sun Jan 25, 2009 6:17am PST

    I have three girls under five years old. While getting ready to leave the house in a rush, my 2 year old said "Ma Ma, baby needs a hat." And she was right- I had always put a hat on my newborn, but in the rush I forgot and big sister remembered! Thank you my "Little Mommy!"

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  • Tidelain's Avatar
    Posted by Tidelain Sun Jan 25, 2009 6:26am PST

    I remember taking my first steps. My grandmother did a lot of sewing and she had some straight pins that were in a heart-shaped container. I remember my brother shaking the container at me, with the pins rattling inside, telling me to come and get it. As I took my first steps, I remember my brother and four sisters clapping and cheering as I walked to get the container. Weird, I know, being that I am 42 years old. I specifically remember the heart-shaped container that was clear on top and red on bottom.

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  • Vance's Avatar
    Posted by Vance Sun Jan 25, 2009 6:53am PST

    When I was young, I had very vivid memories of people with doctors’ masks, looking down on me. As if I was lying on a table or on my back looking up. I would ask from time to time if I ever had an operation or what happened to me. I would even ask our family doctor about it. Everyone always said no. I remember a very bright light in the middle and faces with masks over their nose and mouth. They were all in a circle around the light, bent over, facing in, and their heads pointing towards at the light. This light had six bulbs. One large one in the middle, five smaller around the outside equally spaced with a couple of thin metal rings. Each light bulb looked as if had been held upside down and dipped half way into something dark or silver. By time I was a teenager, I stopped asking. Sometime in my middle to late teens, I saw a picture/painting with this light in it. I was stunned. Although you could not see any part of the patient, it depicted doctors and nurses standing around this light, helping the mother give birth.

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  • thatgirl's Avatar
    Posted by thatgirl Sun Jan 25, 2009 7:11am PST

    I remember dancing in front of the TV when JFK died, and my grandmother was crying in the chair behind me. I was almost one year. If I look at two baby photos, I can remember taking photos at 6 months on the changing table with toys around me. I described who took the photo to my mother, and she almost fainted.

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